Recently, two things produced on the network, after looking, in sensory heart very heavy very. I think, why our economy grew, but is what a lot of people feel vivid tiredder? Say the life is not easy, but why to choose easy life? Perhaps, you can choose enterprising, but in life pressure great, below the case that feels what change the current situation without ability again, why to remove one condition? Bear calm, remove one condition unrestrained and far -ranging
Bear calm, remove one condition unrestrained and far -ranging
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On April 21, sichuan rice is easy, sunshine is beautiful, yang Shan of 27 years old is taking 3 sons to jump down from the bridge, ended 4 human life.
In posthumous papers, yang Shan says he lies everyday the brim that break down, too tired, maintain no less than going to really.
3 children often fall ill, want to run toward the hospital everyday, yang Shan does not have sunset night ground to take care of them, it is good to had not slept become aware.
Borrow for the room, the car is borrowed, cost of child medical treatment and tuition, the husband and mother-in-law everyday outer rush about, the heavy burden that takes care of the child falls in Yang Shan completely on one person.
"I do not bear really, after giving birth to twin, arrive now, I had not slept to be rectified night become aware. Of course this is the way that the mother must want, I not blame, often oneself bring 3 children I also can bear. But, although such, had made allowances for me truly without who. Come a few this years I lie everyday really the brim that break down. Come a few this years I lie everyday really the brim that break down..Origin | Insurgent news
The room is borrowed, the car is borrowed, cost of child medical treatment and tuition, collapsed this woman. She broke down, a family was over so. While we feel deeply regret, why must this family choose the life in big city? To say the least, it is OK to have such choice, but when you face tremendous life pressure, why to choose to remove one condition, answer rural native place to perhaps sell a car, house, have been to simple life?
Aux would rather the choice is taking his lovely 3 children suicide, also retreat one pace to live simple life without courage, vie, is face so costly?
Someone may say I am merciless, but face and vie to compare life costlier? Those blindly use high-flown words what struggles, the viewpoint of enterprising, actually more kill a person.
A snail discovered on pyramid, somebody is then excited unceasingly: This is the snail of an enterprising, this is one struggles more than snail. Life, like be about to resemble this snail, want forever enterprising, want to struggle forever.
But I stealthily ask: What does snail mount pyramid to work? Is pyramid the environment that fits snail to live very?
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In Nanjing subway station, a man that business suit change walks on is tipsy lie in the corner, break down cry bitterly.
"I and wife come Nanjing work, a few years, whats are tasted painstakingly. To sign sheet, accompany a client to drink every day. I won't drink really, won't drink... "
Coming police comforts him, and he just shakes his head: "Do not have method, do not have method really. Do not have method really..
After ten minutes, the wife hears the news to come hurriedly.
The man also couldn't help again, crying to say: "Darling, I am sorry, I am really trashy, I I am sorry you! I I am sorry you!!
The wife does not have blame, also disregard the puke beside the husband, crouch next bodies to feel distressed the ground gripped the man.
She is taking the man gently hind back, comfort the husband like comforting a helpless child.
A brief moment, let tear of a lot of netizens look however.
Saw this inspect screen, I am touched very much. In what touch, flavor of inarticulate having a place feels in the heart. Say manhood has a tear not flick, an old man, cry loudly before everybody, should the pressure of the life have how old? The his wife understanding to the man, to the man's care, extraordinary also move is moving. But so the husband and wife of a pair of conjugal love, so one correspondence should calculate outstanding men and women, it is what kind of life pressure, can you let an old man break down?
It is a house certainly, car, the child!
House, we can live small, car, kind happiness mother of an emperor also had not sat a few times, why must be these external things besides the body, vivid so tired? I believe, those youths that go all out are hit in the city, be in a country commonly, can have capacious big house, be faced with really when breaking down, why to answer a country to have been to simple life?
Do not say the life is tired. Tired, be ask for it actually! Real demand of the person, it is very low actually, it is you only the demand is too high!
Yes, the person is enterprising, no less than going to is mixed in the city, return rural old home, the mainest perhaps is to be afraid of lose face. But want you to think only, calm of a person's mind, it is so important that face is done not have at all. In other eye, your face is done not have so costly, it is yourself feels he is very important only stopped. Perhaps, if you can of the calm face oneself, face oneself life, seek the life that suits oneself, others is met more admire your.
