The ancients cloud: "40 not be puzzled, 50 know destiny, 60 ear to arrange " .
The old age in entering thinks the heart with common does the thing of common only later, this piece it is the letter that an old person writes him, those who say is word of the daily life of a family completely, character brief desire is deep, however sentence sentence enter a heart.
Must read it!
Each bits very guileless, specific, proposal collect carefully is good, right each in senile friend is very useful!
01
Stop to recollect the past
We the child of this generation person child times and young times, took a few pain than present youth more or less.
Fortunately present life already better and better, can affection of a few spare cashes, idle does the thing that he likes.
Accordingly, among the memory that senile friends do not want to was enmeshed blindly in the past in, want to look ahead active and hopefully, in too good life most 20 years of gold!
02
Stop to get angry
Young when more or less do we have some of temper, especially the child is not obedient, always be unavoidable to abuse the child, hit the child even.
But, the child is already grown nowadays grew up, had oneself idea, we cannot resemble again previously.
We can apply accumulative experience wisdom, offer children reference opinion, maintain affection, humorous attitude.
Do not accept an opinion because of children with respect to wag one's tongue or life, lest form the insecurity of two acting relations.
03
Stop to complain
Common saying says: Domestic home has the classics that reads aloud hard originally.
When everybody has trouble, also want to pour out with others sometimes, this is understandable, but the frequency that should notice to complain.
If the friend always follows you to complain same a thing, relaying the word of negative energy everyday, believe you also can not like such friend.
04
Stop to waste time
Elapse quickly time, a snap of the fingers between one brandish.
We had been stridden in senile cavalcade, time varies person, we do not have organic can wasteful time more.
Want what to do to be done, what to want to be bought, want what to eat to eat, what to say again " after waiting " , " etc have time " , " had waited a few days! What to say again " after waiting " , " etc have time " , " had waited a few days!!
You can wait for time, but time will never wait for you! Do not want so again him treat unfairly.
05
Stop loneliness
No matter be,live one case with children, still be with the old partner two life live, want to accomplish mental independence, must not from morning till night around move a few individual lives in the home.
Old people should be much " walk out of a door " , want to have oneself friend group, have a few kinds of interested interests, such life ability are more rich.
06
Stop officious
Do an old person, have a tricks of the trade, want to open an eye to close a key point to some things namely, went this past.
Do not want everything to be a center with oneself, give children certain life space, do not interfere their life.
Be in grandson generation people on educational problem, in old people ten million cannot with " have experience " and pose as, who is the parents of should clear child, look after children as far as possible according to the viewpoint of child parents.
07
Stop to chatter
Healthy, marriage is loved, the job is medium the topic that old people likes to follow filial communication most, and the youth feels disgusted most in old people exhorts repeatedly a thing.
Because this is little,chatter, some things, children are clear about in the heart, oneself have music, we also fasten total Suo.
08
Stop to put money
In senile friends, might as well stop the pace of money of remain after deduction!
The money on bankbook is a number only nevertheless, those who worked hard all one's life we, it is a bit better to oneself to want really.
Inside the limits of own ability, not too care about a dress how many money, a Chinese cabbage how many money, want be willing to part with or use to spend money!
Money spent just be his, put the money that rise to be able to calculate bequest only.
