"You raise me small, I raise you old " how be ineffective! Should we give parents live out one's

Say " raise can prevent old " , nevertheless 80, 90 hind this should " 30 and stand " age, raise an old person to provide for however times feeling pressure. According to statistic, 90 ％ 80 hind decide oneself cannot sufficient person of provide for the aged, have half above among them 80 hind still need parents to undertake aiding financially. Say in those days " provide for the aged is prevented " it is laughingstock, and became reality nowadays.

The person arrives middleaged, most be afraid that those who hear is the message that parents falls ill, hope that word comes later on, not be to say not filial, more moment are ability not equal to one's ambition! This should be pondered over in the filial heart that great majority has been parenting!

Advance as urban and rural unifinication quickly, countless farmer goes out after working, empty nest old person of the country is increasing, traditional in the past " raise prevent old " domestic type provide for the aged is in it seems that by slowly erode, each respect that rural old person lives is facing awkward awkward situation.

Means of the country's common provide for the aged is, children serves an old person by turns, a month, or a week comes by turns, such means, look be like very fair, actually inside contradictory and heavy, to the old person, arrive this age, the wind Qingyun that sees money and power is weak, of the hope is the home in harmonious, can enjoy the warmth that the family brings and security, but children is taken care of by turns, the old person does not have even a fixed living place, that still talks about He Xingfu!

Besides, the commonnest contradiction between children is, between children responsibility of easy and mutual shirk. For instance, there are a few children to think in the home, parents can appear a bowl of water does not have Duan Ping, especially prejudicial small, have delicious give first small, buy what thing to think of small, what favour considers first small. And as the old nature is uncomfortable inside the heart. When patronizing an old person accordingly, they think, since parents is prejudicial small, so small with respect to should much power giving a share, should take a place more on living cost, the time that take care of should how long a bit.

Again for example, some filial economy conditions are good, some economic conditions are poor, and economic condition is poor think, when oneself are bringing up an old person, should not mix economic condition is good same. If be arranged so forcibly, filial heart is unwilling affection does not wish, the daily life of the old person is afraid of also is not at ease, the person is born namely all one's life alive foster daughter, to old have a support. However, at present mode of this kind of provide for the aged is in develop toward the direction with bad move, make major now old person fears to often go.

You raise me small, I raise you old. This word circulates to us this generation was ineffective! Cannot we give parents a carefree happy life? What do you have to want to say to this, welcome everybody to leave a message tell small make up! Pay close attention to author farming fun to be updated continuously 3 farming information! The thank nods assist transmit!