No matter we wish to not be willing to admit, on on-the-job field, successful is those forever glib, like a mean person of fawn on again, and true sureness agrees to work, hard-working honest person often is paid cannot get due redound, still become the target that everybody bullies. Say to be in so this times, honest person wants to come forward, be about to overcome this 5 large dead hole!
1, mouth the too stupid, word that cannot say to praise
It is on duty field with person contact with, should learn to master the person's psychology, establish good human relationship for oneself. But honest person mouth is too stupid, won't follow everybody won't contact feeling, joking, do not know more how to go praising others. Come so, the colleague does not like to feel bored with honest person communication, build between the colleague do not rise friendship, some works begin nature very hard, when encountering a problem, the person that is willing to help is little also.
2, courage the thing with cannot be done too small, important
Honest person works overcautious, do what business before tiger of fear after the event is afraid of a wolf, come to an agreement or understanding listens to was called discretion, but those who say is true, it is honest person actually too too cowardly, without courage and insight, do not handle a major issue. Say good luck and challenge coexist, if not be willing to challenge, nature won't have opportunity. And such honest person, commonly won't person selected choose works together with his collaboration, know not to become a major issue.
3, auditive the too deaf, voice that does not hear good luck
The fierce person radar on duty field is leaving at any time, the information of their very can fast the Eight Diagrams that receives the office, decision-making trend of the leader. So they know interest interest of the work in the same placing already, can get along friendlily, also can the step that follow closely heads, the command of very fast executive leader. And honest person is right all be indifferent to sth, always work passively, come to the opportunity then when, clever person already early ready-made, and honest person still is in what wood slows to awaiting an opportunity to become of actively on him head.
4, eye too the clumsy, thing that cannot see detail
Eye too clumsy, spoken parts in an opera is to do not have eyesight to see, do not know carefully watch what sb is doing and saying. Other staff sees water is done not have in leader cup, know to go actively a water, and honest person does not observe at all however. A lot of moment, unless somebody reminds,teach, honest talented person can be done, otherwise he won't observe the environment all round, go what doing actively. And on the angle that stands in the leader, like the stuff that everything watchs actively naturally, is not a batch easily, do not stir immobile wood a knot in one's heart.
5, heart is too dead, learn won't the method of flexible
I most be fed up with honest person to say, I just am not willing to learn those way that fawn on. But actually, do not search to oneself so the excuse of high-sounding, others knows humanness to conduct oneself in society, also not be completely abandon dignity go applepolish, much is to be in defend him principle while, can make reasonable concession again. Be an upright person work the art that should understand circumference, edges and corners too too sharp, oneself go not far not to say, often still injure the person of the same trade's person, in the final analysis is affection business is small!
Do not say the times changed again, honest person was not very popular, it is honest person does not follow to go up the pace of the times. Not oneself lazy and slow should make a good point, feel the name that registers a honest person is warrant, on others bully honest person namely, actually is honest person deserves. Hope every honest person can capture so oneself weakness, become powerful, is not to be bullied make loss, is you say such?
