/ Part 01
" craven fears even happiness "
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Craven fears even happy metropolis, come up against cotton to be able to get hurt, still be hurt by happy place sometimes.
-- too slaughter treat " terrestrial disqualification "
A lot of had read " terrestrial disqualification " the person of this novel, the metropolis because too slaughter those who treat is sensitive and uncannily.
So on this world, true existence such " craven " , the idea of heart of their fear others, that is them lay a finger on does not arrive to also be guessed not mysterious region.
The thing that does not know the more feels horrible more, sometimes, an eyes also can kill a person.
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Too slaughter treat why be like this fear this world? I think we are OK from another his characteristic " flattery character " will understand.
Too slaughter treat think, his own joy comes from feel happy at letting others. This kind to other " flattery " psychology originates right " be abandoned " , " be repelled " be fear of.
And another contradiction dot also appeared, why do one fear to be abandoned to be willing so does the person that pleases the world want to commit suicide often?
Too slaughter treat lifetime to be recorded to have the suicide 5 times, 4 suicide abortive.
Actually this also is a characteristic of sensitive person, they may are full of to committing suicide yearning, because fear to be abandoned, want to escape from this world before be abandoned so.
Compared with living it is difficult to suffer disaster, they are so scared to dying to be done not have instead.
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Want to leave this world, it is sensitive person's common topic.
Psychology thinks, the biggest to cheeper horror is by abandon. This is biology root establish reacts at the instinct in gene. Outdoors, be approximated to die to young cub by abandon, the traumatic dispute that so shadow of this kind of psychology leaves often cicatrizations hard.
Before paragraph time, a student because of the parent abuse and jump the building commits suicide, incident itself has made person bitterness regretful come extremely, but more hair-raising be this news lower part however leave a message.
Many netizen shared him within an inch of by parental utterance " kill " experience, the action that had had the suicide is barred some fall however, some are in all the time of death " wish scene " in struggle repeatedly.
To their parents, these are " gas word " , whose home parents and child do not quarrel? But to the child, be without by the only support on this world attack of bottom line ground, with respect to the value that has let them exist to oneself generation suspected.
And a lot of moment, parents uses ultra language drain mood, oneself did not get angry to apologize simply perhaps to the child, continue with respect to can privative child sad right, meet even the child normal ego rehabilitate procedure is interrupted forcibly, tongue-lash " argumentative " .
Come so, the information that the parent passes the child is " cure injury is wrong, the behavior of be pacified mood is argumentative and cowardly " , the child is harmed to let his no longer, can endeavor to satisfy the parent's requirement only, lose the ability of ego adjustment gradually.
Sensitive person is injured too easily, harm oneself no longer to let others so, they aux would rather holding wounded position, also should go painstakingly " flattery " others.
This kind of behavior is in " terrestrial disqualification " in also have reflect in great quantities, "Flattery " had become too slaughter study subliminal behaviour, and the anguish that derives accordingly and to this world indissoluble, make him vivid get gingerly, fear extremely.
/ Part 02
" sensitive do not be equal to puny, the expressional form that has an extreme easily so "
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Too slaughter treat mocking his is " craven " , but Lu Xun gentleman has an opinion another time to him: Clean addiction of spirit, let resemble too slaughter the person look like treating not to get the least bit harm, he lives in his world, low-down and free.
He wants what to break, do not have direction however. His anguish depends on him looking at inky world attentively.
Too slaughter treat cannot agree with oneself located world, cannot coma must become an an utterly worthless person, but faint also revolt. He is too painful, can kill oneself to seek disengagement only then.
Too slaughter treat such person, compared with cowardly, more resembling is too touchy move.
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We are right " sensitive " a the biggest error, namely sensitive should do weakness.
Can become through growing like a person no longer weak, become firm rise. But you cannot ask a sensitive person no longer sensitive.
Somebody may not understand, since your anguish comes from Yu Min to feel, you are not then sensitive, not cranky not have to? This kind of idea, it is Everyman gives fitly sensitive person farther harm.
For instance a person that because suffer,cannot join Mian appeals to you, but there is noise when you sleep, so you rebuke he says: "How do you sleep become aware so eventful still, is noise big it is not good to go to you do not listen? Why must so care about? Why must so care about??
Actually this example still has improper place, that is auditive it is an appearing organ, you still can look for earplug to stem to it, but sensitive it is to send a kind from the heart special experience, what do you take to stem oneself heart? Sensitive person is harmed in what this world gets, it is others unheard " noise " .
Everyman cannot understand this kind of anguish, but cannot because of this oversight its existence, simple and crude its end at weakness in.
/ Part 03
" sensitive it is God gifts the mankind's most painful largesse "
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Have the person of sensitive heart, as if to compare others inherently many a sense organ, alleged " a mind which perceives both past and future " it is this meaning probably.
Although the ordinary person sees those who be less than him " a mind which perceives both past and future " provide body length where to be, but he is can the takes others heart subtle wave motion of acumen, take a talk when delicate air changes.
To starting a writer for, sensitive it is the most commendable character. Between those people and person the subtle mood of fleeting, often be to analyse a person the crucial clew of potential feature.
Alleged world, it is other namely, by other this kind of countless much subtle sentiments are comprised. If impalpable, that is met the surface that be steeped to the lips in lives, cannot see through.
If too touchy move, can feel the world is extremely false again, some truths are obviously before, can look at people to keep turning around it only however circle. Skill attributes loneliness, this word is extended come, it is such probably.
Maintain a distance with this world only, ability is analysed with the angle of a spectator, ponder over the world 100 condition, is not abandon among them, create a few can the private work that oneself experience drain to be watched without macrocosm however.
We are shut without method let oneself " sensitive " organ, can think method and the sum humorous get along only so.
Need not go pleasing cringingly, need not let oneself appear hard " normal " , the heart that becomes you is enough and powerful, you had been read enough much book, go too enough remote region, can understand this world included actually the different philosophy in ten million, also have already the person chose or loneliness or mad lifestyle.
Sensitive person wants to do, not be to become coma, hold sensitive manner and world conversation however, understand finally and excuse oneself life.
