Now, a such phenomena are more and more interesting: Tall key university is jumped over in class, the student comes from domestic parents to get educational rate general on the high side.
A the most intuitionistic phenomenon is, be in now 985, in the college of 211, the student slants with urban number of households and total population mostly much;
And be in 2 average schools, the student place of rural number of households and total population occupies scale to be able to increase substantially again;
And went to 3, the student of urban number of households and total population held great majority again.
People explains in vain continuously to this phenomenon is, urban child is enjoying the most outstanding education natural resources, plus teacher of countrywide a gleam of coach and the edification of parents of tall record of formal schooling, take an examination of on one 211, the 985 things that are not a difficulty;
And be in a country, teach resource deficient, teacher level is general relatively at urban teacher for on the low side, and of rural parent get education the level is general and inferior, return meeting existence illiteracy even, they learn the help next to nothing on to the child, can rely on him child to go hard only, take an examination of so on high level college is relatively difficult;
To 3, because of itself tuition on the high side, the rural family with so not good condition of a lot of families pays very hard to rise, so 3 in the town is wealthy 2 generation slant relatively much...
And interesting to this phenomenon, the United States breaths out Buddha university to also had made a similar investigation.
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The child of elite is elite as before
Before before long, officer of haing Buddha university signs up for " The Harvard Crimson " announced this corrector findings of setting of newborn of 2021 enter a school, investigation direction includes situation of hobby of individual learning, disposition, family to wait, exceeded new student of half the number to participate in this investigation.
According to investigating statistic, in the new student that 2021 place provoke haing Buddha university, be as high as the person of 46% , come from super plute family, in in former years such scale is occupied only 26.6% . This let us think of: In this top class university of the United States, the student of close half, not be an official 2 generation are rich 2 generation.
And this has the new life of nearly 30% among them, its parents or kin, ever was haing Buddha alumnus.
Ha Fo, regard the whole world as one of the most top class institution of higher learning, member of distinguished officer of Chinese ivy alliance, it is the divine hall in center of all student heart.
End in March 2018, here walked out of president of 8 United States, 157 nobel prize winners (the world the first) , award of at present of 18 humble Er (the nobel prize of mathematical bound) winner (the world the first) , winner of 14 bitmap clever award (the nobel prize of computer group) (the world the 4th) .
And, its have great academic place and extensive force in the many domains such as literature, medicine, law, business, by fair consider as current world one of the toppest higher education orgnaizations.
In 2017-2018 in year, learning of university of world of row of haing Buddha large degree is ranked (ARWU) the world the first, USNews world university ranks the world the first, QS world university ranks the world the 3rd, peaceful interview person university of higher education world ranks the world the 6th, be in June 2017, " peaceful interview person higher education " announce rank of world university fame, haing Buddha university ranks the world the first.
The school that such ox forces, can say to want you to be able to be taken an examination of only, calculate you to cannot graduate smoothly, become next mark · likely also to plunge into Kebaige to perhaps compare Er · Gates.
Know exactly about sth passes according to statistic, average yearly salary is graduate of haing Buddha college 146000 dollars, be in mostly politics, domain of business, scientific research is able to develop his skill to full. Can say, can taking an examination of the person that takes haing Buddha college is not philtrum Long Feng is an unusually lucky person, it is 10 thousand lis pick the talented person of one absolutely.
And this year, of haing Buddha university admit rate break through Shi Shangxin again low, of 5.3% admit rate let countless people flinch. Can be the Long Feng in this person of 5.3% , having a close in part is people tradition impression is medium " rich 2 generation " .
And this kind " rich 2 generation " active also appear in Ha Fo university not just, exist as before in the institution of higher learing of our country.
Chinese alumnus net ever had made investigation: 2007-2016 year, the whole nation shares Number One Scholar of about 837 the university entrance exam, among them the nearly 5 father and mother that become Number One Scholar are Gao Zhi element, the nearly two father and mother that become Number One Scholar are national official.
And relatively before the more outstanding achievement of pass an entrance examination of cold door children, also assume the position that drops point-blank in the proportion that holds in last few years.
