What is the condition that knows the divorce is the most miserable?
That is you besides the daily articles for daily use that takes away oneself, whats take away the others not.
The husband, did not love; The child, belt do not go; All of house, money is not you.
Do you feel clean to the body gives a penalty that is pair of husbands?
Do you feel clean to the body produces door be to you can be carried is those who show oneself great-hearted?
Be wrong!
Clean body produces door, the likelihood is you another " nightmare " begin.
Of the isle regret
Isle this year 35 years old, marry 8 years with the husband, have two children, divorced last month.
But she is busy however recently preparation material, the husband that looks for lawyer and oneself hits divorce lawsuit.
Just her lawyer knows me, with respect to the introduction she and I chat, my this ability knew its course.
After two people university graduates, know through dating, married very quickly. The isle does finance affairs in a company, the man of the isle is young acute hearing in place an institution works.
After two people marriage, with respect to loan bought a house, increase the support of bilateral parents, two people borrowed the room last year be returned entirely. Economic pressure is done not have so big hind, two people wanted two baby one after another.
Although the room is borrowed,still was over, but the pressure of two children also is very big, after so isle maternity leave rests, went to work.
The company of the isle leaves home very close, just her mother also lives in with the village, so two people of isle couple go to work by day, give isle mom to take care of the child, come off work to receive the child again in the evening come home.
A day before 4 months midday, isle mom takes darling to come out from the supermarket, see small acute hearing tick off what the shoulder builds a back to come down from the taxi with woman of a stranger. Isle mom is afraid that he is misreaded, did not say with the isle.
But for him test and verify the doubt in the heart, she hides in isle home to observe downstairs the following day, the result saw really small acute hearing with that new wife. This not only cuddle cuddle is held in the arms, small acute hearing still kissed that woman.
The isle has a meal basically in the company midday, do not come home, and small acute hearing it is because of the unit near the home, also can come home now and then have a meal. Did not think of this was become however small acute hearing " aboveboard " off the rails advantage.
Isle mom hold back several days, but see every time small acute hearing that piece of face, afflictive, still told an isle finally.
The disposition of the isle all the time very impulse and impatient, after the word that hears mom, demur does not say, immediately " kill time " oneself home, challenge face to face small acute hearing.
"My maternity leave rests, go to work immediately, for what be? Still not be to earn bit of money more, raise the home, let us what this small home passes is good. You are good, carrying me on the back, look for a woman to find the home. Travel, you are so fierce, that child yourself is in charge of, from today I no matter. Child house car deposits money, I did not want, divorce, become me 8 years this blind eye. Become me 8 years this blind eye..
Small acute hearing hear all sorts of explanations, do not admit oneself are off the rails from beginning to end, admit to once took female colleague to come home only, but just come back to obtain working data together.
The isle proves without any evidence the husband is off the rails, so small acute hearing do not admit namely, she also does not have method.
Must say, marry 8 years, the isle may have not been seen through small acute hearing, dan Xiaocong is familiar with isle disposition too. Know the isle is in in a fit of anger, what is inexorable, taking the advantage of this interest then, handled a divorce with the isle.
The isle is so muddle-headed " clean body " divorced.
She wants to no matter the child will teach the husband a lesson,be mixed with the divorce only originally, let him know this home leaves her to be no good, result, the husband is done not have not only too much redeemed speech, agreed to divorce.
The husband after the divorce, the isle all connection means are pulled entirely black.
Till this momently, the isle just discovers, she actually the man that loves the home that him hardship runs, greatly for years so, the child that feel distressed, all submissively lets another person.
The isle after the divorce lives in him parents home, besides do not see the child, everything is mixed about the same before.
Why should that look for a lawyer suddenly?
The father of the isle is dicker, before paragraph time however by copartner hole, owed a lot of money, what kin friend can borrow is complete borrowed, sold even the house finally, insufficient still also.
This momently, the isle regretted. She hates herself at the outset actuation, the saving of own half a lifetime, cheap that man. Oneself here anxious do not have money, that man's overjoyed however preparation marries. Think the isle that jumps over not reconciled to wants to engage in a lawsuit more, want that part that attributes oneself to come back completely. Half a lifetime of him work laboriously, because one impulse gave others, honest too deficient.
Attorney friend of the teacher tells me, this law case does not have the isle really the law helps, all sorts of processes had gone, can strive for an interest originally the biggest change, can divorce card took period of time, go back on his word again, changed very hard basically.
Teacher of heart informal discussion says
The woman goes up in the divorce must not actuation, originally oneself are a victim, calculate a divorce, be in jural towards without fault square, interest can the biggest change, the result is done pennilessly now, resemble this kind of circumstance, more or less to redeem losing leeway basically.
Yes, divorce, not be the full stop of the life, just a paragraph of emotive is terminative, it still carries on your future.
So, must not pretend to be great-hearted when the divorce, pretend to be cheesy, whats do not want, original feeling was harmed, the money that still puts Lai Yisheng is rolled out.
In marriage, money is a woman really final creditable, this world has a lot of false appearance, only poverty won't be lying.
The contact passes a case before the teacher, when love Ling and Qing Sen marry not rich, young later husband and wife the dicker of two make concerted effort, get over after that paragraph of the hardest time, dicker also grew big business.
alleged " with adversity easy, in all riches and honour is difficult " , qing Sen is off the rails.
After discovery love Ling, did not cry to was troubled by, look for a lawyer to gather evidence however, seize right of property, etc mastered all advantage, she puts forward to divorce, finally, divided most property.
She entrusts asset to handler to do, oneself are in more than 40 years old regain university reads, enjoying happy college days, spend the time work is lubriciously to be born sweet.
You look, this deals with calmly namely, the gain that fair and reasonable handles money legally, after letting a woman divorce, live more wonderfully, and, won't bite of so much animosity bites his heart, can smoke quickly from inside a paragraph of feeling from come out.
"When the divorce for dignity, him selection goes personally completely door, love was done not have, want Qian Gan? " when many females decide to divorce, can have such idea.
Encounter this kind of situation actually, I can persuade them commonly, must not such, affirmative meeting regrets.
Xiaobei and I chat, many times say, when divorcing in those days, have integrity to live, bringing the child whats did not want to leave.
Later, mother and daughter should rent a house, want the life, the child should get on all sorts of coaching class, just discover in those days, oneself are too foolish, be forced a person worked, still do small business, tired almost haematemesis.
This world, lose love, still can subsist, if did not have money, it is to be able to not move a step really.
Teleplay " Beijing woman illustrated handbook " , there is to consider inside always, although divorced a few times, but every time strives for self interest the biggest change, and the duty field Bai Fumei that itself can hit be apt to to go all out namely, she right now, face marital advance and retreat again, already do a job with skill and ease.
A lot of people had said, the divorce is the first year the day is the most provoking. Also be, leave oneself familiar life and person, face a lot of lay looks and judge even, sheet is living very painstaking, if be propped up without financial capacity again, that is really extremely difficult.
When the divorce, you pretend to be have integrity the look that whats do not want, not be cheesy really, however really foolish, wait for you and living real swords and spears-the real thing to make on a few rounds, want to go back on his word again late.
"I am not to teach you cheat, I am to teach you to not be stupid! I am to teach you to not be stupid!!
Your marriage also faces such major choice, but how to know to do however? Above all, do not want impulse please, make oneself sober come down, next, leave a message the teacher of advisory heart informal discussion, let them help you give counsel.
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