Article Piao darling says mom loves
Charming Ling husband and wife is to be born of the country, to give the child a better surroundings and study atmosphere, two husband and wife decide to buy a house, then in pairs goes out work, the child lets the old person in the home be being taken. The old person is afraid that the child is falling, even if 78 years old also is to sleep in grandfather grandma among. Two old people are good to child nature do not have a word to say, but as the child grown, the inadequacy of child in some way was shown. Sleep so for a long time what to corrupt practice have to the child with the old person?
1, fall ill easilyThe child and old person are the group that belongs to immune force to lose a bit, in meet difference in temperature to change to perhaps did not build good quilt in the evening suddenly, fall ill extremely easily cold. If be during flu, the old person was not enrolled in caution, the child nature that with them one bed sleeps is infected extremely easily also. In the view of a lot of older generation, the child 10 years old sleeping with them also is normal. Was oneself to catch a cold, also do not have the idea that should sleep apart with the child. And some old people also are carrying disease of a few chronic preserve one's health personally oneself originally, some disease also can have certain effect to the child that sleeps together with them. Say so, it is adverse that the child sleeps for a long time with the old person.
2, form independent character hardPrecious jade precious jade to had gone up elementary school 3 grade, parents busies all the year round the job, it is the grandma is being taken all the time. Grandma very be fond of her, it is good to can give her help in the evening not only by horn, even if little activity grandma also can awake immediately take care of her. But some moment grandmas are taken care of to hers already approximately doting. Everyday morning grandma rises first do good meal to call her to get up again, dress to her, fold a quilt to wait a moment, so that precious jade,precious jade to provide for oneself even the basiccest life to be not done. Older generation feels distressed the child is for certain those who stem from sincerity is beyond question, but some moment too feel distressed the child, was to kill him actually.
3, hard smooth and steady fall asleepIn the eye of a lot of older generation, black out with respect to this to the dot sleep, also no matter whether the child has drowsiness. The child 4 years old many, sleep with me all the time. My acute enteritis is admitted to hospital 34 days, he is next to a mother-in-law to sleep. However the mother-in-law no matter the child has without be asleep, close directly machine sleep, she feels to want to black out only lost sight of, the child is automatical also can be asleep. But leave hospital come back that evening, the child all the time cuddle is worn I sleep to be not unlocked, say to be afraid of. I ask him how, he tells me I was not in the home these days, he did not hear the story before sleeping, accompany him to talk without the person, the mother-in-law blacks out directly to the dot, his what is invisible also, feel to fear. Plainspoken, think of that a few evening he falls asleep in fearing mood, feel very feel distressed.
Yo comprehend:With the advantage that mom sleeps
To the child, most let his heart give birth to mom of smooth and steady person nothing is more... than, and the every act mom of darling also is understanding most. If be mom is accompanying the child to fall asleep, he will be very contented. No matter be a simple forehead kiss, still read two stories, can let him have safe feeling very much. Especially the child 3 years old ago, mom more should as far as possible much time goes accompanying, this the following to him company produces processing of ability, affection to be able to have very great help.
Say so, the child and old person sleep or have a lot of corrupt practice. No matter because,be what reason, take care of the child grown adult is the thing that parents must want to do, the older generation that does not push oneself completely so goes be being carried. When must not going to work nothing more than by force of bread sometimes, also answer great with child contact, give the child a good childhood as far as possible.