Last month, attend the wedding of friend small beauty, on wedding, did not see Ruan Ruan however.
Want to know, ruan Ruan and small beauty can be friend of ten years, small beauty marries, than who she is glad, the whole thing held many hearts accordingly.
Think she has temporarily the thing does not go, ask small beauty then, how didn't Ruan Ruan go.
Small beautiful smile is a little cold, shunt of line of sight, jumped over this topic.
After sitting, the friend on the side tells me stealthily, small beauty did not invite Ruan Ruan.
Once, ruan Ruan goes to small beautiful home sojourning. During, small beauty went out to receive a telephone call.
Ruan Ruanxiang knows small beauty said what private words with the friend, listened in the past secretly then.
What call to small beauty is her kin, they seem to discussing the issue that small beauty falls ill.
Ruan Ruanting fell ill to small beauty, worry for her very much. She is the person that the word does not hide in a heart, told another good friend very quickly, say anxiously still, do not know to be able to affect the wedding of small beauty.
Result, this thing was known by small beauty, she is unusually indignant, two people produced estrangement from this, part company finally.
Look in Ruan Ruan probably, oneself did not commit how old mistake, just care a chaos at most just.
But, stand in the footing of small beauty, oneself privacy is regarded as to talk endowment, the choice is not excused also is understandable.
The west has a saw, eavesdrop of do sth without authorization or the secret that make public a friend, you will lose this friend.
Feel shy in the friend, when perhaps wishing to make public certain secret, should not examine minutely dozen of explore with pose as of good friend relation, should not do the microphone of friend privacy more.
Remove one condition and character, you knew even if innocently the friend's secret, best also should make it sodden be in abdomen, pretend to be deaf and dumb, be tight-mouthed.
This since esteem to others, also be the path of a kind of be worldly wise and make oneself safe, subtract to oneself needless trouble.
What cannot take most is, making the name of the care, disregard those who reach others to experience, the private affairs of others of act on one's own interference.
What this kind of ego satisfies is genuine, won't let a person feel warm not only, and can go to person belt only embarrassed with harm.
Yalishiduode says,
The desire that indulges oneself is the biggest damage; The privacy that talks about others is the biggest injustice; Realizing him error is the biggest ailment.Must not because of so called care, with respect to lay a finger on the privacy of others.
Even if the relationship is again good, always also should notice bounds feels, respect each other privacy limits and life space.
Regain consciousness only realise this, ability of a paragraph of concern is long.
A such stories had seen before.
The schoolgirl spends birthday to male friend, the meal takes an in part, male friendly mobile phone rang, go out the balcony picks up the telephone.
Passed a little while, the schoolgirl thinks closet, the male friend outside seeing the balcony is taking a telephone call, expression is coltish.
Listen to male friend to say only,
I do not go really now, sometime asks you again. Small can also you go? I also had had a paragraph with her really before. What? Did she swing me? Was gotten, you are to did not see, after parting company, how is she crying to beg me. She grows patchily still namely, savour too poor, I do not love to take her to go out...Male friend said one lot again, it is completely in order to derogate before the privacy of cummer comes the about of play the peacock.
That momently the schoolgirl feels male friend is so new: Parted company, you are OK before the gift that cummer sends you is refuse, the short message that can send you her is expunged, also can stranger together with her form...
But, the little secret that you ought not to possess you jointly in happy days is shown off to others. This is the bottom line of one individual at least.
A paragraph of feeling gets together medicinal powder separation and reunion, the thing that is two him people only, had better end between two people only.
Parted represent an end, evermore is respective and well sufficient.
Although cannot with past handclasp make peace, also can keep silence at least.
Belittle the person that oneself had loved, can let oneself appear low only common and extremely.
And, you regard wash one's dirty linen as the capital of play the peacock, little imagine, you just are fond of the person of the Eight Diagrams to those, apprentice is added talk endowment, still paid the price of dignity for this.
Gentleman break off relations, do not give evil signal.
