I am morning dream evening is picked up, have temperature, have an attitude. Click " attention " , you are my person.
01
Have a such appearances " big surplus female years is static good, big surplus male sad wail is alled over wild " . The woman disregards her age right-down, return another flavour pick and choose awaits love, and once after the age arrived 30 years old, male people begins to be his marriage " run around on sinister intentions " of effort search love.
Those who cause this one cause is, major person feels, man comparing woman is reality more, if pressing population allocation, what remain finally is a man certainly.
But marriage won't be distributive of geometric ratio exemple, if the schoolgirl is unalterable,this is known, what be remained to finally is probable it is you.
Because the age is to feminine concussion,want than the man big, and the man looks for smaller than oneself woman of 5 years old gets married is very normal phenomenon, and the woman wants to look for smaller than oneself man of 5 years old gets married, not actual however.
02
Lin Lin this year 35 years old, it is the big surplus in people mouth female, she present regrets exceedingly, she becomes aware the understanding of she is right before marriage and love is full of prunes.
Before a few years, she special self-identity, no matter the woman is how old the age not anxious is married this word, because a kind of such circumstance also is beside her, it is the schoolboy is recalling a woman student, and male much more female little also be a true condition.
She thinks, since the woman is marriage those who love the market is rare lack resource, must find first-class man talent to marry his so go out, but time varies person, this looked for her to arrive 35 years old.
She of this moment begins anxious, after all already 35 years old, procrastinate a few years to be able to be about 40 years old again, then she reduced choose idol level.
This thinking that there can be big man to chase after her actively after reducing a level, but reality is brutal, her what be chased after by a flock of schoolboys in 25 years old, in 35 years old when however " unmanned make inquires " .
03
Be because be the same as,age had the man gotten married? Not be of course, there is not little big and single male young person beside Lin Lin, but she what they won't consider to be of the same age at all.
The reason is very simple, the course struggles for years, 35 years old of these right-and-left men, compare wet behind the ears young man student, have stabler economic base, more mature also, in the heart of young girl they suit to marry more.
Since can select younger woman student, so Where is the Lin Lin that why chooses 35 years old even?
Lin Lin also attended a few times to date later, can be dating schoolboy, otherwise is individual condition honest too poor, otherwise compares the man student with her young age to not be willing to be together with her namely.
This makes her exceedingly pained, be the same as by what age the man is " popular commodities " , and did she become however " defective goods " ?
04
Actually the affliction about Lin Lin, we can be analysed from two respects.
1, choose of male and female occasionally standard difference
Feminine choose occasionally the standard is refined quite, he is for instance differ want surely exceedingly handsome, but must neat cannot dingy, OK and economical but cannot door of dig or dig out with a finger or sth pointed, need not be large fortune, but must the life after can paying to have two individual marriage, behave well, humanness sureness is waited a moment.
The man's choose becomes accurate occasionally simpler, most man feels, want two people to be able to close only, OK.
See the level that is like a man to go up occasionally in choose less than the woman, but actually, one closes, was in the control with active complete advantageous position in his hand.
What want take into account in the woman when choosing marriage is too much, the limits that also can choose oneself then narrowed, do not become high low not, became a lot of woman students' single main reason.
Can be a man however need not attend to these, the schoolgirl calculates also be indifferent to without income, the tradition that comes thousands of years anyway is the man makes money raise the home. The level became low choice range is wide, can choose so young, won't choose the age of course big.
Created a more awkward result so, big surplus female compete at the same time with young girl high grade man, and young girl can choose when high grade man is most.
Of course at that time you may ask, that is not to still have a few " not high grade man " , are they to also want to remain? This wants the 2nd saying problem namely.
2, face the age, woman " devalue " faster than the man
A word is called, 41 branches spend the man, 4 bean curd spend the woman, must not regarding it as is fun, man of 40 years old marries a schoolgirl common occurance of more than 20 years old, but a schoolgirl of 40 years old is married,can make big news to a man of 30 years old.
Before the age the woman is weak force group, no matter wish to not be willing to admit, young and beautiful it is the biggest depend on that the woman faces marriage, and the depend on that the man faces marriage is, income and ability, these can promote as the growth of the age.
Once common man, hit for years in experience after going all out, great majority can have the economy that marital place needs and corporeal requirement, they can enter this time the cavalcade of high grade man.
This disappear the other party is chief, then big surplus male more female than big surplus also, there was speech to counterpoise more in marriage.
Feminine thirsty love is perfect the mood of marital happiness is understandable, but must not hold a kind in the arms, big surplus female not anxious is married, the manner goes facing marriage.
With its the choice is risking the risk that is left, await the perfect man of an entirely imaginary, still be inferior to be in appropriate age, choose a latent capacity, struggle together with him.
