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Because of working relation, the person in small letter communication is increasing, person more than 1 information in succession much also, although cannot accomplish a second to answer, but every my metropolis goes looking.
In these information, one kind lets me feel special to catch mad, is that is fokelore medium " be in? " party.
The mystical place of this kind of person depends on, he won't say to look for you to have what thing continuously forever, but can a string of 1 with two simple words however you, you are answered also is not, be not being answered also is not.
Before paragraph time had a reader to add me, whats did not say, just ask: "Be in? "Be in??
I reply he: "I am in, occupied and OK say to breath out continuously, I see what can answer. I see what can answer..
Did not react next, passed later very long, she says again: "I have kink of a problem very long, do not know to should say. Do not know to should say..
I wait for her patiently to say, but she did not react again. Passed a few days, she sends a paragraph big to scold me directly: "Think you follow other writers originally different, but I think much, still not be same make fun of big shop sign, install Gao Leng, ask a problem to be no good, don't this scorn a person? One defeats those who write an article, what to drag? What to drag??
Next, a few greatly black question mark is permanent on my face ripple, my whole journey is muddled force, want to say what to nod not to know again from why to begin to say, again later, she pulls me directly black.
Up-to-date, I do not know him fault was in.
Between person and person, is what must do so complex? It is living only already very tired, why cannot nod simply, the word says continuously, do not want talk in a roundabout way to be no good?
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It is me not merely actually, everybody should have been encountered more or less.
Friend small foam is more unusual, she once had encountered a classmate, very long did not contact, ask her suddenly one day: "Belle, be in? Be in??
She did not reply, if urgent matter should meet what say directly,the heart considers this person, if taking the tone of p reaper, most it doesn't matter thing, otherwise who will be so dull.
But next day, can the other side come to everyday " be in? " , she answers: "How? What thing can say directly. What thing can say directly..
Next the other side did not react, lie between a day again, say: "Feel embarrassed, occupied yesterday be in busy, be still in now? Be still in now??
The patience of small foam is ground eventually, shook the head decides to manage no longer he. But next the climax came, that classmate looked for other classmates actually, form a delegation will ask her: "Are you in? Xx looks for you occupied, see the reply falls. See the reply falls..
Small foam is forced thoroughly mad, wanted the phone of that classmate directly, hit the past to ask he has what thing. He says, thing of it doesn't matter, am I small believe the first friend to encircle you to you can help me nod an assist? Fill the investigation questionnaire in next links incidentally.
Hum, small foam can help him originally, if he says directly, the fatigue of raise one's hand just, but her whats did not say now, hang a phone directly, pull black him.
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The person is held out occasionally strange, obviously can a big hill walks along pickaback very remote region, ask oneself intelligence is mature, but occasionally a word can break down its break, for example: "Be in? "Be in??
Encounter such situation every time, I can be immersed in long death struggle, not be to considering to want not to reply nevertheless, consider to want not to delete its however.
Because ask the person of this word, respect the time of the other side and value without the consideration already, have clear knowledge without the behavior to oneself and style again.
Such in the course of contacts, besides the time that wasted each other, still can have a paragraph of particularly awkward talk. Because occasionally, you do not say what thing, the other side does not know to should be in really.
Do not reply you, fear you are occupied, reply you, fear you are occupied more, why the word cannot say continuously?
The work of the person that see and all previous is more, mood can be jumped over gentle. Because gradually, we can discover, have let us arrest mad person, have the person that lets our heart give birth to warmth and good impression certainly.
With me for, pay no attention to " be in? " occupied the person that says continuously, it is the light of life. They never messy, occupied say a thing, not only efficient, and always be consider of the other side.
The time of everybody is very valuable, can thinking the place of other thinks is best goodness, know esteem and the person that cherish others time, what scarcely can mix is too poor.
Work not only because of them the manner is precise, and have the moral quality that yields popular feeling to lay warm idea.
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The world becomes busier and busier, we are same also. Crossed you to love to chat I am risible age, even more go off talk in a roundabout way, always hope the life is a bit simpler, again a bit simpler.
The association between person and person is why such? With sincerity and direct person chats, won't feel the life resembles posse inextricability wool forever, the mood is ineffable good, efficiency nature is tall also.
But not be everybody understands this reason, also not be everybody can be accomplished.
So we always can be encountered a few let a person be between tears and smiles and the thing of be rendered speechless, even if be only simple " be in? Even if be only simple " be in??
Need not ask actually in what be absent, because from you the mouth asks " in " that rises momently, the other side has decided otherwise wants a return you.
If you have urgent thing, scarcely can ask be in.
If do not have urgent matter, do not reply that time the concern is not big also.
So, calculated, you ask me " in " when, I do not want to be in really, because you are undeserved,I am in.