13 years old are taken an examination of on the Chinese Academy of Sciences, 16 years old are persuaded to retreat, domestic education nots allow to ignore!
Do not know the home still is written down do not remember be being called before that child of prodigy -- Wei Yongkang, this child is in two years old when already know 2000 many Chinese characters, the child is 4 years old when the course that can have mastered all elementary school almost, it is to be in 8 years old even when can take an examination of through the exam on the key high school with best place, in 13 years old when had gone up through take an examination ofing of the university entrance exam the physics of the Chinese Academy of Sciences is.
Such experience is very fierce undoubtedly, in the eye of a lot of people, he also is the character like the god, but be in 16 years old when produced a tremendous turn however, it is he is persuaded to retreat by the Chinese Academy of Sciences, what reason is this?
Like him such intelligence exceed constant the child, should be very welcome, and his mother also is very able, there is a sturdy belief inside the heart, read to let the child namely, other what is not important. And son extraordinary also try to make a good showing, fulfilled maternal wish, there is the result of advance rapidly on school work. But after attending a college, mom goes impossibly accordingly, and he won't do the life naturally, accusing a likelihood to the palm of the life is a dot cannot relative.
And he also completes last project without method, because his experience and experience are scant, also business can not change simple Gao Zhi this, decide to persuade him to leave school after the total reflection of the school so. A lot of people also feel exceeding regrettablly, but regrettablly rear, should think why to be met such, to let the child later can unlike he such, must review oneself.
The a bitth: Maternal influence
When growing, need strikes a proper balance between work and rest the child, and the maternal of one mind of this one child lets child learning, and let the child lose due imagination and gregarious ability. The life of a person just does not learn, want to live more wonderfully, must mix society can well get along, with the person one gets along well. And in letting the child live in onerous and as dry as a chip study as a child, also be to the child one kind destroys undoubtedly.
at 2 o'clock: The mother monopolized the child's life
This child everyday life daily life has learned to brush his teeth repeatedly without oneself is mother side toothpaste of her do well, resemble having a meal so, wash clothes, this kind of bagatelle never also has been done. The child has done not have education to be brought up to these things as a child, nature forms these good conventions very hard after.
And this mother also accordingly special regret, it is good for the son to do not think of his everything what do killed a son however instead. He thinks, the child is so clever after attending a college, these small businesses are done first-rately for certain, but what did not think of however is, so long since, the child is early had lost this kind of ability, had done not have independent ability.
at 3 o'clock: The child's enclosed education
Learning in the school also is with the classmate the teacher learns happily together, and others communication also is on bad terms without any friends when this one child is learning. Also communicate ability with respect to what can think him, with communication ability is how. And he himself a person is in the home is very alone study only, small making up is to want to be less than so much year he is how to insist to come over, affirmation is exceedingly tired.
Saw these case, must think over somewhat to oneself, parent of a lot of moment is such, but good for the child, not all everything monopolizes entirely. On the education of dot, must can foster return oneself love, parents' mainest education effect conducts action namely, the child that can guide oneself is on right way, can establish correct 3 concept.
Also want to care the child's mentation constantly, the mood that wants to be able to see the child is common changes, undertake seasonable guiding to him. The manner that the child is forming in one's childhood, the method that perhaps works is very big to the following influence, with respect to need so parents is opposite the child can more patient teach can more of the intention go guiding, the problem appears to be corrected very hard after be in otherwise.