It is two people that once had loved each other what is more,the rather that more, after brief be mixed passes, stay to each other sufficient creditable, it is best to this paragraph of feeling esteem.
Zhang Ailing says, be no matter in art or in life, the most god-given is to know when ought to stop doing sth.
Mature person, heart ought to somewhat awe-stricken, know tie ego, maintain a distance self-consciously also to the privacy of other.
Do not talk about the privacy of others, the defect of not exaggerated others, also do not keep thinking about the enmity previously, it is a person's mainest accomplishment.
The friend is young shallow very depressed recently, their office has an eldest sister, to her " care " already outspread the square respect range that reached to live daily.
Small shallow breakfast eats in the office, eldest sister saw, ask her what those who eat is, buy where. Comment on one time to her breakfast then: Too expensive not economical, and nonnutritively.
Rain once, small shallow father sends her to the unit. Eldest sister saw, go to all the time the look around in the car, who is wanting to know.
Small elementary introduction is him father, eldest sister asks again then, does your pa unit follow you by the way? What does your father become?
Have a few times, small shallow return the office from outside, the computer that sees eldest sister is staring at her sedulously looks, see a webpage, see chatting record, looked to go out to say with others even.
Small shallow setting giving QQ the lock is decided, eldest sister says small shallow shrewdness is deep innocently still, preventing her everywhere.
Eldest sister sees from chatting record small shallow in with male friendly be difficult with sb, ask she follows a boy friend every day how, have the possibility of become reconciled with the boy friend.
So a few, small shallow deeply its are irritated, the answer says: You need not ask this question again, you can inform when parting company.
Eldest sister states he is a care. Small shallow unspoken criticism, you are to satisfy your curiosity only just.
In the life, there is no lack of like eldest sister such person, they like the thing that do most, use namely visit the pain spot of others of means stand sth on end that is like a care and soft costal region.
Their or is empty of inner world aerospace, from morning till night asks about ability to do not have the bagatelle of any relations with oneself;
Or likes to compare with others namely: If you pass weller than him, he is met fleer; If you pass so that be inferior to meaning, he can comfort you favorably, the balance got from this however in the heart.
Resemble knowing the person that respects people one's secrets so, leave Yue Yuanyue is well.
The person that registers other privacy on the mouth likes between the way one speaks or what he says after all, does not know when everybody was betrayed.
Wool Mu says, you want to overcome, it is your vanity, be you show off desire; You want to make do, it is you always think out communications center, want the petty trick of limelight.
Know exercise restraint, it is a kind of goodness: Restrain oneself curiosity, the performance that controls oneself desire, restrain malapropos care even.
Of gentleman hand in weak like water, enthusiastic but do not even more quadrature, free but do not indulge. Be like the clear, insipid relation like water, ability interacts for a long time go down.
Do not talk about the privacy of others, in the final analysis, send namely respect another person from inner ground.
Once, NHK TV station wants to interview the meet again after the calamity of a father and survival son, father says to want the opinion of consult son, face about entered ward.
Cinematograph is leaving, white door curtain is in front, full dichotomy bell, did not move easily when broadcast, one knife was not cut, come out till that father, signal can go in film.
Have scholastic summary:
Japanese TV medium is in when facing catastrophic event, the camera lens that all filming, maintaining certain distance strictly.Watch a lot of press of domestic instead, be without scruple the ground rancors camera lens to go up to party face almost, its examine minutely not tire of irritatedly their feeling, consume the misfortune of others.
And if we can be accomplished truly,send make the same score from inner ground nature inspect, can know, the life of everybody is worth to be respected, no matter its are good its bad.
The lifestyle of noninterference other, the life space that does not invade another person casually and privacy are feudal, although pay no attention to solution, but also admit all differring with gentle state of mind.
Can accomplish this, it is a kind of commendable character.
Hope we are OK, respect each other privacy, maintain appropriate bounds sense, own comfortable human concern.
