Very small when, my Mom has told a truth with me:
The person should have lining all the time only, face is not done not have after anxious. But as long as the person of face, also won't have what great promise absolutely.Do not be face, lost lining
A very interesting colleague discovered in the unit recently, surname forest, it is a little elder sister that wears glasses.
She is a branch after adjusting, new join our office, do not be familiar with business, be equal to on experience is a new personality.
Awkward place depends on, her qualifications and record of service and length of service, comparative basically with office director again, nobody dare regard her as new personality goes rebuke, education.
Legitimate authority kink when, she is moved actively to the side of a sedate young fellow worker, encounter the problem that does not know, lower his head to consult immediately, the manner is very abasement, still take a gift to thanks constantly.
Press her level actually, completely OK more ground of one is assured and bold with justice directs us, need not such " humble " .
Young fellow worker very feel embarrassed, refuse again and again: "You are elder, I help you is should, how to return the thing that can take you! How to return the thing that can take you!!
Miss Lin shakes shake one's head, very tender ground says: "Be in our office, you just are my elder, still ask later great give advice or comments. Still ask later great give advice or comments..
Dishonourable frame, do not place a face child, not face, just accumulate experience silently, such, she is in the office very quickly stand firm calcaneal, and draw over popular feeling.
As expected, before long hind the director prepares to leave one's post, the company considers fill a first selection, it is this Miss Lin.
Yi Shu is in " my before half a lifetime " in write: "The person puts down face the hardest, it is the thing that least uses. It is the thing that least uses..
The Chinese likes to pay attention to " face " and " lining " , if say face is esteem, so lining is actual strength.
Put down face when you, dedicated the actual strength at him promotion, had made lining, face nature can return your body to go up, and swing swing do not drop.
Face is the foil of lining from beginning to end, lining just is the real source of face.
When this let me think of to read, those falsify result at ordinary times, borrowed cogged classmate, ferial li of scene is infinite, flatter oneself is cheesy.
Underwent large examination really, the program rises strictly, the instant makes an original shape, lose face lose face, still make family disappointed.
Sincere like Zheng Yuan clean place says, the person of compelled face, do not have face finally.
Do not want to be respected without the person, but we also know, everybody can respect the person that has actual strength only.
Take a person with actual strength, compare forever take a person with force, make a person be sincerely convinced more, get more easily also " face " .
Had lining, just have outer part
Still have an adage, cry shabby-genteel, have a hell of life.
I have before colleague small this mortal world, practiced this word animatedly.
Her family circumstances calculates only general, like to use name tagvisiting card however, only portfolio, shoe, dress, perfume, the price of these commodity had exceeded a load, need overdraws credit card consumption.
More do not carry her to commute everyday the travel going abroad of the special that cry and the advanced arrange that eat midday, holiday.
Below this kind of circumstance, she must spend the boy friend's money, but again which man cans bear such grandiose waste.
As acquaintance, we also are not to had not persuaded her, dan Xiaofan feels to should be taken the advantage of young, enjoy more " high quality " the life, still " one is assured and bold with justice " the ground says:
"Want the dignitary before the person, the endure hardships after sure person. Wind scene is only smooth, the family just can give me outer part. The family just can give me outer part..
She also knows she is to looking for a blame to suffer, credit card and flower, have the Zhang sheet that still is not over forever, but not such, how can maintain her to encircle li of extravagant and delicate false appearance in the friend again.
Her boy friend changed several nowadays, worked to because be slack in work,also desertion, the friend group that I look at her to send helplessly is less and less, disappear finally in the life thoroughly.
A lot of people think others gives outer part, but actually face is he is earned come out.
Your part actual strength, others can give you a few minutes outer part, rely on the face that crammer and peacockish accumulation rise, it is to be able to 't bear biff certainly, hard long.
" Forbes " announced a list of names posted up of newest Hong Kong plute before the magazine a few days, mr Li Jiacheng with body home 31.7 billion dollar, continued to hold a title 21 years continuously Hong Kong head is rich.
His relation to face and money, had had a paragraph very incisive comment on:
When you put down face to make money, explain you are already sensible. Spend money when you when earning a reputation, explain you had succeeded. When you can make money with face, explain you had been a character. Still stay over to drink when you, boast, what also does not understand to still be installed understand, when loving so called face only, show your this all one's life also such.Money resembles knowledge, actual strength same, a kind also be a person " lining " .
Life generation, you should believe lining is more important than face, had lining, regular meeting has outer part.
We respect a scholar, respect the magnate, person that respects everything to have actual strength, but the person that won't respect affectation alone only.
Have the person of face truly, also have the actual strength that matchs certainly.
Lining supports outer part
" day dragon 8 " inside have a magical part, without the name, be sweep the floor monk.
When seeing teleplay, feel this individual is really uninteresting, military accomplishment is so fierce, just hide in Shaolin Temple however, do some of sundry that sweep front courtyard divides.
But turn round to look now, sweep the floor monk this lifetime lives him into lining, because of this face this is planted thing, to him, not matter instead, hands-down.
The ace of the world count as one of the best, before him, it is to be able to 't bear biff, who dare say a few component outer part old man of this skinny green unlined upper garment does not have?
But to Everyman, we or hope lining, face has together, have actual strength already, also can get person respect.
The process with larger and larger outer part, also be the process with stronger and stronger actual strength necessarily.
And below the circumstance that is not worth in actual strength, extortionary prop up a too big renown head, the result can be only heart do not deserve, ego destruction.
Take recreational group to cite a case, that is:
The person with insufficient acting, extortionary go becoming emperor of shadow hind, shadow, the result is by everybody callosity sneers at. The person with insufficient knowledge, extortionary go taking degree, make a holiday, the result is distained namely, be utterly discredited.Alleged treasures outside its, defeat garrulous among them, false face, can molder sooner or later.
And the person that has actual strength truly, can undergo all test, harvest the esteem of the world finally.
Those everybody that for instance we revere all the time, resemble You of You of Cai Yuanpei, Yang Jiang, Yuan Longping, massacre, in the spade husbandry inside oneself domain, had excellent lining, face also had naturally, and consistent, indestructible.
When you feel to do not have face, must see oneself have lining first.
Too persistent at face when, ask oneself shabby-genteel value is undeserved.
Be enlightened the relation of face and lining, survive of in the future, ability lives comfortably to follow a heart, big and powerful.
