Socialization is everybody the obligatory course of lifetime. The gregarious principle of some people is very simple, that is " how other people is right I, how I am right he " . Who is good to oneself, be opposite desperately he is good; Who is bad to oneself, write down in the heart, returned Yu Yan is lubricious. Actually this is a kind of passive socialization completely. If we should chat today, the problem is: Remember other people is good to yours, forget other bad to yours. We undertake an analysis from a few respects.
One, it is good to yours to remember another person, do to know the person that be thankful
Other people is good to yours, you must be written down in the heart. The a bitth profit that such doing is the person that you can become a joy, you can experience the warmth between person and person, let you more be happy to interact with other. more important at 2 o'clock, what remember another person namely then is good, do to know the person that be thankful. Be thankful is the main character of a person. One does not know the person that be thankful, have true friend very hard. One tells the person that favour graph signs up for, ability obtains the friendship of other and help ceaselessly, the career also is met more successful.
2, forget other bad to yours, do active and the person of magnanimous
Those who remember another person is good, accomplish easily; Those who forget other is bad, accomplish very hard however. Some people can remember other is bad to his forever, and secretly resolved, etc oneself are capable moment still must go back. This can need not, somebody is bad to you, you knew to go, but the state of mind that this should not affect you and socialization. You should do the person of a magnanimous, do not put those small enmity on the heart. Because he is bad to you,do not want, you take same attitude to him, then you lost gregarious initiative. You interact should neither haughty nor humbly with everybody, do not abandon any making the friend's opportunity.
3, undertake socialization according to his program, do an active person
In human association, want to hold oneself rhythm. You should know explicitly, oneself want to become a friend with who, oneself want to become what kind of person in this circle. You should make good program for your socialization, is not passive treat another person with other to his manner. You should be active a bit more active, no matter other is what manner, I should begin socialization according to my idea. What you want to remember another person is good, but should forget other at the same time bad to oneself. Be not perplexed by the manner of other, undertake socialization according to his program.
In human association, what should remember another person is good, know be thankful; What should forget other is bad, magnanimous and active. Dear friend, how do you look to the viewpoint of the article, leave a message together communicate.
