Do not know from when to begin, mention " the person arrives middleaged " , letting what the person associates above all is " the crisis " 2 words. The person arrives middleaged, a lot of things are not do not want to do, cannot do however; A lot of things are not want to do, live however an approach.
When 25 years old, dare hit dare go all out
Fell, pat those who pat earth to also can go is cheesy.
When 40 years old, gingerly
Nobody allows you to fall, after toppling, can not rise certainly, rise also won't easy.
40 years old of the following people, already was for oneself work no longer. "One goggle all round it is the person that relies on you, bout head backside does not have one person for nothing however " . A grown-ups and children, fuel, domestic responsibility exceeds everything.
A lot of stride " middleaged crisis period " person, become mostly discretion and pretend firm. Although resent to the current situation, also dare not change easily.
Because, fear to lose.
Our company has " old pal " , this year probably 49 years old. He should drive the earliest one regular bus everyday, ahead of schedule 2 hours teach oneself English to the company. Arrived to had held to more than one year at present, those who be is be not washed out by the organization. Reality is brutal, as the growth of the age, after passing 35 years old especially. We want to do with what doing actually, difference will be bigger and bigger.
A lot of people cannot drink, but go all out even for the dinner party do one's best, spat rear incomputable how many times;
A lot of people are fed up with smoking, but give the moment that come in leader or important client, toughen one's scalp-brace oneself also must be ignited. . .
In duty field, have so a flock of people
For the life, always forcing oneself what to do.
01.Force him get on well with other"Strong " participate in, change more serious " awkward " .
Times change is rapid, present duty field is the world of new technology, new concept. Most middleaged person always has one to plant by " isolated " feeling. Sensory ability not equal to one's ambition, the feeling does not follow to go up the youth's pace.
To if with new generation young key member or young manager have more, can be inscribed, studying their recreational behaviour even, imitate their habits and customs.
My friend, he cannot eat originally hot, the company dines together the colleague offers to have chaffy dish, he does not think what swept everybody because of oneself to promote, do not think oneself have the feeling that is isolated more, toughen one's scalp-brace oneself went. Stomach trouble of result after the event is aggravating, made an a bit.
02.Force him adamancy"Some moment, the man is slighter than the woman " .
Young when, outer sufferred grievance to answer excellent and homeward person to appeal to complaint, complain, meet in the heart a lot of more comfortable.
But the age that reached 40 years old truly, become tacit mostly, chose to be borne alone. Not was to learn ego cure to hurt, do not want to harm trouble 2 times again however the family that be at a loss what to do.
▲ ever had the photograph of a piece of feel sad letting a person to mount hot search:
Middleaged little elder brother, worry is heavy in barbecue booth drinks. Sat alone very long very long, the sky fell heavy rain suddenly, he still does not have the meaning that wants, drown worried in dring at the same time, immerse oneself in cry bitterly at the same time.
Do not have a person to dare disturb him. . .
If not be by life place approach, if not be cannot help doing sth, if not be ability not equal to one's ambition, who can be put down again " dignity " and " face " bear silently all these.
03.Force him put on an act"≠ of put on an act installs B " .
Force oneself action than before two kinds, the 3rd kind " put on an act " the likelihood is minority.
Do not know to such person is had beside you, they from time to time can lend all sorts of topics the opportunity, tell about him to once had to you how is the experience of bovine B mixed brilliant success. Encounter such colleague, I can resemble hear a story same, quiet listen respectfully.
These people, look seem hope full. Actually heart is flimsy, can't bear biff. They this heart is kind-hearted, just do not want to be disrelished on on-the-job field " old " , longing can take the position that has his in on-the-job field.
Fear on on-the-job field by " definition " , more fear by " the brim is changed " .
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Finally, the middleaged person on duty field
Picking the label that does not drop forever is " Song " , not be recreant feel vexed or do not consider be eager to make progress.
Of middleaged person " Song " because having rear,be cannot the difficulties that one is reluctant to mention that character says and the responsibility that need to assume, it is to change better life to the person of love.
Pass 40, already had the dream that battles the sword takes the end of the world and the longing that do loafer no longer, the becomes a qualification namely man that wants to do alone only, eligible father, eligible pillar.
Alleged 40 not be puzzled, also no more than is to understand alive, just.
No matter you are much old age, much higher position
Be like you beside have such 9 people, be kind to them please, they do not have even if so outstanding. Resemble be kind to oneself, perhaps he did not come namely you.
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