Pull black you are equal to cannot redeem, want you to use method of the other side only!
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Teacher of member of the Imperial Academy, parents of my boy friend does not like me, so the boy friend wants to part company with me, how should I do? What I need not want self-respect is good to him
Teacher of member of the Imperial Academy, my Laogong is off the rails, I am sustainable, but how should I do ability to let him do not abandon this family?
Teacher of member of the Imperial Academy, do you know? Want him to was responded to a little to me only, I am OK and happy daylong;
Teacher of member of the Imperial Academy, he is pulled black my entire connection way, how should I look for him to redeem him?
Teacher of member of the Imperial Academy, after he parts company with me, had new cummer immediately, see he follows new cummer beautiful conjugal love, my feel as if a knife were piercing one's heart
See these information, I can't help plainting, original love lets everybody become so consistent, love also can let us be this insanity really.
Say like Zhang Ailing: "Encounter him, what I can put him attitude is very low very low, low in dust, but still jubilate in the heart, can open a flower to come from dust so.
A lot of people think after parting company, oneself most what bear hard is the other side and someone else beautiful conjugal love, actually, after parting company, what make a person suffer most is -- you also cannot find that individual again, cannot see any his information, knowing he is dead even is vivid.
Collide because of him you, beautiful before you conjugal love, pledge even also do not want to have any connection with you again, so you feel you lost him really, then the individual seems to also be answered again did not come.
But, you forget not to drop him as before, in the night of every in the still of night, you remember he comes heart or meeting are cut like the knife euqally painful.
So, also answer again really did not come?
Great majority does not miss that one party that part company, total meeting is dead to the other side when part company tangle sodden dozen, force in order to die even. You can use up the other side to be opposite not only so last bits of your ties of friendship, even he still can feel your existence is a trouble.
Accordingly he can feel to part company with you is right choice, so to cast off you, pull black it is inevitable, if you do not have couplet of other the test of rigorous living conditions again in real life, so he disappears like without foundation in your world general.
Small letter is pulled black, QQ is deleted, each big gregarious APP, he places you in blacklist, include, mobile phone number, he also changed. Below this kind of circumstance, it seems that besides abandon also doing not have method again.
So let me tell you, below this kind of circumstance, how should be you done.
Above all, you should understand a concept, pull black ≠ to end namely.
Next, formal of this thing redeem difficulty, not blind and self-confident, also cannot too too inactive.
Want to redeem a complete contact not to go up, perhaps had had the person of new target even, it is not easy that we know.
But the heart that breaks couplet rehabilitate art to be able to help you redeem him.
1. breaks couplet to be not be completely irreclaimable connection
Although was done not have,the surface is contacted between you, but feeling is pulled impossibly however in him black your that says to was not done not have momently. Normal human feelings, if he is pulled black after you, you stopped to bomb wantonly to his, so after the disappear lonely that passes period of time, he also can remember you, want to know you pass recently how.
The man is in normally part company after knowing after the ability after a month, become aware the value that realizes predecessor. This moment, the measure that wants you to adopt only is proper, he can be attracted by you again, active contact you, want to make him active contact you of course, not be to call you to sit over to wait, you should be used for certain a few guide a method, specific issue is specific analysis.
State of mind of the changeover after 2. breaks couplet is very crucial
Above all the fact that you must accept you to part company, accept him to talk about amative reality afresh with others. Want to understand, he is not your boy friend any more. This moment, you have to fall in the teacher's help, make construction of a few ego, place state of mind, such your ability with brand-new attitude faces him.
3. The information breaking ice after breaking couplet is very important
Defeat glacial meaning to point to namely, you are in those who lose connection hind first contact, this moment, everything what you show is crucial, matter to him to still can continue directly contact you. So this information, had better be give out below the guidance of professional adviser, do not previous cause side effect.
And, you should understand, two people are accumulate by long-term contradiction, those who cause definitely absolutely the gender parts company, can successive, cannot impatient.
When face bisect hand, should come down calmly above all, analytic problem, solve a problem.
Once a lot of women are parted company, rapid move is redeemed, without art of composition, without mood of apprehension the other side, often worsen a got-up affair finally.
So, I will be analysed with you, this kind of feeling, what does the problem that often appears have.
One, frame is weak
In the process that gets along in both sides, you did not understand the other side correctly, also did not satisfy the requirement of the other side correctly.
If you to redeem opposite party, with him complain tearfully says, want you to be able to come back only, my whats listen your, whats did not want, I am opposite certainly hello. So very apparent, in this paragraph of feeling, you are low frame, unprincipled abysmal line.
You are done so, can bring about oneself value to drop not only, let a man begin a habit to be in on person position. Still meet those who ignore you pay, do not be willing to communicate, disdain to communicate.
2, reveal demand sense overly
The schoolgirl is in a paragraph of feeling, very easy because need each other too, cause the negligence of the other side thereby.
This kind those who belong to unreliability be obsessed with a type, so the other side attributes safe kind.
Feel too strong to demand of the other side when you, below the circumstance that the other side feels weak to your demand again, unbalance of feeling of demand of your both sides.
Demand, representing ask for. In feeling, the woman is excessive reveal demand sense, the man can feel the heart is tired, can think the woman is to be in ask for value ceaselessly, perpetual.
Because this a lot of men confront the woman that demand feels strong, can produce allergy and evasive psychology.
3, won't manage him mood, did not control capacity completely oneself
Face the inhospitality of the other side, despise, did not maintain good state of mind. In communication process, be irritated by manner of the other side, draw well, later take soft apology actively again.
And relapse instead answer the mood is changed can appear your this individual is very babyish and immature.
Here is to redeem affection, dedicated couple concerns, marital rehabilitate, depart is small 3.
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