Standard of living becomes better and better now, the parent is done not have basically in the respect that raises child very miserly, but the youth's self-abased rate is increasing however, more of anxious person is, the amount of depressed disease also becomes increasing, why can appear this kind of circumstance, the child is actually self-abased besides be concerned with the economic condition in the home, parental disposition and photograph prescription form, domestic atmosphere has very big effect to the child.
Have the child of affliction characterThe parental relation of Nan Nan is bad, often quarrel.
More inadvertently relation he is good, fast happy, what thinking.
Listen to parents to quarrel every time, nan Nan always can hide in one each oneself feel to install a few quieter place to hide a little. Parents' fierce appearance, looked to let him fear.
Nan Nan is not talktive, do not be willing to convey oneself even, make a speech alone every time, he always feels homecoming mocks him, go up to dais so, with respect to knock stutter cling to, do not say to give a word to come even.
Nan Nan is in the school exceedingly self-abased, always also be misunderstood, but he what won't convey oneself, be misunderstood, become be rendered speechless, other child was gotten first machine, to the top of one's bent " incendiary " do not let him " light a lamp " .
The lifetime of Nan Nan not throat, let others feel, he is good bully, do not have a thing to take him to search happy, calculate a teacher anyway over there, he also is not conveyed what to give! The classmate call jokingly him " Zhi Zhangnan " .
A day, the Nan Nan that comes home alone is given to block whereaboutldirection by a flock of undesirable girls, the hairpin that weighs oneself was lost, he steals suspicion, designed still search his body.
Nan Nan says: "Not " .
What does his boy want the hairpin of the girl to do?
But, the girl still nots comply not forgive, one is insisted even if he was stolen, say this hairpin is very expensive, want his be out of pocket.
Nan Nan is not taken give money to come, by a flock of girl cuff and kick.
Return the home a bloody nose and a swollen facely, this ability takes parents seriously rise, when finding a teacher, the schoolgirl cries early before the teacher lachrymal person, teacher the gravity of one face, said Nan Nan of a lot of trifles is not, still ask him father and mother, why the hairpin that a boy wants to grab the girl, the parents of Nan letting Nan takes Nan Nan to see the doctor in the heart.
The child that often suffers campus force or it is more self-abased child, the family exists what problem
Chinese youth newspaper ever had released a group of data, data surveyed 1999 people, have be as high as 86% to suffer the person that visit to think to campus exists beside oneself " cold force " , again 60.1% suffer the person that visit to think campus " cold force " the inner shading that meets oneself, resembling is abuse, acid and derisive, open repulsion is by accepted is the commonnest school yard cold violent form.
A paragraph " Beijing learns one schoolboy to be coerced eat excrement and urine by the classmate in some " video is mad on the net pass, hold small gain hot search is abiding no less than. In video, the schoolboy that wears school uniform crouchs by the excrement hole of the toilet, after the excrement and urine inside lay a finger on, rise in the classmate surround the hand that oneself licked below view...
No matter be cold force, still be campus bully approach, resembling is the position that this kind of news also held hot search gradually, ceaseless sprint is worn the eyeball of parents, challenging the indignant limit of parents.
Tone difference makes clear, these by the child of ride roughshod over, having inseparable concern with domestic environment mostly, it is self-abased the child that arrives not to know how to protect oneself, resembling is the parents that loves child go about telling people how hard up one is, the domestic problem such as the father and mother that there is violent tendency in the home is the main factor that brings about the child to produce self-abased psychology.
These two kinds of parents raise the child of out low more easily
Violent cantankerous parents
Parents is the child allow teacher, if in a family, quarrelling is parental common occurrence, and always be violent photograph to, , of the heart that harms the child very easily.
The child won't understand parents to who who is wrong, following adult because of the child's world is different! His little heart can get hurt only and do not understand, arise thereby uneasiness and fear!
And force does not point to boxing foot to want to add only, still have the cold force of approach bully heart! Destroy directly also not be dispute, not be domestic dominant authority more, however the child's heart.
In force, the child experiences the warmth of a family and love no longer, come from negative energy of parents however!
Can not be willing to communicate thereby, do not be willing to convey, even if gets because ride roughshod over is self-abased also him beyond expression grievance.
And this kind of way that handles an issue he is be influenced by what one constantly sees and hears, once the limit is set out, the way that can handle an issue with parents exactly like, him even if is the easy also go to extremes that takes put in order!
With the child " go about telling people how hard up one is " parents
The child wants nodical activity fee, parents: "Say with the teacher, we end did not go. We end did not go..
The child should sign up for interest class, parents: "The money of pa Mom paid the tuition fee to you, you have to learn literacy class well, thing knowing a place, the picture draws very wasteful money, did not think in disorder. Did not think in disorder..
Whats did not do the child, parents complains: "If you have you, my life before which have so short of money " ...
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