College fellow student is old fat resigned again, the job that this he seeks has not done probation to ended to resign. He gave the end of the year me last year say not to like present job really, want to change an industry to try, he says he wants to make a plan all the time.
Be over too as expected year come, he sought the job of a plan really, original probation 3 months, but big fat arrived into duty in March now just two many months, big fat cry again shouting demit duty.
Ask him the reason, he tells us again " I do not like this job, no less than dry going to " , we persuade him not to want so actuation abdication, also do not want with temporarily be fond of applies for a job.
At the outset he is making a sale, because of outstanding achievement not beautiful and abdication, he reachs reason end not to like to sell, now his hardship the plan end resigns to do not like.
Ask he wants so for what so capricious when, he says however " interest just is best teacher, you look, I do not like this job, how to work well " .
All the time since, we are certain " interest is best teacher " , no matter be,apply for a job so, like to be jumping-off place with interest, the interest that holds to him basis goes working.
But in fact, interest just is the lie with duty the biggest field. If you always apply for a job with interest, be pair of your profession career is not responsible.
01 so called interest, it is the action of halo effect nevertheless
A lot of people are in when applying for a job, when perhaps doing a profession to plan, say to want to insist to do the thing that oneself like, even if be the many time on the flower,go do sth over and over again, also want try every means to take the company that likes to oneself.
But in fact, after a lot of people go in, ability discovery is not him imagination in that way, big like my classmate fat same, he says he likes a plan to want to make a plan, because his college roommate had found new job from the young assistant of Party B,be Party A, became concoctive director. Big fat look at family light every day bright beautiful, the article table that is not an ad firm everyday is hit revise, with respect to the plan that is a Party B article table hits do poorly done work over again. This ability was caused big fat the think of a way that wants to make a plan.
When big fat when oneself are done truly, ability discovery is not so return a responsibility, his what won't, get need to be made from concoctive assistant, need goes out to step on dish of each building everyday dish, collect contest to taste information, make him building even dish daily, weekly, monthly magazine, if arrived to have mobile period, the overwork of black and white reverse is common occurrence more.
These are big fat did not think of, because saw his roommate issues orders everyday,he is only, talk about a building with them easily dish go situation, feel quite cool, think this is the job that he likes next, think this is his career.
This belongs to halo effect on psychology, because,point to a person namely some thing or the some advantage of a certain person, and the phenomenon of formation exaggerated thing itself, point to forms because of a view to some thing whole view normally, this is the action with a kind of real deviate actually, it is a kind of cognitive deviation.
Because look at concoctive manager every day cruel Party B, so big fat think oneself like a plan, actually he just likes this kind to issue orders, the aureola of high salary.
Because see others makes a sale, income is rich and generous, every day free, so you think you like to sell, actually you just are worked comfortably again by high pay state institute puzzles.
Actually, you are so called like, it is a ring of light that likes working itself to be taken oneself nevertheless just.
After denude envelops working aureola, if you still can love this career, struggle to the very end for it, just be true jubilation.
The 02 requirements that if you are right,work remnant interest, be one very dread
Cai Kang Yongceng is in " strange flower says " the respecting in the program:
The person knows he likes very hard, your acknowledge needs a course. So I feel to use like to choose the job, will tell those who hold out danger to the person of 90% .
Because be afraid, the thing that you think you like, after was done, can discover, you did not like so.
Take favorite job so should work, it is very severe to oneself challenge, you should decide your be able to stand is challenged this, you just can make this choice.
Pretty good, if you always do not like to measure a job with be fond of, it is to be in in fact with the individual subjective apiration measures this job, thereby oversight working itself this some value.
For instance you feel you like to sell, but actually your disposition and ability are to cannot be competent of this job, you are introvert, farouche, detest a dinner party even, but still want toughly to make a sale, that no matter the glow that how many you have, final metropolis is defeated it is under outstanding achievement pressure.
So, if you are remained only to working requirement,like, that will be very dread.
Real work, should be to suit you, you can be competent to be able to bring the issue that achievement feels to you again at the same time, is not to have fun at only.
The body is on-the-job, do not want to rise duty raises without the person, also think without the person incompetent, but if you are only,apply for a job according to interest, may appear really not to get the case of annals.
Be fizzled out by the delegate character of business of highly praise tall affection in recreational group Bo, you are knowable and young the thing that the Huang Bo of moment likes most sings.
Young moment, his group crosses band " blue sand blown by wind " , that moment is in each district show, be stationed in in bar, even the musical dream for oneself, still had written a song to singers of many big shop sign.
Not only such, the maddest when, he is daylong still singing dance.
But result how? Oneself like so sing and did not bring any result to him, the life that lets him instead was immersed in predicament. But under, huang Bo can return native place to run a plant only, hope to fend with this, but still failed.
