I read in one's childhood poor, the exam takes an examination of rubric, do not take an examination of namely. Have a year of examination, I am good exceed 60 minutes not easily, gladly recapture home looks to father. My father is having a meal, he puts down a bowl to burst out laughing. Brother elder sister is very strange, one's deceased father so sodden still laugh.
Father says: "So old come I am seeking a successor all the time, found eventually now. " I listen, bad! Father is farmer, up 3 generation are farmer, I do not make farmer, so diligent later effort reads.
I discover mainland parent very care about achievement, want to let the child take an examination of the first. Actually, showing alive bound elite is not in those days the best of its kind is strange, their rank in class is the 7th goes to the 17th. The reason is these children human relationship is better, can become a friend with the first, also can become a friend with last, and child pressure is little, the life is more comfortable, originality is best.
If your child is the first, let him fasten so hard, it is OK to take the 7th easily to go to 17; If your child is hind a few, before that lets him hard be entered 17 inside. Why to mention the 17th? The secret that is myself success then -- in one's childhood we have 17 people that class only.
The child needs the assurance of adult
When the high school on me, a teacher invites me to eat dinner, those who eat is dumpling, I am very happy. When dumpling end arrives on the desk, my tear fell down. If the teacher says more let me touch, he says: "My teach 50 years, I assure with my life and you, you can succeed certainly in the future. You can succeed certainly in the future..
Wow! I was touched more, tear is dropped go up in dumpling. All along nobody understands me, assure to me with life. Spent two weeks, my hope is undone, because every classmate has gone to whole class,dumpling eats in his home. He has assured with life to every classmate.
What does the result that studies an university represent
Take an examination of an university, did not take an examination of the first year on, also did not take an examination of the 2nd year on, went up the 3rd year at taking an examination of eventually. The university admits a mark is 361, I am taken an examination of 361.5, return the home I am written with red paper on " respectful autograph of Zhu Linqing Xuan Jinbang " stick on the gate.
Attended a college, I consider who removing is the favorite that takes an examination of 361 minutes. After an investigation, I discover is Zhang Yi. He is become later " room of coloured glaze labour " the boss of the company, 500 strong companies of world.
Say so, likelihood child achievement is not very crackajack, not be so good, but do not abandon, because every child on the world is different, resemble cultivating substance same, hillside ground is planted bamboo shoot, banana, kind of dene watermelon and Hami melon, plant in sodden mud taro, different plant suits different land, do not have a look only.
The distress of this world assembles all different children in a campus namely, the hope teachs same pattern, this is a big question.
Good child was waked up namely inner seed
Want to teach the child according to the child's characteristic, wake up the seed of child heart namely. Good child is the child that already woke up inner seed, they realised ego; Bad child has not waked up a seed, did not realise ego, return ignorant land living.
I am the person that aroused inner seed, from elementary school 3 grade become a writer with respect to aspire, elementary school begins to write 500 words everyday, the middle school writes 1000 words, high school writes 2000 words, the university writes 3000 words, I insist to come down all the time, had given 131 books now.
The ability that should master in child life
There are a lot of important things in life, besides study, the child should master the ability of this a few respects more:
Face the ability of the setback. Besides read, labor also can exercise this ability.
The ability of love. My student has done a test, come home the person that embraces oneself to love, 100 jins are held in the arms rise to still turn circuit, hold 100 jins of stone in the arms to be no good for certain. Face family member, friend with full love, gift is nicer face life.
Understanding life is multivariate the ability of value. Taiwan has a student, father is the farmer of kind of pineapple, because of what want appraisal pineapple sweet cent, every pineapple is knocked 3 times, come down a few years, the finger that father strikes pineapple is swollen very bulky. Student very feel distressed father, with respect to hair palpability one can knock appraisal pineapple 3 times sweet spent machine, got England to invent the gold prize of award later. The child is differ it is good to want result surely, want to see his understanding to life.
Extend the capacity of eye shot. A lot of children go abroad studying now, the parent says is to foster child world outlook. This is good idea. Those who realise the world is broad, what just can realise oneself is insignificant, ability changes his anguish infirmly, ability includes the world.
Convey the ability of him affection and thought. Child learning understands him, expression learns even later, especially the child that introversion closes. A boy likes a schoolgirl, want to make an appointment with her, the result stands by a schoolgirl nervous, the face is frightened aglowly ran.
I often teach everybody " Lin Qingxuan 5 words are big bright cuss " : "Everybody is a person " . The boy that dare not recall a woman student is OK silent reads aloud " we are people " , the person that sees a tall weight dare not talk to also read aloud " we are people " . Overcome inner insecurity so, we just not dread at him expression.
The university on my eldest son when, I sent him a bright and beautiful bursa, inside 4 words: Big its wish, firm its annals, empty its heart, soft its are angry. The volition that a successful person wants to have old desire ideal, adamancy only, condescending manner and tender temperament went.
