Civil | The life piece the 22nd period | Dong Wei
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Introduction: A lot of men do not marry wife now, but remnant daughter is increasing however. What someone says a rural area is remnant male, of the city is remnant daughter, is this why?
The man does not marry wife and remnant female increasing it is two things, we want distinction to treat.
Because financial capacity is insufficient,the man does not marry wife is on one hand, perhaps work not quite creditable income is not steady, all sorts of issues that handle a family to bring hard. Female amount is additionally little Yu Nan sex, difference is quite big still. The marriage that still have even if some of male comrade has bit of scared nowadays concerns, do not think oneself to get swaying in the midst of a raging storm too in the following days, do not have a bit existence to feel. All reasons of these square field surfaces, caused very much nowadays man to did not marry wife.
And the circumstance of remnant daughter differs completely, they have their idea, record of formal schooling and experience are good also. Hope oneself can marry to have as the tortoise husband that has financial capacity, or else and also if the male of officeholder and so on. It is beyond the mark that such requirement does not calculate, after all life once, everybody dare pass cursorily. But reality is reality, fine man is minority, pass natural choice so. A few fine man had a mate, left the one woman that large quantities of expectation that be united in wedlock with fine man. Because do not have the female's favour, remaining large quantities of one men that do not marry wife also is the thing in reason.
Normally the man can think woman this is have only oneself to blame. The reason has 3. It is a woman too false. Have particular demand to the condition such as economy of man height appearance obviously, it is good to oneself to meet the person says to want only unluckily go. When a condition bad but when the person's good man comes round to go after, the woman can decline by every means again. 2 it is a woman too carry. Never be satisfied where one is, random affection of of final and dazed Jun , meaning is confused, it who see is good to who see, who to see again improper. Boil an old maid finally from the girl, not only the man was not searching, still remained oneself. 3 it is a woman too make. Oneself are ugly small duckling originally, want colour not colour, want money to do not have money, record of formal schooling is not tall, the job is bad, still regard oneself as white swan. Oneself also 4, 50 minutes, introduce 7, man of 80 minutes is insatiable still.
Lone man is not little lone remnant daughter is much also, but in the world that they live in two to differ, whether consensus wants to see respective change. Do not marry wife, remnant daughter is much also it doesn't matter is active action, because of the person of these two worlds, should go not easy really.
Remember going up when junior high school and high school, teacher and parents teach us all the time, must not love early, love early also part company certainly. Because you can discover, after attending a college, can encounter more opposite sexes. Also can enter a college because of you this small society, viewpoint of value and philosophy also can produce change accordingly, may you like the type of the opposite sex to change, so when get on an university to seek other in part again, already easy, lean again chart, stable still.
At that time the teachers of the university, member that guide people, parents begin to teach us, do not have a relation, the university cannot find a target, when the job is good, eye shot is wide after the job, can encounter more people and content, you can discover certainly, the other in part that seeks at that time just is you lifelong spouse.
Worked to discover really, this is wrong wrong fault simply. The colleague beside is not aunt uncle, it is the brother elder sisters that had married, good not easy when when below one new personality comes, also adorning lovers comes. Additional, it is not easy to had calculated encounter to did not marry, do not have the child, age that does not have love about the same, appearance is possible still mem and women, as a result discovery does not like to go up, or an office talks about love to feel very awkward. Calculated, can rely on to date only.
Having a lot of mem and women actually need other in part, but this side person is not fitly in an area, bring about them to be not encountered each other so. This may be so called can encounter cannot be begged.
So, how to solve this problem?
It is to serve as a man to want hard outstanding. The life is actual, love cannot leave biscuit. Do not think lone are you not outstanding how to go?
2 it is to serve as a woman to want stop where it should stop. Two people can look cross-eye, the condition has go almost, do you consider surplus after all really?
3 it is to serve as a society to want less hype. What who cries in BMW Zuo today, who will laugh on the bicycle tomorrow, tens of people carry what Xx land money queues up to see about date female, much more eristic, vie much is the ethos not bad?
