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01.
To a lot of people, have kind of ineffable divine feeling it seems that to all sorts of first time. Date for the first time for instance, pull a hand for the first time, first time kiss, for the first time...
This kind of affection is understandable, after all almost all people, before ceremonial feeling, resemble the child of a gluttonous candy, gutty close to hold the mood that read aloud.
I also had seen a lot of sweethearts, had gone to be about to enter marital hall obviously, final however go no further is in whether to go up to each other for the first time. Right perhaps the woman, the man's first time may be done not have so care about, but to the man, meet more or less within is gutty and complete misshapen still psychology.
for instance we look " happy eulogy " when, the Qiu Yingying of Yang Zi personate encountered Ying Qin namely, this man looks be like Mu Ne, but maiden complex is very severe, final because Qiu Yingying is not first time,also be and be cold-shouldered by every means by him.
So, this kind hold read aloud after all desirable?
02.
Before bud bud paragraph time is crying to call to me, she says, she and male friend parted company.
I am very curious, obviously their two individual relate are good, had arrived to talk about the phase that marriage talking marries even, say how suddenly to part company?
Although get along,time does not grow, but bilateral parents has met, of quite satisfactory still the other side, put forward to part company at this time, it is to let person expect be less than a bit really.
Ask about the reason that part company.
Bud bud says, advanced before long, they two broke eventually previously the love of Plato type, be in after wine, went hotel.
Originally strong feeling sweet meaning, get along very well. But arrived the following day in the morning, when male friend regains consciousness, the first thing is not to wash a face to brush one's teeth, also not be He Mengmeng chatting conversation. The first business that he does is to turn over quilt look about, as if like wanting to seek what thing.
Leafed through a long time when him, empty-handed however when, the facial instant that just returns in spirits is cloudy come down.
Bud bud be kept inside a drum-be kept in the dark, when wanting to ask what he is looking for, he however one face says gravely: "Are you first time? "Are you first time??
There has been a boy friend before bud bud, that still reads university period to talk. Already lone before encountering this boy friend 3 years, lone in those days muddled, oneself are curious also, before be being mixed, male friend produced an impact.
Bud bud does not want to cheat him, nod then: "Yes! Not be first time! Not be first time!!
Word of male friendly what did not say, get out of bed directly, after getting dressed, accost is not hit went.
Subsequently, bud bud received him part company short message: "Feel embarrassed, I cannot accept my wife is not complete, we are so improper, part company! Part company!!
Bud bud prepares even psychology to be done not have even, be without by him so swung bodefully.
I comfort her, since he cannot accept your past, so although you marry, he still is Yu Huai of meeting be troubled after, with its two people are troubled by so that gallinaceous flying dog jumps in the future, still be inferior to now before it is too late make a thorough break. Such, at you, at him, good.
03.
Still have a friend osmund, also encountered same question with bud bud.
What just differ is, osmund osmund the boy friend has talked about many girlfriends before her, still having even also was to arrive to be about to want what when marrying, just part company.
At the beginning, osmund osmund the reason that the cummer before knowing boy friend and him parts company, just male finally friend is stock trick to oneself when be being applied again, she just understands.
After be contacted intimately, the boy friend says to one's great diappointment with her: "You are not first time, but I am flagrant,the wife that I did not come to is not complete those who belong my person, feel embarrassed so, we cannot marry. We cannot marry..
Osmund osmund He Mengmeng is different, she is much more free and easy.
Say directly: "That also feels embarrassed, just old woman also does not want to marry you! Just old woman also does not want to marry you!!
To such schoolboy, as the man, actually myself sees no less than going to. Typical " official of only accurate state is incendiary, must not common people lights a lamp " , too double mark.
When your other in part in him requirement when, you also want to think your.
If oneself are blameless, so your requirement to other in part with respect to give no cause for more criticism; But if oneself are dissolute half a lifetime, ask other in part belongs your person only however. Won't yourself feel some feel embarrassed?
So osmund osmund practice, simply affording general satisfaction.
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Epilogue:
To the individual's requirement, originally to other people, ought not to have a censure.
The choose of that his individual occasionally standard, the likelihood does not accord with the cognitive idea of a lot of people, but, that also is his individual private affairs. Can find, so congratulation he; If cannot be found, that also is his own problem.
But the key of the problem is, we are asking others while, I feel also should preserve one's moral integrity has been in charge of him; Otherwise, be other to oneself in part do not respect.
Of course, I still am to persuade each female friend, when actually feeling still does not have certain level to go up, some things still are take things easy, do not be eager to temporarily. After all ability of with the passing of time sees popular feeling, wait for you to go until talking about that one pace that marriage talking marries truly, can later big time can be explored.
Because be in now popular thought level, the man says to be absent, because love you really,that is, but there is little estrangement in the heart that does not represent him; Actually most man, special still the wife that cares about oneself belongs to him of a person.
So, although be in amative process, no matter whether feel,the day uses the land, sweet meaning of whether strong feeling, we should self-love, self-prossessed, preserve one's moral integrity.
, END,
Discuss now: Are you additional to you whether is the half to be valued for the first time?
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