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Do not let " I am no good " , strangled your life

I learn bad, so. . . . . .

14

2019.5

By: Afternoon crazy talk

Civil / afternoon crazy talk

01

"Did not learn to swim, you learn bad. You learn bad..

When A Bing speaks this word with me, I stand in high 1.5m swim Chi Li, slow-witted slow-witted ground is looking at lane end, brain a blank.

"Hum, I learn won't. I go back first, yourself swims a little while again. Yourself swims a little while again..

I am picked swim lens, after taking any emotional colour ground to speak this word with A Bing, walk into alone change the clothes, developed a bath, come home.

All the way, I tell myself a maximum sentence is, swim this all one's life is to learn won't, did not count on.

Since then, I begin to be fed up with, fear even summer, scared good friend calls me to swim together again.

That year, I am big one.

"I learn won't " these 4 words, became lie across a hill in my heart.

02

Want to break this hill, need stimulation of outside force of have the aid of.

Apropos, a word of the roommate, became " the stone that attack hill " .

Big 2 summer vacation, the intense heat of summer is intolerable, a few roommates are making a noise to swim together.

However, when I speak myself to won't swim, everybody was stupefied, show open-eyed expression.

Among them respecting of a roommate: "Your Fujian person, be brought up littoral, how won't still swim to now? How won't still swim to now??

My alarm hunch, belt bit answered helplessly sentence: "I learn inherently won't, do not have method. Do not have method..

The surface says " learn won't " , but tell oneself secretly however stealthily " must learn to swim this year. But tell oneself secretly however stealthily " must learn to swim this year..

Have a holiday later, in returning the home, walk into natatorium alone, did Zhang Yue to get stuck, open learns natant way.

The first pace: Download breaststroke video from the net, video study follows in the room.

How does hand fit well slide?

How to breathe take a breath?

The 2nd pace: Because at ordinary times the person of natatorium is very much, do not have method to practice swimming at all. Then, I eat a meal midday everyday, nonstop, take the advantage of when the person is little, hasten swim the pool practices.

After entering the water, cerebral sea mile recollects the content that video interprets, according to education measure, one pace practices.

When wanting to rest, forcing oneself swim. Tell oneself: "Must learn this year. "Must learn this year..

The 3rd pace: The young associate that has learned to swim knows, it is the most difficult to swim is " take a breath " . Wanted take a breath to learn only, the others is unchallenged.

After take a breath learns, I am forcing I swim first 20m, later again set swims the target of 50m. Swim until the half wants to abandon every time, to step on at the same time leg, tell oneself at the same time: "Hold to again, hold to again. Hold to again..

such, capture 100m after coming down, cast off eventually " I learn to won't swim " this bank.

"Does your what moment learn to swim? "Does your what moment learn to swim??

Later, when swim again with A Bing together, he took an open-eyed ground to ask me.

What didn't I say more, laughed, plunge into directly in drinking water.

03

These year come, beside a lot of friends, talkative consider learns a new mastery of a skill or technique.

But, be defeated finally " I learn bad, I learn won't, I am no good " these terms.

Remember college roommate Yang Ge, at the outset we prepare a newspaper to drive school, ask him otherwise wants one case.

He read headings in an account book a few days the title of one, tell us: "Calculated, do not learn first, I feel I learn bad. I feel I learn bad..

After half an year, when we obtain a driver's license, his person is sighing silently, regret to did not follow us to learn together at the outset.

Write down greatly 4 when I begin writing, do not wish to tell beside I am keeping the person thing, be afraid that people comes to me namely " you learn a project, write what word, be no good. Be no good..

Everybody did not tell, a person is written stealthily rise. Awake in the morning everyday, cerebrum begins roll, look for selection of subject, write down sign in the mobile phone. When going out, go up public transportation, draw out skill machine at once, read all sorts of articles. Good the good word of others sentence write down, before sleeping in the evening, must read.

Besides these, still every day bubble library, see a book make note. Get online, look for all sorts of video about writing to look.

Read more, write more, tell oneself more: I am OK.

Finally, still drew up really dot variety. Two years in, publish 3 books.

These days, with beside a few friends chat, a lot of people are in vexed, do not want to be waited for in building site, consider line feed employment, after total however him concern enters a new field, learn bad.

Actually, I think, the network develops so nowadays, the way that gets information is so convenient, want to learn a new thing, perhaps change a new industry, in imagining so difficult.

The most difficult, be dare not step a the first pace, by the heart in " I learn won't " thought place box up.

04

There is a girl beside, turned to learn an accountant all right last year.

Before this, she never has contacted accountant knowledge, even university institute learns major, follow 8 pole hit the accountant to be not worn edge.

Beside a lot of people say " it is very difficult to do not have a foundation, learn bad " below the circumstance, she a person buys class of book, newspaper, the time that uses the job everyday learns to rise.

Later, pass an entrance examination is primary accountant card, turn to succeed all right.

Say this case, I say again acute hearing.

Everybody knows, acute hearing acute hearing studying video recently.

So, why did she begin to study video?

The answer is, I am urging her to send video every day.

At the beginning she always pleads, say oneself are patted bad, others is professional group is patted, what oneself pat is not good-looking.

When hearing this, I tell her certainly: "Should pat bad ability more, you cannot because pat bad and dare not pat, didn't that learn all one's life? Didn't that learn all one's life??

These days, she sent a lot of video, the picture follows a feeling character, it is good that one compares.

A lot of people in the life, actually Dou Man has idea, be willing to do a lot of things. But be immersed in idea finally -- abandon -- idea -- in the dead loop that abandon.

Wish: Do not let again " I learn bad " the excuse that makes you abandon. Contrary, because do not understand, because learn bad, just want more go learning hard.

Above, encourage.

Do not let " I am no good " , strangled your life

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