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How much is the distance that the company leaves home?
The distance that a few subways stand.
How much are reality and smooth and steady distance?
Also be the distance that a few subways stand.
The subway this sinuate one Cheng road, bore the weight of mostly of the person frustrated with exhaustion.
Some people say, of adult breaking down go up in the subway.
Really such still.
Before a few days, a man of Nanjing stands in the subway, cannot help breaking down cried greatly.
He is wearing the business suit with honorable a single person, it is the sale of some company, going up before the subway, he just comes down from bureau of a wine.
Drank the wine that does not love to drink more very much, said a lot of against one's will blarney.
When coming home, already curtain of night arrives, in the stomach replete wine, pressing him extremely uncomfortable.
When getting off, he did not keep back in the subway the station vomitted to rise, person bearer is gone to on the side, he feels to lose face probably, angry mood companion emerged at a draught as the grievance that suffers on the job forth rise.
He sits on the ground, also disregard effluvial puke, burst into tears.
His so lofty stature, crouch in together, those who cry so that smoke.
Good intention person does a good turn signed up for alarm, the police informed family with his mobile phone.
After ten minutes, wife outpace comes, saw confounded he.
He also saw a wife, more resemble a child, keep apologizing: "Darling, I am sorry. I am sorry..
The wife was not in charge of the defilement on his body, crouched to hold him in arms, pat the back that pats him: "Do not say so, do not have a thing. Do not have a thing..
The wife is holding him in the arms, comforted for a long time.
01
When this news comes out, a lot of people in the comment express to sympathize with, however also a lot of people express to pay no attention to solution.
They say, what to have cannot when after coming home, say again, in the subway the station loses face more.
They return some saying, I if his wife, I can feel to lose face dead, pull him to rise rapidly come home.
Such sound is not much, but the person that serves as to once broke down, still feel furious.
Because they pay no attention to solution forever, a person that break down has many to need that opportunity that cries in public, also need that hug that does not cold-shoulder more.
The year before last year period of time, I just find new job new company.
Very unfortunate, I was encountered with my disposition the boss of special disagreement, the operation mode of new company is mixed again the company before me is completely contrary.
The after finding new job satisfied life that I imagine originally at this point undone, those who replace is the plan that cannot get boss satisfaction forever and the article proposal that do not revise, I am immersed in deeply ego suspicion.
Watch each person stealthily on the subway, discover they watch news, hair speech, chase after teleplay, look ordinary happy.
That momently, I feel the whole world remains me only, midsummer July, knowing is subway air conditioning leaves too greatly, I feel those who have kind of corrode character is cold.
Honest hold back did not live, appeal to the boy friend, say I was not to get used to new job really.
I hope he can comfort me, he answers me unconcernedly however: "Taking new company is such, not too argumentative. Not too argumentative..
He pays no attention to those who solve me to break down, feel I am argumentative even.
I am grasping a mobile phone to arrive toilet, do not know to who should hit however, the friend has his life, parents dare be not disturbed.
My person cried in the toilet finally very long, considered suicidal method to one is alled over.
I often recall that paragraph of memory nowadays, I want to hold that in the arms very much alone oneself, pat oneself back, soft tone says, do not have a thing.
So I see news momently, tear seizes the socket of eye and go out, I rejoice for the man in news really, he has a wife that is willing to say to do not have a thing with him.
Because of the person that break down, true need is comforted one sentence.
02
In Netease cloud, " the person that has a story " below this song, a such heat judge:
"I once sufferred from the classmate of depressed disease and me to chat, he says, you do not know what I had experienced, you do not know my anguish, you do not say with me brave, do not say adamancy with me, you accompany me to sit a little while, my meeting feel better is nodded. My meeting feel better is nodded..
Be such.
The road that the feeling that break down is in like a person probably is a needle completely goes up, go final, sole is gules blood completely, sensory nerve actually already coma.
But if at that time, the somebody on the road lost a brick to came over to cover the pointed needle of one pace, although not can rescue you, can let you answer blood for an instant however, feel to still courage takes the way that go.
A vermicelli made from bean starch of elder brother Zhang Guorong once had shared a compartment.
That year she just divorces with the husband, a day of late night, she is near the home a very quiet place is staying.
The late night is very few, grief also slowly and come, she gradually out of control, cried greatly, still panting all the time.
This moment, a male noise rises: "What thing do you have? Can I help you? Can I help you??
This person is Zhang Guorong, he drives transient, just see she is crying, do not be at ease, come over to comfort her.
But she at that time too too sad, see his face without the mood, do not say patiently only: "Without. "Without..
Zhang Guorong is angry without the manner because of her, chose to stay beside her instead, accompanied her to cry very long, chat with her.
When memory has this thing, that vermicelli made from bean starch says again: "Perhaps he does not know, actually that night, he saved my life. He saved my life..
Those who press dead camel never can be finally that one is straw, because die,do not have so simple.
But the likelihood that saves a camel is blown namely medicinal powder one straw that just meets the breeze of meantime, because living, it is so simple.
Comforted force, to downwind for the person of suitable meaning, very small very small, just be to perfect, but for the person that seeks dead to breaking down, very big however very big, be put out spark that pours strong water.
03
When breaking down, be the most alone, know the world is very good, know feeling is very warm, know the life is very lively.
Can feel that does not belong to me namely, feel neither one person cares me.
If,feel on the earth must little one the individual's word, that is me certainly, also have nothing to do with without me on the world anyway.
Normal person forever unthinkable a person that break down has much hope somebody to be able to listen to him to talk, depressed, not happy.
Also forever unthinkable a person that break down has much hope to a person can hold him in the arms, encourage him, accompany accompany him.
In every case has a person to reach a hand, that also is his unripe hope.
The despair that does not have a person is true quiet silence, he has struggled certainly, had appealed.
But life sea, not easy thing is too much, their struggle often by " everybody such " negligence, pass in the thing next hind indignation ground blames: I was not taken seriously, he does not say a few times more.
The edifice is not one day building, breaking down also is not to accomplish in one move, he perhaps in the heart flexuous if just heartening cautious ground speaks that be unluckyfeel disheartened, how dare carry again again.
The thing previously already became cloud and mist, we can do after, when seeing somebody breaks down namely, pat the back that pats him, tell him seriously: "Those who do not have a thing. "Those who do not have a thing..
Even if be the stranger of a come across.
Because that triliteral force props up him with respect to enough,take the way that go.
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