Data shows, 2017 Number One Scholar of countrywide the university entrance exam in 40 people, only 6 come from a country, this lets a person must thoughtful " cold door goes out again hard expensive child " real problem.
Researcher summary says:
Compete as the university entrance exam of intense rate rise, the achievement of the university entrance exam of examinee besides concern hard with examinee itself besides, the social resource that examinee place has, education natural resources is crucial also.
The child that is born at the country on very old rate actually is mixed originally the difference with the child very big presence that is born at the city, this is parents differs not only, can bring different domestic education to the child, let them having different view to education.
And differ because of seat, the educational natural resources that a lot of students can enjoy is different, enjoy the most high grade education natural resources what can loosen easily gently in the child of city life, and those children that live in the country, although you very the study of effort, forget food and sleep everyday, also can not enter the school that oneself want to go certainly.
A lot of things, rely on hard to be able to succeed really not just.
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More and more people begin to pay attention to parent record of formal schooling
Actually, the to the child effect of record of formal schooling that more and more people begin to pay attention to the parent now, also have more person appeals, before teaching the child, the parent should improve oneself quality above all.
Does parent oneself quality have how old effect after all to the child's quality?
Cite a the simplest case:
Be in public, we are troubled by via often can encountering those crying more than, full ground rolls about, consider the ursine child that reachs other roughhouse none, and we can discover when the parents that goes observing these children when us, the parents of these children gets education generally rate is not high.
They do not know how to should teach the child correctly, often not be excessive and doting make the child obedient in order to beat and scold so violent education skill namely.
But so incorrect education concept can not give the child as a child nurturance a proper 3 view, bring about the child disposition after be brought up thereby extreme, easy termagancy...
And if of the parent get education the level is higher, know how to teach the child as a child, probably the thing can become different.
Once had heard a such stories, the child that two young mothers are adopting him 3 years old two takes a plane at the same time, one walked into first-class stateroom cabin, and one is in tourist class.
Went in to send earplug and blind fold to every passenger inside cabin in that mother of first-class stateroom cabin, explain to everybody:
Oneself child now is most roistering age, fear a little while because plane takeoff child is uncomfortable and cry be troubled by more than, earplug of hope big housekeeping money covers oneself ear, be afraid that the child disturbs everybody to rest, intercurrent candy expresses regret to everybody.
And that mother of tourist class, do not have any expression to the passenger all round.
Final plane descends, the child of first-class stateroom cabin all the way very obedient, did not cry be troubled by; And the child of tourist class is in all the time shout, let a lot of passengers be complained like empty elder sister.
The child is small still, know what truth far from, but maternal quality is met,ground of exert a subtle influence on affects him, probably why do this have some of child namely very good very obedient, and how are some children also in charge of namely " ursine child "
The person that lives for a long time in abroad can discover, overall for, foreign child loves to cry not quite be troubled by.
The expert points out, because what there is to distinguish on Chinese child and foreign child gene,this is not, however abroad, especially Euramerican country, the average education level of people will be a bit higher than China, grandparent won't be beyond the mark in that way like Chinese grandfather grandma doting junior.
If control this at 2 o'clock element, the Chinese child of environment of level of comparative and identical education, identical breeding and foreign child, probably the performance of Chinese child will be a bit better!
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Before requirement child, change oneself first
To now the competition between the child, also be the contrast between educational natural resources this one problem, in put together art " the limit challenges " in ever also had reflected:
At that time, program series set 6 issues, if you are affirmative to the answer of the problem, forth make a move; If not be, stay in place, these 6 problems are respectively:
1.Whether has parents accepted the education of university above?
2.Has parents asked man-to-man family education for you?
3.Whether does parents support you to learn specialty, and are you still maintaining certain level?
4.Do you have the experience of journey going abroad?
5.Does parents have acceptance to cross you to go abroad study abroad?
6.Whether does parents inspect you to be pride all the time, pretentious before relatives and friends show off you?
These 6 problems, each are in quantify current society the educational natural resources to children, and just as one would expect, every problem gets affirmation, stand in a few children of score finally, the achievement in the class is be far ahead.
