This is the letter that an old person writes him, without empty talk, conventional phrases, those who say is word of the daily life of a family completely, character brief desire is deep. Each bits very guileless, specific, beneficial, each can be done get. Rapidly collect carefully is good, right each in senile friend is very useful.
1,
Stop to recollect the past
We the child of this generation person child times, youth times, took a few pain more or less. Fortunately present life already better and better, still affection of a few spare cashes, idle does the thing that he likes.
Accordingly, senile friend is not enmeshed blindly in the memory in the past in, and should look ahead active and hopefully, in too good life most most 20 years of gold!
2,
Stop to get angry
Young when we have some of temper more or less, especially when the child is not obedient, always be unavoidable to scold the child to hit the child even. But, the child is already grown now grew up, the idea that has oneself, we cannot resemble again previously in that way.
We can apply the wisdom that experience accumulates, offer referenced opinion to give children, maintain humour, fatherly attitude, do not accept an opinion to get angry because of children or wag one's tongue, lest form the intense concern of two generation.
3,
Stop to complain
Everybody has vexed thing, also want to pour out with others occasionally, this is understandable, but the frequency that should notice you complain.
If your friend always follows you to complain same a thing, relaying the word of negative energy everyday, you also can not like such friend.
4,
Stop to waste time
A snap of the fingers between one brandish, we had been stridden in senile cavalcade, time varies person, we do not have organic can wasteful time more.
Want what to do to be done, what to want to be bought, want what to eat to eat, what to say again " after waiting " " etc have time " " had waited a few days! " you can wait for time, but time will never wait for you!
5,
Stop loneliness
No matter be,live together with children, still be with the old partner two life live, want to accomplish mental independence, must not from morning till night around move a few individual lives in the home.
The old person should be much " walk out of a door " , have oneself friend group, have a few kinds of interested interests, such lives ability is richer.
6,
Stop officious
Do an old person to have a tricks of the trade, want to open an eye to close a key point to some things namely. Do not want everything to be a center with oneself, give children certain life space, hands-off their life.
Be in grandson on the problem that generation teachs, in old people ten million cannot with " have experience " pose as, who is the parents of should clear child, look after children as far as possible according to the viewpoint of child parents
7,
Stop to chatter
Healthy, job, marriage is loved etc is medium the topic that old people likes to follow filial communication most, and the youth feels disgusted most in old people exhorts repeatedly a thing. Accordingly, little nag, some things children are clear about in the heart, oneself have music, we fasten total Suo.
8,
Stop to put money
In senile friends, might as well stop the pace of money of remain after deduction! The money on bankbook is a number only, those who worked hard all one's life we, it is a bit better to oneself to want really. Inside him capacity limits, not too care about a dress how many money, a Chinese cabbage how many money, want be willing to part with or use to spend money! Money spent just be his, put the money that rise to be able to calculate bequest only.
Old person " 8 stop " , each meticulous in a subtle way, want us to accomplish these 8 only, senile life is met certainly happy joy! Tell friends rapidly!
