Before a few months, I once had written an article that harms to the infant about smoking, be brought up as baby, increasing also person can want to hold her in the arms. Among them the friend that certainly will also included to have smoking or elder, the person that we hold to not to let smoke adopts baby this thing, be censured or had stuck unnatural label a few times.
Say occasionally I also feel embarrassed candidly, or whether is there often balance place in just think, but be criticised be not being held in the arms to the person of smoking is unnatural, I cannot accept really: Skill smoke kills him, secondhand smoke kills others, 3 hands smoke kills family.
A lot of people think to want not to smoke indoors only, run the balcony or toilet are smoked, won't affect the baby in the home. The toxic substance in little imagine cigarette can remain to go up in the dress, or wave along with air, for example the infantile bed, nipple that is added in darling even, make 3 hands cigarette, among them toxicant is qualitative but by skin enters human body, cause harm to treating the baby in the home for long, affect their respiratory system, the machine rate that yields darling to suffer from allergic asthma increases, it is not easy to also let darling catch a cold at the same time heal, increase tympanitis risk, even slow down intelligence develops!
A lot of people feel not to smoke to do not have a thing before the child, run so outside smoking, but one exhaust also did not wash his hands to also do not change clothes, want to adopt baby, still kiss again to darling even dillydally. On begin of the face on your dress reeky the 3 hands smoke that just gave heat, all is wiped go up in darling body!
Do not prevent you to adopt baby, say with you even: "Thank you to bring darling full harm " .
Myself is grown below smokeless environment child, father ever had had a craving for tobacco, the body is unwell later give up, after he himself is experienced personally, do not hope the child acquires bad to the body habit more.
Besides father teach engrave to be in heart, my itself is stinking also smoke flavour, feel unpleasant disgusting, why does the person that doesn't know smoking love so after all?
Saying to smoke in my heart candidly is the thing that bite off own head really, same gain is done not have, bad to him body, very big also to other people influence, body of the injury that spend money is basic without a single redeeming feature!
And if you do not have method give up,drop, always want to smoke, or must depend on smoking ability to loosen the mood, feel cheerful, that becomes is smoke is smoking you, not be you were smoking. Some people can feel I love to smoke I love to spend money I love a body, that is my freedom, the freedom that is you is right, then you have skill to ensure 3 hands smoke won't affect just a little the person to the side!
If yourself smoking fell ill, for instance disease of lung cancer, cardiovascular system, should family receive an awful mess for you? Is the passerby that hard way of your outdoors smoking crosses hapless is what should suck you secondhand smoke? Even you think smoking just kills him, but the female beside you, pregnant woman, darling kills disaster to delay descendants because of your smoke, are you lost got blame?
If there is pregnant woman, baby, child beside you, do not smoke before them, do not let them smell smoke flavour, should this be basic courtesy?
Anyhow, smoking has many bad, secondhand 3 hands smoke is opposite smoke darling has many bad, do not add give uncecessary details more; After all nicotian wants cleanness to just can adopt baby to what degree, or baby can be adopted after all before smoke of Buddhist monastic discipline even, this is likely opinions differ from each other, after all every are right to parents of this thing care about degree to differ with the standard.
If today secondhand smoke, 3 hands smoke changes defecate, good understanding. If a person just drops to cesspool today, the full defecate on the body, time do not wash his hands in the home, do not bathe, brush a face to follow motion repeatedly, change the dress do not be willing, walk over to be about to adopt lovely little baby. Next you ask him to be cleaned change a clothes, he answers you to say " not so serious " , " how so much regulation " , do you still feel so reasonable? ? Can you be the person that this all over the body is excrement to defend?
If this all over the body is the person of excrement, it is everyday immerse repeatedly so inside cesspool, taking a suit stink to come home, touching defecate next is everywhere in the home, also be on sofa, also be on the bed, it is on the carpet on the wall on table, even he is returned from time to time the hand is taking posse defecate to be in sitting room, play in the toilet, room in oneself, the stink diffuses in the home, the material that is full of a bacterium is touched go up in sofa, defecate be soiled of Huang Huang is seen in wall everywhere, calculate air to purify machine leaving all the day, also have a light excrement flavour wave do not go, you still can say to ask he goes changing wash unnatural, you still can say not to affect others again so, can you still say anyway is the person beside healthy also and grown?
Perhaps have some of elder relatives and friends, because the relation of smoking is restricted by novice pa Mom,cannot adopt baby, or be by straight white dissuasive smoke, can feel to there is bit of afflictive, awkwardness on the mood, these novice pa Mom also are for the healthy consider of darling only, they do not have a fault!
Because baby is little still, they want osculatory environment, person, material without method him choice, the person thing that contacts with place for the health of darling guards a pass, the responsibility that is parents?
If love baby very much really, very want to be close to darling, request to ask smoke of Buddhist monastic discipline; Or it is to come rare and a bit more courteous, before interacting with darling, do not smoke, willingness goes changing clothes, wash one's hands wash a face, protect the child's health, is just be called love? Be economical is opposite again the body is good, more can the descendants of benefit future, he Le is?
Spend the things of big Qian Maigui, toy with its, or it is canal of mom of pair of pregnant Mom, novice east canal on the west, offer one caboodle proposal, compared with afore-mentioned these, smoke of Buddhist monastic discipline is become more polite, more the person with relaxed odour, and bring harm no longer, this ability is good really to darling.
