Matrimony is conjugal love and brawl is alternant, it is happiness and misfortune because of scale differs and be being divided.
Real life, do not cross one house, two people, 3 eat, the four seasons.
Can have handled this at 4 o'clock, it is good marriage, processing is bad, the life is in Tartarean.
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One house: Good marriage, want to have favorable living environment
Before marrying, discuss buying a house is a work that does not pass normally, collective life how can little house.
Can afford best, live from now on had leeway, can not afford hire, struggle a few years more day after all is better and better.
Most be afraid of married, the other side does not have the idea that lives together, never want to settle down in the city.
There is an eldest sister in my company, 36 years old, marry 10 years, live apart with Laogong up to now.
Eldest sister hired close from the company small cell alone, her husband lives the employee dormitory of the company. Son of 7 years old follows grandfather grandma in native place.
Eldest sister live frugaly puts money to want to buy a house, carried a few years of Laogong with husband different idea, reason: The house is much more expensive, I do not have money.
All right, it is OK that that rents a big room together? Her husband still does not agree, the money that leaves accommodation province uses smoking to drink.
Her husband pay is not low, return leave out the expense that rents a house, a month puts 779 more than sufficient.
Of be bitterly disappointed making a person is, this husband that married to have the child a bit responsibility is not willing to assume, beg oneself to pass smooth and steadily only, how does wife child future run his not care a cent.
Marrying is not drawing room, it is a graph the feeling of a kind of home. Why a child that has the home originally married, don't have even the home?
Without big house, little room is OK also, without little room, it is OK also to rent a house, important is the family should live together, arrive hand in hand together old.
Want to have one party eave, can allow the sweetness that issues us and brawl, leave the mark that belongs to us, the little that witnesses the child grows, this ability is marriage this some appearance.
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Two people: Good marriage, can two people travel together
In marriage, leading role is two people, hold the 3rd no less than people.
See Du Jiang, can be clear that the marriage that has felt is what appearance.
In first gear program, du Jiang and female honored guest make game, female honored guest is stood by suddenly, du Jiang backs down at once, still state oneself have wife.
Moving place of marriage, had namely exclusive the pay of two people.
My deputy drive can you sit, my hand can you are pulled, from me inside half meters limits, can have your opposite sex only.
What Du Jiang's faithfulness gets is Huo Saiyan's love not only, the success that still his career goes up -- get 100 beautiful award are optimal 2018 male costar.
To the husband and wife of marital faithfulness, pay off necessarily.
Recently, zhang Danfeng is off the rails be troubled by bubbling with noisely. At a draught, he became from good man numerous people indicating broken bits male.
It is good to Hong Xin that he used 10 years of times, the male friend is unripe child before still be being mixed to Hong Xin is good, cannot he had not loved.
Recumbent Hong Xin had famous degree, recumbent family had good public praise, after the career has improvement, zhang Danfeng changed.
He is satisfied at the person of Gu Jiahao's father to set no longer, still think oneself can cast off a ring of light that Hong Xin and family give completely really, the career is further upward.
Then, male nature exposes his broken bits came out.
Betray marriage to hurt a person to also be killed not only oneself, final Zhang Danfeng gets the end with a gloomy career also is to deserve.
The person that goes alone, can go very quickly, but two people that draw a hand, can go very far.
Life this road, husband and wife just goes long-termly hand in hand.
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3 eat: Good marriage, withstand life test
Maerkesi is in " the love of choleraic period " in write down:
"Compared with the gigantic catastrophe in marriage, daily trifling trouble more avoid hard. Daily trifling trouble more avoid hard..
Zhejiang province was released this year provincial 2018 divorce report, near the divorce reason of half husband and wife is the life trifling.
Do not clear away room, processing to not be over kindred, spend the New Year taste of disagreement of a which home, meal, shop expensive...
The life is trifling be all-pervasive, must be like same day usually 3 eat, want to experience everyday.
"Know 3 days, love each other 3 weeks, marry in March, quarrel 3 years, each other are enduring 30 years, this is marriage. This is marriage..
Taigeer describes marriage so again appropriate nevertheless.
Trifling trouble cannot avoid, can do have mutual tolerance only, partake each other.
See his shoe that countless times conveniently drops about, do not enrage urgent under it is good to forget him to help your support sb by the arm everyday by horn.
Seeing her is imbroglio on dresser, she does not forget to place good hot food everyday between one anger.
The person does not have perfect man, we have a lot of little weakness to be in be tolerated.
A word says well: His defect is like star more, the advantage is like the sun, the sun comes out, star was lost sight of!
Although marriage enters the night that star is all over the sky, do not forget to will rise a sun again tomorrow.
The marriage that is willing to be borne all one's life, is why happy?
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The four seasons: Good marriage, want to have emotional appeal
Marital cause is love and responsibility, wrapping around plating golden appearance, the other one side that can live may be drab and bored.
Plunge into directly into marriage, begin to busy at housework, job, look after children, feel the change of the four seasons again hard.
The world outside is very beautiful, we are walked out of very hard however.
Can defeat bored life, have life emotional appeal only.
Lin Yutang has said: "If a person wants to enjoy life really, life is to use up enough he enjoys. Life is to use up enough he enjoys..
Really, the concept of life emotional appeal but can small, want little effort to be able to be created only in marriage come out.
Two people go out going for a spin is a kind of emotional appeal by bike together on the weekend, go up about friend picnic is better.
Meet holiday to drive to be driven oneself swimming also is emotional appeal of a kind of life, if the thing goes more,circumjacent city plays circuit.
Again a bit simpler, two people put down a mobile phone to see ministry movie together, make dinner in the revolve in small kitchen together, open a bottle of red wine to touch a cup, clean a room together, these are life emotional appeal.
Important is, the both sides in marriage has what this heart should spend the time to grow has taste.
Poetic north island has a verse: Glass is bright, orange is brilliant.
Want to have a heart that fills enthusiasm only, ordinary place also can search life emotional appeal.
Chen Yi sings in fast song: "Insignificant accuse it is the life emotional appeal that you want. "Insignificant accuse it is the life emotional appeal that you want..
The feeling of person most propbably that married is deeper, actually beside what a person can listen to us complain, to us a hug is comforted one sentence, it is emotional appeal of a kind of life.
There is heaven in marriage, the person that dares to walk into marriage is the Trojan of the life.
The marriage that we walk into, likely mediocre and unambitious and dim, heavy burden of possible hoisting jack.
Have on the world perfect like angel, never the sweetheart that jealousy quarrels?
Have, marry namely two Lilliputian on cake, because they never need communication.
In marriage, happy terminus finds that to quarrel namely the spouse that makes a noise not to come loose, spend smooth and steady years together, enjoy suffering has sweet world.