Later until piece perform the film, in act in a play there was result on this road, just go better more, became shadow emperor.
You look, interest is liked and did not let Huang Bo render outstanding service and be famous, let him be immersed in life predicament instead, do not have what like so to act in a play instead, accomplished him unique however.
So, interest can not make the important standard that measures the job, if you insist to use,like to choose a job, a career, eventually the ground him park tired out.
The 03 interest that did not pay for it are without a meaning, craftsman thinking just is long law
A lot of people say he like a certain industry to just want to do, but if you ask him: ? Does approach of male ┦ of of Yu of armour of ǘ of tan of ぷ of lot muching Lang cough 4 Qi of raw meat or fish of Chun Chang admonish plinth of hawk of partridge of ancient wine vessel?
True jubilation is not mouth says absolutely just, use action proof however, the effort that uses oneself is paid go of test and verify.
A friend likes a painting very much from high school period, university nature chose interior design, but she absolutely the undergraduate with other unlike, escape all the day class, Tan Lian loves, used an university 4 years to grind only seriously however oneself major, be free to sit down come draw, modification plan.
Actually she pays for the thing that her likes but more than these, still be in high school period, she than ever the person tries hard, often taking palette to be drawn everywhere, arrive cold summer vacation, it is to cost not little money to go out more learn skill.
such she is recumbent the spirit that oneself grind only, just from a copy kept as a record the poorest that the fiercest in becoming the corresponding period to learn to design that, not only such, she also is the minority in her classfellow to did not turn the person of travel.
The university has not graduated to give his new home the design, carry on next beside the person's bill, do bigger more slowly, she established her atelier simply, enrolled oneself employee.
Before paragraph because took the prize on the design,time is more, had go the opportunity of Holand study.
You look, she is her interest interest, begin to try hard from high school layout, abandon oneself breathing space, abandon oneself holiday, going to an university is the picture blueprint that become aggravated more, just went all the way today.
Did I ever ask her: ? Does cut kind stitch the sole to the upper into parts to be like Mi of standing tall and upright tending or guard a gate to make an appointment with excuse me of be ignorant of of Xiong of glue of Bao of of bifurcation of Kuo of drought Mu Xuan?
Does she answer my: ? Does then younger sister cast random archives of Kang of quiet of Si ぶ emperor of Huang Bei of of battle of of Γ of of Chou of aspic of じ of Si of muching Dang of of Qi of barren of Cui of of Quan accumulate unreal of tip of aspic of pregnant Nie of Xi Yan of ∩ of of act of さ of Si of attentively of of dizzy second of ?
Be, we are certain interest is best teacher, the interest that little imagine cannot pay for it, do not pass even if bring passerby just.
Real interest, need us hard to pay.
Real interest, need us to use craftsman thinking burnish.
Alleged craftsman thinking points to namely should pay close attention to oneself to perhaps work to the world brought value, let oneself become a valuable craftsman namely in other words, let oneself become this domain to have genuine talent, also produce the talented person of value to other, this kind of thinking just is the important way that makes his have deep love for a career.
The interest that cannot pay for it is the jubilation of type of behave like a hooligan, be willing to be paid for it only, the interest that is willing to treat it with craftsman thinking, just be right professional development way.
The job of 04 disinclination also can make success, you can fall in love with your job
The person with duty truly fierce field, not be the person with the domain calorific glow that is familiar with in oneself, also not be the person of cautious and conscientious, however on those post that do not like in oneself, also can make the person of achievement.
When measuring the job, such person is not absolutely with liking simply with do not like to decide, the success that brings according to this job however and meaning go deciding.
Japanese entrepreneur paddy fills and the husband ever said: Want to spend a rich life, have two kinds of choices only.
It is the job that pursues oneself liking, another kind is to let his like go to work to make.
But what say for the most part the job that oneself like is Gao Guang nevertheless below effect like, be not the jubilation on real significance, should pare dense fog finds favorite job truly so honest too difficult.
That is remained only let oneself like go to work to make, and the job that oneself should like on real significance, make oneself work truly only achievement, get others approbate.
Yellow like shadow emperor Bo is same, because those who be the life is helpless,chose to act in a play, this is not is the career that he himself likes truly, but he is accomplished in this domain however extraordinary, ministry department film is box-office an excellent work, he still took shadow emperor in film domain, this is the height that the musical field that he likes never has had.
And these achievement let Huang Bo go further more on film road, automatical the identity that he also prefers him actor now.
So, you can work what do not like to also make success one time, just be crowning victory of play chess of duty field rich person.
You can make the work of disinclination achievement, you can be hit this job is fallen in love with in the bottom of the heart.
There is the job that likes absolutely originally on the world, it is you let it gift nevertheless value, had a sense, just had alleged favorite job.