In career, total meeting you must get some jobs do, is satisfying manage afflictive how to solve?
The state of mind of sunshine is good beginning
One, jump out to restrain a group
In a lot of things of career, if enter a certain organization, organization, family,be friend circle even, can have in be enmeshed in bewilderment cannot the situation of extricate oneself, we can think as far as possible go what improving. Little imagine, there is the circle that does not jump to go out on this world, the intelligence that wants you only broke through the tie before to encircle (although still can be inside bigger tie group) , the thing also becomes be suddenly enlightened. Common saying of no less than says " remove one condition unrestrained and far -ranging " also having similar effect.
2, the manner that of the change is pair of things
A cup of again light water, let you carry a hour, you are finished very hard also. Of pressure of this no less than like accumulating, if use reason to squelch all the time mood, this itself goes against human nature namely. Can be imagined, you finish the job high gradely very hard also. And such if things go on like this, also be adverse to oneself heart body. Taking a mood to finish the job, also hard to avoid can affect colleague relation. Balance repeatedly, not desirable.
Do not rise without benefit early, should disentomb only favorable point of the thing, basically be mix him height most relevant, visible can measure, so anybody can endeavor had been done. The judgement that everybody orders to the interest is different, the weight that every interest nods is different also, different person is so right same the conclusion of a thing also is met different. Everybody can make judgement according to his information library, at least the information library to his individual, what he does is " accurate judgement " . And the origin that regards information as the library, "Experience " (all information inputs such as knowledge, skill, memory, experience, acknowledge, collect, build compose, iteration) be the branch that how many has, the state of mind that maintains an empty cup so is desirable. More never mention it more rich affection world, art is aesthetic, absurd adds a comment far come ably without understanding, esteem.
1. has done this thing, he can have to my view those who rise, perhaps this is in namely test I;
2. has done this thing, my relevant horizon, skill, thinking can get rising again, each thing is the opportunity that grow;
3. has done this thing, I jumped out oneself comfortable circle, just discover so I still have this kind is likely;
4. has done this thing, . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . You are OK still to the top of one's bent go disentombing
Let his thought flow freely good, if did not make good opposite kill,also experience please. The fact proves: Contrast is bigger, pressure is greater, it is better to finish (had jumped over greatly more inside the range that pressure is not affecting intelligence, behaviour, duration must hold)
3, case other people is sent know, comprehend by analogy, again hard work also can filar silk disintegrate
When a person says I do not like a thing, have to raise the layer level that sees a problem above all one class, just perhaps have difficulty because of the thing? Had not circled, still thinking method is changed, its value can affirm. An important thing, in every case is good solve, we are can willing, after all advantage is great. And if have difficulty to party, criterion hard to avoid can appear resentment. And the train of thought that solves a problem is very serious, space is too long, do not do here extend too much.
The firm with again powerful 1. , it is become by each common post joint efforts;
2. is again arrogant the project that force, also be by each of detail what accuse and come true;
The knowledge with again intimate 3. , also be a development of a land, picture extremely pare onion;
The part with again fierce 4. , also progress bit by bit, at least such at present accumulating of memory of the information of cerebrum, sarcous.
Since you wanted to do, method also will appear as your development ceaselessly. What can happen after all in career, it is really more very not by ourselves pilot, can pilot, only also we are right its manner, behavior.
The information of a person is finite, so the viewpoint is can imperfect.
Those who rejoice is, the viewpoint can form knowledge after collision, and knowledge can be shared.
Expect you communicate sincerely, make us one case ceaseless refine of temper by dipping in water each viewpoint, let grow become joy, relaxed.