Parental quality is higher, can pledge to child proffer the level is jumped over tall, oneself are spent to the acknowledge of the world taller, so the start of their child can be jumped over tall.
This is reality.
If be connected to parents most the life of dress warmly and ear one's fill of at least is maintained in hardship, every time holiday can choose work overtime exchange more the overtime that pass comes allowance family expenses, more energy are used in how to let oneself earn more money to improve living conditions, then he accompanies the child, the energy that gives the child is met of course little fewer.
Do not have a few rock-bottom parents really socially, had accepted higher education, can look after children to often go abroad journey, ask for him man-to-man outside religion, send the child to go abroad study abroad.
That does not have these most educational natural resources of the foundation and corporeal condition, sheet surmounts the child that walks out of in families of those high quality good-paying very hard really hard by child oneself.
Be just like you to run again quickly, the rate that also cannot surmount a car is same.
" Chinese youth signs up for " the case that has reported student of a Beijing University, that student calls Li Lin, come from the rock-bottom country of Chinese society.
He says:
In elementary school and phase of junior high school, his classmate comes from the scale of cold door, occupy 98% ; In high school classmate, cold door scale was occupied 50% the left and right sides; And in 985 schools, the student of cold door of one's previous experience is occupied only 5% the left and right sides; Enter Beijing University to read after grinding, the proportion that place of cold door student holds is less than 1% .
This shows, get education rate is higher, the administrative levels of the school is higher, cold Men Guizi is less.
Somebody can ask, because is cold Men Guizi compared,win on the scratch line at be born in the city in those days " rich 2 generation " people is itself intelligence quotient insufficient?
Ever had a famous psychological test, proved this issue.
Psychologist looks for many 100 undergraduate, divide them 4 kinds, one kind comes from wealthy family, the undergraduate of tall self-respect; 2 kinds come from wealthy family, the undergraduate of low self-esteem; 3 kinds come from impoverished family, the undergraduate of tall self-respect; 4 kinds come from impoverished family, the undergraduate of low self-esteem.
These 4 kinds covered basically the university is medium now the general situation of all students, undertake scanning to their cerebrum structure next, especially sea horse body (the centre of a variety of functions such as brain study, memory, pressure government) .
Result discovery, come from the volume of sea horse body of impoverished family undergraduate, average is less than the undergraduate of those wealthy families significantly.
But the undergraduate of impoverished family tall self-respect, with the average of volume of sea horse body of undergraduate of wealthy family tall self-respect, without notable difference.
In other words, the intelligence quotient that is these children from be born to do not have what difference originally, but because of acquired educational natural resources, ground of parental exert a subtle influence on is affected, corporeal resource waits the influence of explicit condition a moment, the volume of sea horse body that causes those impoverished family undergraduates is reduced somewhat.
But if although material shorts, can be parents parental mental natural resources is very substantial, the child is euqally OK image height intelligence quotient is rich 2 generation are same, win on the scratch line of life.
The visible parents influence to the child how important.
God is not fair, some people are born to containing golden spoon, and some people are born to bearing a variety of is in debt. Probably you cannot provide rich corporeal resource to the child, but since you gave birth to him, must be opposite he this is in charge of all one's life.
You should tell the child, the pinch of the life, we can be solved. But, interior scarcely can suffer tired, cannot teach thoroughly absolutely thoroughly again!
Number of He Youjun social status still is learning desperately, wang Saicong has money to still do poineering work in effort so, associate female Liu Qing of Liu Chuanzhi does not rely on him father to struggle become a drop to give a president...
Of these be worthy of the name rich 2 generation people do not have lax, cold Men Guizi people what reason thinks him Chan Ping tries hard can get victory?
And hope children will have a bright future to those, visit the parent of female Cheng Feng, when raising tall requirement to him child, see oneself quality enough case first.
If insufficient, ask you to try hard first, if your station is pinnacled, the child is sure come subsequently! Change use a folk adage of Chinese " Long Shenglong, feng Shengfeng, the son of mice is met burrow. The son of mice is met burrow..
From ancient up to now, parents just is the child's best teacher. A tree that become a useful person is him not just desperately derive nutrient grows hard, need a fertile soil to offer his derive nutrition more!
