Rebuke the child is recited aloud in the bookshop, offer advice of counterjumper good word, be shown

Recently, beijing some bookshop appears a quarrelsome boy, pointing to a staff member to scold: "Doesn't the letter believe me to smoke you? " this one act is patted by the netizen send a network, cause heat to discuss.

Before the accident, little boy is in all the time English of the education outside following, those who learned to have 9 hours is long. Teach outside in a low voice delicate language, boy sound is largish, according to the language that attends class at ordinary times fast read aloud a word accordingly. The boy is reading aloud all the time, also nobody is in charge of him, remind him, friend of a lot of books chooses to sheer him, read a book to another room.

Later elder sister of a young lady namely the staff member of the bookshop, remind the boy voice is too big, meeting influence others reads a book, later busy oneself job went. The nose that did not think of the boy is pointing to her to the past leaves scold: "By what are you in charge of me? I will do not have a person to be in charge of for many times so. " young lady elder sister is smiling to explain, say he affects others to read a book, but the boy still very aggressive: "You which eye sees they read a book? What book do they read? " say ferociously still: "Doesn't the letter believe me to smoke you? " young lady elder sister very in a low voice, very patient ground makes an explanation to the boy, whole journey is very calm.

A doubt is like the Dai Kou of child parent to overspread a woman to play the boy later, say to young lady elder sister: "He still is a child, do not respond him, you are busy your. " even " I am sorry " " feel embarrassed " the word of and so on was not carried. Young lady elder sister understands ground laugh, continue to do oneself work.

Book friend looks to go nevertheless, call up other staff member to comfort her, young lady sister says it doesn't matter however, just did the thing that oneself should do, do not feel to subdue, worry about the child's future instead. The person that the bookshop reads a book is admiring her behavior, the company of the place also decides to undertake praising to its, award.

Someone says, indulgent child makes the parent such thing, after the event also does not apologize, should assume main responsibility, also hope the child can be corrected nevertheless.

Educational child is to let him read not just, the book is read it is again again much, good to get, bad, quality also cannot become moral not quite big implement. Hope child become a useful person, want to grow up above all, let the child know the mainest morality accomplishment, the parent can make from the following:

1. teachs the child standard of the basiccest behavior of formal, society. From begin when the child is small, let him know courteous, esteem, nurturance good convention, aggrandizement good sense. Say courteous term more, be like " thank " , " I am sorry " , " hello " , " adieu " etc; Communal circumstance courtesy is orderly, do not spit everywhere, throw rubbish in disorder, do not make a racket, fight noisely; Abide by social regulation, do not take up at will public natural resources, the feeling that pays close attention to other is waited a moment. Time is long, child nature becomes cultured person.

2. set oneself an example to others, teach by personal example as well as verbal instrution. The parent is the child's best example, what kind of home strip gives what kind of child. Cultured parent can be made to the child set an example best, let the child know what circumstance how to should be done.

3. front is taught, do not be child absolve. The child is not sensible can err, but if the parent with " he still is a child " for excuse be partial to, the child can grow forever only not quite. When the child is done incorrectly, the parent should have education to the child, let him know misdeem fault, guide him in time; When child well-done moment, the parent is not miserly also praise to his, let the child have proper dispute view.

The parent of hope boy can get instructive from inside this incident, try to correct in follow-up education, after all the child is small still, still have an opportunity.