Friend estimation wants to begin to scold Laoliu: You are not here nonsense, listen what you say fortunately than what sing, but why don't you abandon present city life, answer rural native place to live simple life?
I am not the think of a way that did not wind life of rural native place, but what at present I feel vivid is not tired still. If I feel tired really, outer like these perhaps those who make the person work that go all out is so tired, want the room for action that break down simply, I must answer a country to go, although the wife is not willing to answer, myself also wants to answer. Because I know, life is done not have so long, I do not want to suffer that tired.
Kind on one mu of wheat, kind the dot is vegetable, leisure time goes getting ready labour, raise head pig again, raise a few sheep, a few money can you spend every year? The country can get online, watch news in the evening, teleplay, glad to write dot thing, look for a friend to drink bit of small wine, is why a kind of satisfied life?
As to the child, want only, children and grand children has good fortune of children and grand children oneself, so much dry what be in charge of? Why must have been we arranged to the child, we why must the lifetime oneself, put on child body, suffer all one's life for the child tired?
Write here, I also admit, this my viewpoint, say really, in current society, it is one kind deceives oneself as well as others only, the notion that is not approved by everybody. But in my heart, what feel our Chinese is vivid really is too tired, what hope we want to change us sincerely is very much what to encourage to struggle, the viewpoint of enterprising, him recognize ability, skill, what must not go living is so tired.
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The following this essay, I am written two years ago, the friend that have fun at can look, perhaps hitting to those go all out, feel living very tired person, help somewhat.
Tired, you rest rest
Do you feel tired?
Tired, you rest rest
Life way is very long, should not overdraw prematurely your life
Life is not 100-meter dash
It is a marathon
Start of a race is early, faster than what you run
Can run improbably complete Cheng
Broad-leaved epiphyllum is again beautiful, eventually is broad-leaved epiphyllum
Again lively opera, when always having wind up
Do not go vying the life of others is more wonderful than you
Do not go pursueing the life with bright what
Shan Juhua has Shan Juhua's beauty
Of playgoing those who compare act in an opera is relaxed
Chen She says: Is emir general Xiang Ning gutty?
This through the ages asks, tired bad how many Chinese
But the Chen She that became appearance of Wang Hou general, what is the result?
All living things, will emir have geometry again?
You are a stick that carries the door on the head only originally
Must fill pillar again why?
Cold door goes out hard expensive child, but why must go out expensive child?
Before a few years cold door also gave a few expensive child
But was like a lot of end product to enter a prison
Imperial son is an emperor
But some sons do not like to become an emperor
Be pregnant writes a poem happily, have happy joyous calligraphic
Return be pregnant to become a carpenter happily
Such fastening kind famouser
In can be being done, you are produced originally
Have comfortable life, free time
But more than 50
You invest house property again, conduct financial transactions
67 flatlet are produced, about a hundred 10 thousand conduct financial transactions are leasehold
Spend the time however closely cling to
More or less is money much?
Is the house how old be big?
The Great Wall of Qin Shi emperor, the Imperial Palace of Ming Qinghuang emperor
Who is finally?
Is then the individual the descendants of Qin Shi emperor?
Palace of Pu Yi reviewing needs to buy a ticket
That before is his home
The siheyun of old Beijing, who is the host previously?
Whose home is now?
Than what there is be just like? Climb it what there is is good to what there is climb?
Ma Yun is rich, one day also is to eat a meal 3 times
Wang Jianlin is head rich, vivid recently be nervous
Feng Jiang is big yesterday official
Now jail suffering
Dull go reading bit of book, idle will drink bit of wine without the thing
The life that is why happiness?
Oneself live the life, not be to use those who vie
Money uses a flower, not be to use those who put
Use those who show off
Child itself is cestode, you try hard again he also cannot become dragon
Face, vie, the child, house, bank note
More comfortable than yourself life, is healthy body main?
You why doesn't overworked lifetime pursuit cease?
Life, it is thing of a few years, fasten so dead heart, not so insatiable, did not go vying with other, tired, you rest rest!