Say to unreasonable requirement " not "

The person has two big natures, it is hasten benefit avoids kill, 2 it is bully the weak and fear the strong.

Reader " a meter " a paragraph of experience that said the near future.

Last year the end of the year, her husband finds new job went to a new company, the salary that there still are 3 months when leaving one's post does not have settle, the boss says, economy of the end of the year is nervous, etc give again after year.

This lug, pulled a few months.

One's previous experience of her husband skill, humanness is frank, compare volubility, urge the other side when to can written guarantee every time paragraph, always be come back by all sorts of reason prevaricate.

She says, place palpability not to consider fund namely, think in the future procrastinates namely.

Before 51 holiday, she went to that company before husband finding their boss, after a drastically is academic, took money smoothly that day.

The other side says, had not seen you such shrew.

She rancors go back, make do blackguardly, do not make a scene be no good.

I am deep think like that!

A lot of moment, your resign oneself to adversity, submit to humiliation, can be bullied a bloody nose and a swollen facely; And once you rise,strike back, show long and sharp teeth, the whole world can is opposite your light up with pleasure.

It is between person and person such, the life also is such!

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Do not do bad person, but also do not become a benign and uncontentious person who is indifferent to matters of principle

Often the reader can ask me field of a few duty lives law, I always can mention so a word: You must do the person of an effort, but scarcely should become an a benign and uncontentious person who is indifferent to matters of principle.

Do not do " a benign and uncontentious person who is indifferent to matters of principle " , spoken parts in an opera, should know pair of unreasonable requirements to say namely not, should know reject others.

On on-the-job field, a lot of people work not satisfactorily, very depressed, all the day busy into the dog, do not have big breakthrough from beginning to end however, have a commonner cause, namely the person is too nice, do not understand reject a person.

No matter be oneself thing, others is thrown catch, within call, what is such result?

1.Workload is bigger and bigger, the odds that make mistake also is in increase;

2.Bagatelle is too much, cannot get growing truly;

3.Human impact is potential also because of this worse and worse;

Teleplay " happy eulogy " in one act left quite deep impression to me.

A colleague professed to catch a cold, close please so close him side to finish the one part of at hand works.

Won't reject a person close although,close in the heart 100 are not willing, because oneself are original already busy came nevertheless, but still promised to come down, work overtime to just helped this colleague very late complete the work.

Later, the job appeared accident, boss comes round to ask duty, help close close by boss clapperclaw.

This is on field a bit more on-the-job not strange, the boss does not care the job that who ought this be, who does he cares this more, who is caused.

Those who do is more, of easy fault more.

And can mutual shuffle, give casually the thing that others does, often be bagatelle, content of technology of it doesn't matter, this created a kind of result:

Very busy, but busy value is not great, grow too slow, can say even, because,be too busy, busy to do not have time to grow.

And a duty field person that cannot grow continuously, foreground often is can care.

Again for human relation, somebody indissolubles, why the human relation of a benign and uncontentious person who is indifferent to matters of principle is met instead worse and worse.

Common saying says, fight Mi Yangen, carry Mi Yangchou.

If you always are within call, you help him 99 times, he won't be put on the heart, because was used to, but if your where day does not help him, even if once, he can be written down in the heart, still can say your this individual with others even insufficient meaning.

Because of such person, it is the person that belongs bully the weak and fear the strong mostly, bearing has a problem commonly.

I am not to encourage everybody inhospitality needs a person, hope you can know him protection however, have oneself bottom line, also let others know your bottom line, do not help sb to fulfill his wishes evil person, disgusting oneself.

It is on duty field such, also be such in the life.

You can do a good person, go helping others, but object wanting cent.

Some people are bad really, understand far from be thankful, you indulge self-surrender the more, he the more be insatiable.

To such person, what you need to do is strong rise, shine when you after long and sharp teeth, can discover the life is much more comfortable.

Remember this word: A lot of moment, others is violated to you, your be used to comes out.

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When you powerful, the whole world is right your light up with pleasure

Wish the world is tender to you in order to wait for.

This word is very beautiful, but often not actual, at best is a happiness only wish.

Want to become reality, have a premise normally: You are gotten powerful.

When you powerful, this world just often can is opposite your light up with pleasure, tender in order to wait for.

Actor yellow Bo is in such say in interviewing:

Be in previously play staff inside, you can come up against sundry person, all sorts of small scheming, but good person is completely beside now, each pieces are the smiling face that be permeated with, you should have Mr. Huang what, what should you drink, what do I take to you. . .

This world often is so ritzy, when you are weak, the person that steps on you is met a lot of, when you are strong, the person that holds you in both hands is met a lot of.

Do not go complaining, this is human nature makes like that.

So, I said a such words in article begin: The person has two big natures, it is hasten benefit avoids kill, 2 it is bully the weak and fear the strong.

This also is why I am article " 28 years old of mom take two sons to leave be addicted to dies: All wife and mother not harmonious, the problem is on man body " in say, with its management wife and mother concerns, be inferior to managing oneself account.

Today this article, perhaps meeting somebody feels too heavy panel is black, ritzy, frozen, but I want to tell you, this world has warm one side, also have frozen one side.

If you did not sample,cross favor changes in temperature, explain you are very lucky, because somebody is helping you be being carried, replacing you to bear.

If you had sampled, so you should be met the meaning of reasonable effort, also can understand the thing that this article place should hand.

Try hard well, if before nobody loads for you, going especially, should redouble his efforts more, when after you are powerful, the meeting bright with your true life is very much, the opportunity is more also.

In the meantime, also ask you to do a person that has temper, stand fast oneself bottom line, had protected oneself.

Not active do evil, this is god-given goodness, but to evil person indulgent, also often be in do evil.

Encourage!