- all one's life too short,
The person that does not subdue oneself to should not with a 3 view - of stick like a limpet
Not long ago, handsome handsome falls in love, it is the man that knows in bar. Two people photograph talks very joyous, quite some meet hate is late.
The man is bar is stationed in sing, so long that handsome, meeting cooks, glib. When with him be bored with is together, handsome handsome feels the whole world broadened only pink flower. She describes this paragraph of feeling as idol play, be the flyer in fokelore and swim of the fish crazy love.
Everything is very good, had be mixed till their circle.
Handsome handsome has attended a party a few times with male friend, her frown describes to me: "The sort of particularly clamorous night inn or KTV, they drink say bad word, I am not inserted on word, follow a fool like. Follow a fool like..
Frequency more than 1, handsome handsome is impatient rise, requirement male friend and " a gang of scoundries " discontinuity comes and go, male friend expresses to still look down on her friend however.
After making a noise ten times, two people part company. So called crazy love, it is the time in the mistake and place nevertheless, the person that follows another world talked a malapropos love.
One the individual's circle, it is one side mirror actually, can clear reaction gives his life, thought, habit.
Handsome handsome says with me: I love him very much, but we are improper really.
The two individual may not that love each other sometimes can go together, the person ability with 3 consistent and proper view arrives finally.
The 3 view between sweethearts are unanimous, mirror in the following.
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1. gets along very tired do not say to go out however part company
I had been encountered too much such sweethearts, when quarrelling, floor level is pulled lower more, the business that hurts opposite party was done many, the word that hurts opposite party also says to get without number, but after quarrelling every time, can resemble doing not have thing person to continue euqally again love.
Good when good God, when quarrelling, each other curse the other side to go dead, what feeling talks is very tired but do not divide namely, cannot see future, this is the expression that 3 view should not actually.
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2. is less than one case a little
A lot of sweethearts eat to be together, but bright rare and collective topic, always produce difference to the view of the thing, can quarrel because of difference even.
You feel his conversation is too peripheral, he feels your conversation is too obstinate.
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3. he feels the thing of it doesn't matter always meets you
A reader chats with me say the boy friend always sneers at she is short, fat, ugly, but she got angry the boy friend says he is joking immediately again, how does she get angry so easily.
Building oneself joy on the base that hurts opposite party also is the expression that 3 view should not, he considers himself only, never had considered you.
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4. always complains you shop to spend money in disorder in disorder
Always do not know a schoolgirl why to like to buy the clothes like the schoolboy, the schoolgirl also cannot understand a schoolboy why to be obsessed with digital product, but these otherness do not differ on behalf of viewpoint of value.
It is the mood that I cannot understand you to like to buy the clothes only, return the difference that when you buy rebuke to pile rubbish to come back, this is viewpoint of value.
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5. works do not have tacit understanding, get along to rely on a person to be maintained to death
I have a female friend to chatted to tell her emotional state with me a few days ago, the concern that she says to she follows a boy friend now relies on her completely namely a person is being maintained to death.
When firm Tan Lian loves, male friend is quite active still, but get along long, turned a friend into a person active. Thinking a way for each other the life adds pleasure, even bed thing also is her active, although each other hold together is worn,she says the happy relation in alien eye, but such him life actually not happy.
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6. brawl is not nodded in on
I say the sea is very beautiful, you say the sea has drowned however a lot of people. Laugh laugh to because,quarrel with male friend several days ago an apple, laugh laugh want to eat the apple that cut a skin. Previously, male friendly metropolis has cut the skin eat to her, and now, male friend disrelishs a trouble to say he is not cut.
Finally two National People's Congress quarrelled one, male friend feels to laugh laugh too make willfully make a trouble, and laugh laugh to just feel to do not have safe feeling, when two people are quarrelling, each other does not let, also did not make a noise with cold war wind up finally give a the reason why.
Quarrel make a noise a long time, discovery is not in a kind of expression that this also is 3 view disagreement on the dot.
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"It is easy to love each other because of facial features, get along not easy because of 3 view " , have how many love, only then Yu Yan is worth pleasing to the eye, end to should not at 3 view however.
What is just real 3 view disagreement?
You like sunset, he likes sunrise, this does not call 3 view disagreement.
You say cling to li island is really beautiful, absolutely beautiful sunset must look, he says not to wade however southeast Asia travels, do not have even time difference, this ability is 3 view disagreement.
You like Tao Di, he likes piano, this does not call 3 view disagreement.
You say Tao Di's sound is really beautiful, have the connotation of an ancient egg-shaped to not be like an ancient egg-shaped again that kind is desolate already, he says however is not a simple and easy musical instrument, still can blow destiny symphony to won't do, this ability is 3 view disagreement.
You like charactizing a fine spring day, he likes lake smooth moonlight, this is not 3 view close.
You say to raise fish of some of bird of flowers and plants to be able to make a person exquisite really with him, allow the home in vibrant, he says to install what outfit however, you still are not to just raise one nautilus dead, this ability is 3 view disagreement.
3 view are unanimous, not be a requirement just the same of means of your interest be fond of, thinking, however each other can seek common points while reserving difference, know include, understanding and appreciation.
Otherwise, you share pleasure with him, he feels you are in show off; You pour out with him sad, he feels you are argumentative.
So two people that be together, sure the 3 view that should have close, otherwise again good feeling also is redundant.
All one's life too long, want to give that person that knows you truly love.
All one's life too short, the person that also does not subdue oneself to should not with a 3 view stick like a limpet.
