Small recently say he does not want to go newly nursery school, this caused the vigilance of young new mother, small be in newly was nursery school bullied by other little girl? Think of here, small new mother is examined at once case small new body, see the mark that gets hurt, start to talk ask: "Small new, were you bullied by other little girl in nursery school? Were you bullied by other little girl in nursery school??
Little new silent ground shakes his head.
"Why doesn't that go nursery school? Be to like to go very much before you nursery school? Be to like to go very much before you nursery school??
Small visited mother newly a little while, just fumble path: "Bully me without the child, but nursery school teacher seems not to like small new, pay no attention to me, return occasionally fierce me. " say, small new mouth one shrivelled, the appearance of a pair of grievance.
This ability knows young new mother small got newly in nursery school " cold force " .
Speak of campus is violent, the picture of the first thrill through in brain of a lot of parents is " the child is hit " picture, but in fact darling encounters " cold force " the likelihood still is met a bit commonner. After all nursery school teacher also is a person, also have hate and desire 6 desire, also have oneself love, have oneself temper, the darling of oneself does not meet those who get a teacher to like certainly.
1, in nursery school, teacher a long time did not talk with darling, intended alienation and desolate darling, indifferent to darling.
2, want darling err only a bit thing, can censure to baby right on the face or browbeat.
3, the teacher never approbates darling, even everything what overall denies darling place is done.
4, when developing collective activity, make game for instance, do an activity to perhaps go out when travel, darling " air " aside, do not add pay attention to.
5, in the home father mother mentions teacher, darling escapes desperately, dare not speak of a teacher.
If have above case person, darling had confronted nursery school cold force probably, of course, still have a lot of kinds of cases, need parent is attentive at ordinary times and advertent.
Reason one: Darling suffers family person to dote on in the home at ordinary times, thereby nurturance " small Xiang Yu the Conqueror " strength, run amuck as before in nursery school, the teacher takes him to do not have method, be forced to be opposite darling " cold treat " .
Means of settlement: Father mother should teach darling more, let him know basic socialization formal with the standard.
Reason 2: Darling disposition too too indrawn, do not be good at him expression, bring about the teacher's oversight thereby.
Means of settlement: Father mother should improve the integrated quality of darling, let darling learn expression, self-effacing, collaboration to wait a moment, after all the darling of associate of a lively, solidarity is not easy commonly uncared-for, these character can let darling win the jubilation of teacher and companion.
Reason 3: Some " cold force " happening may be insecurity of father mother and relation of nursery school teacher, make the teacher abreacts the mood on darling body.
Means of settlement: Father mother should be communicated with nursery school teacher more and communicate at ordinary times, build good relationship and feeling, let the teacher understands more and pay close attention to darling, will " cold force " strangle in the cradle.
Reason 4: The teacher bears the blame not quite, not quite good-tempered to darling and parent.
Means of settlement: Want when choosing nursery school discreet, notice to ask and contrast, choose outstanding, conscientious teacher for darling.
