Among the process that grows in the child, every parent hopes his child has firm psychokinesis, begin to develop power of oneself child be thwarted, square direction of this kind of education is very correct, because the child is impossible between growing process to meet plain sailing, total meeting encounters a few trouble that grow, encounter a few problems that cannot solve, perhaps encounter a few problems, still be err a few things, the child suffers grievance, the education of be thwarted force that offers the child so is very important, if the child does not have the ability of this kind of be thwarted, the child moves toward a society in the future, because do not have method without be thwarted force to blend in a society,he meets the likelihood, live without method go down, so the education of productivity can have very big effect to the child's lifetime. Small today make up take everybody to look together, why some of parent is when force of education child be thwarted, always feel the child progresses without what, we will analyse specific reason where to be, we look together
[1] just experience a setback and did not understand a frustration correctly
When parent friends are fostering the child to experience a setback, the child that does not have correct him church understands a frustration, and it is the child experiences a few setbacks only merely, if the setback of child experience, he does not have conscious word to the setback, so this setback is equal to saying is to be experienced for nothing, meet those who let the child be grown to inspire far from, so parent friends setback consciousness of the child, must foster proper child to have setback consciousness to the child, let the child experience a few setbacks, ability meets the child grow truly, parent friends remember this. Small make up cite a case to everybody here, e.g. , child err a few things or, ate because of this bad thing very big deficient, sufferred very big grievance, if parents did not have recognizant education to the child, the child does not know possibly, although the child experienced grievance, all sorts of difficulty of experience? You cannot yield child progress, so recognizant education is very important.
[2] the self-confident heart that these setbacks beat the child likely
Between the life, parents the be thwarted force to rear the child, meet the child build a few frustrations, make the child active experience a few setbacks, parents wants to develop be thwarted power of the child through these setbacks, sending a heart above all is inerrable, but, after the child has experienced a setback, discover the result is not him imagination however in that way, after discovering the child has experienced a setback, become very doubtful calm, and become special without self-confidence, because the child because last setback and, did not go, once still was in last in setback sadness, so the child becomes special not self-confident, so parents is in when letting the child experience a setback to foster child setback, the child front that must go encouraging oneself guides, cannot let setback crumple up self-confident heart of the child, let the child experience a setback, not was equal to the child to have be thwarted power, so parents must notice this when rearing the child.
[3] blooper or small setback
Between the life parents must share be clear about is big setback or small setback, the child is very small, between his growing process, education of be thwarted force wants as a child setback, again big setback, of successive give the child to undertake fostering, when the child has capacity of certain be thwarted, let the child accept again a little a bit bigger setback, such meetings more the body and mind that benefits the child develops, at the same time the child also won't pass because of the setback big and bring about self-confident heart to lose. So parents must share be clear about is big setback or small setback above all, but everything accuses in parental palm and the word in consider carefully, let go let the child experience, foster setback consciousness of the child above all, next again the develops the child be thwarted power of successive. Such ability more the body and mind that conduces to the child develops.
[4] sufferred a setback, but still did not increase be thwarted capacity
The child sufferred a setback, but still did not enhance be thwarted power, what reason is this? Above all after parents must observe the child was spoken whether his ability promoted, if do not have, these setbacks that parents must be sufferred through the child will to the child undertake openly education guides, after cannot letting the child suffer a setback, and grow without what you nod any ability to go up, also be to let the child encounter difficulty in the future in the book spy that rears the child, after encountering cross to move toward a society, although walked into the cereal bottom of life, he still also has the courage that bounce comes out and power, develop be thwarted power of the child, can let the child can be blended in more, the society is in this to live very well socially.
Article ending, small make up friendship to remind friends, develop be thwarted power of the child, fostering the child's sturdy psychokinesis namely, psychokinesis to a person it is very important, it is better to want blend in this society, go up in this society good good life, want to have the better capacity that creates happiness, the education of be thwarted force that offers the child above all is little not, if the child does not experience a setback, do not experience harships, so the child is when it is difficult to encounter, be given likely by little that difficulty Koed at this point.
