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See recently a few marry the issue that concern, always hind basically involve:
Want the betrothal gifts of how many W, pass to be divided nevertheless, perhaps answer not should, perhaps give mother-in-law live out one's life in retirement. Face house problem, go up originally in the room add a name, perhaps send.What involve completely is money, so here has a problem,
Money, the germ that is happy marriage?
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What is happiness?
" illuminative article " definition: The spirit that happiness is a person (consciousness) the satisfactory condition when undertaking becoming aware knowing to ego. That is to say the feeling that happiness is a heart, be based on contented to what get feeling.
The because be a variety of elements,makes kill of happy marriage, and the safeguard that money is marriage, is not germ. The wife that takes in BMW to cry is rich, is she happy? The husband and wife of by tricycle josh is not rich, can you say they are not happy? Happy family is similar, wretched family has each misfortune each. Favour is not happy, basically see inner feeling.
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Money, to marriage, important? Important.
Economic base decides superstructure, also decided marital quality likewise, corporeal condition is rich, it is the safeguard that passes happily.
What marriage passes is a day, the day has to live, the life faces fuel sauce vinegar, say husband and wife of poor and lowly so 100 things sad. What common saying says is good, hill is not all-purpose, but doing not have money is absolutely incapable. Money is the safeguard of the life, without basic life safeguard, you say the time can have passed, then happy move comes from where.
Money is the condition of a premise of happy life, it is the basic safeguard of happy life, not be happy germ.
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Face matrimony you must do safeguard of good economy base, you must think that is to say method goes earning money, will keep domestic expenditure. Of course domestic heavy burden still basically is in man, now although the society pays attention to equality of men and women, but the man's responsibility still is main.
What should know in marriage is:
1. does not have money not disgraceful, disgraceful is you when preparing to be paid for a family and assume responsibility, marry with respect to the decision.
It is not important that 3. has money, but go up not aspirant very important however. "Poverty is not disgraceful, but poverty is not glorious also. Not disgraceful without the desire to do better, but not glorious also without it "
4. does not have the person of the desire to do better, do not depend on you earning money earn quite much, however the responsibility that you had not prepared this home since bear. However the responsibility that you had not prepared this home since bear..
5. you are OK poor, however cannot poor of course.
You are OK poor temporarily, however cannot poor generation. Because truly hopeful, have the home, have the man of energy, scarcely will be poor very long.
Money is not marriage is all, but it is the premise that has passed a paragraph of marriage certainly.
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Money is a Shuang Renjian, to a few people, accumulated corporeal foundation, can buy room, everything what buy car and place to need, become the source of marital happiness; But to some people, after having money, pole of state of mind fast change, begin to seek stimulation, some going to that gamble, some produces course, became the source with broken family.
In marriage because of money, those who produce all sorts of issue is very much, money became marital killer, bring about all sorts of problems to emerge in endlessly, final divorce wind up. Divorce of course had been, lead to tragedy also be absent a few.
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Every paragraphs of marriage only then dream at hoping to mix, but, the life is actual, no matter if you plan to develop in that way,the thing is, the plan that still is you early with respect to bubble soup, final result is the life cast our dream at the same time, the pressure before makes your pressure heavy, prospective thing makes you careladen unceasingly, " marriage talks about money not pained " .
Money talks in marriage, pained not at all. Specific arrive how to earn money, how to go spending money, this needs both sides to approbate, talk about money to be able to exalt husband and wife effectively feeling. Reasonable deal with respective monetary idea, and be opposite between husband and wife of how OK effective promotion of money deal with plan.
How does ability change money into reasonable happiness, still need husband and wife two people respect understanding each other, each other respects each other love, reasonable deal with domestic wealth.
In that way, money became the source of marital family happiness.
