Believe a lot of people still remember, before paragraph time brushs screen " Dou Ting is good " ;
So, do you know " had we been close friends " ?
If say " Dou Ting is good " the one ground chicken feather that disclosed former unripe family, develop the heavy male small female idea of long-standing incisively and vividly; Heat sows recently " we had been close friends " the secret anguish of marriage of straight jab, showed undisguisedly " marriage of type of bereft of one's spouse " dread.Graph source @ " we had been close friends "
01
Furious, it is at first view of hare elder sister is over after a few collect the directest experience.
0 communication, without communicate, company is short of break, emotional refrigeration, ego is touched... be in love 10 years, marry 7 years, their condition resembles extremely the marriage of most misfortune.
Cannot see sweetness and happiness, those who remain is exhaustion, haste is mixed endless suffer.
They appear early had forgotten, in marriage, what is the most important.
The wife is called: Search (Liu Tao is acted the role of) it is a full-time madam, suffer from serious and depressed.
Marital name is: Forward (Yang Shuo is acted the role of) it is the very busy person that the career has.
Is he busy to what degree?
, he has 300 days is to be in the place besides the home to spend; And that comes home a few days of remnant only time, also be to take nevertheless change wash clothings. At forward, resemble the hotel that is a stop on the way for a rest.Accompany child play, grow?
With wife attentive, communication?
...
All these is extravagant hopes only.
Cannot he understand a wife why to want " the suicide " ?
How doesn't he also understand that to the life forced her on the portion?
"It is better and better that the eye is looking at a day, want why on earth such? Want why on earth such??
He feels right to family loves best, make a lot of a lot of money namely.
Fell ill, ask best doctor to go; Spend birthday, go best dining-room is good; Send a gift, the flower of the freshest beauty is OK, oh, still let subordinate send...
But, he does not know, family needs most it is company all the time, is not a paragraph of son does not experience father consideration, the wife experiences the marriage of type of bereft of one's spouse that is less than the husband to be very fond of!
He forgot to enquire wife and child, what they want is empty after all swing and luxurious big room, or one 3, does constant be laughing and playing fight noisely, the life that talk of everything?
Their 2 people definition to family, spouse and expect, moved toward the direction of polarity.
02
People says to hear a song, see play, most be afraid of feeling with experience.
Very unfortunate, in this drama " marriage of type of bereft of one's spouse " , sense of too much person is the same as experience.
"With teleplay men and women advocate same
Be in love 10 years, marry 7 years
But the life becomes more and more painful "
Not be the woman is made really
It is more important to be accompanied however
Heavenly body of cruel of origin @ actor, similarly hereinafter
"Marry 20 years
The husband became the look that he wants alive hard
Also hope I live into the look that he wants "
But he never has a consideration to pass
The wife wants to live into what appearance after all
What seem to have him only is a dream
And the dream of the wife, not worth to be carried at all
"0 communication, 0 communicate
Leave not happy, gu alone
It is oneself thing, have nothing to do with him "
Be together at the beginning of two people
Your feeling, he is cared about
You have for fear that of a bit sad with grievance
Can not think of
Stay finally, alone still
"Come home everyday very late
Aux would rather watch video, also do not chat, communicate
Saying is for the home and child
Can be this home however more and more lose energy "
It is two fresh people obviously
Became however exist as airy
Marriage, why exhaustion so far?
Saying to earn money desperately everyday is for family
However not be willing to part with or use takes out a bit time to accompany family
It is in so busy day
Love was used up
Passion was used up
...
"At the beginning, lose a fellow worker
Lose a friend next
Lose ego finally
... "
A lot of people feel, the choice that this is her female
Oneself and society derail
Can experience the person that pass only
Just know among them helpless with feel sad
Before paragraph time, a female is in some is secondhand on platform, with 1 yuan price the bag is mailed " reduction sale husband " .
"Pass on reason " your person feels helpless:
Marriage of type of bereft of one's spouse, did not go down too; The husband is not worn for a long time, a month has 28 days to work overtime in the dinner party; Oneself a person looks after children, very painstaking; Last time life of husband and wife still is before half an year;In fact, "Marriage of type of bereft of one's spouse " brings harm, be marriage not just is terminative, still having a lot of consequence is us hard susceptive.
Light depressed be worried; Generate commit suicide idea again; Lose life at this point really even.
27 years old of mothers, take 3 children to commit suicide be addicted to dies
By all account, female this effeminate, for Mu Zegang.
Forgot however, "For Mu Zegang " rear, how much should they pay!
Mom is not preterhuman, they also have helpless when, also have when wanting to abandon.
31 years old of mothers, look after children jump the building commits suicide
Obviously because love greatly, choice marriage, can danger each other love fritter away however finally, this is not marital essence.
The family should be port, those grievance in the life, feel sad, get hurt, sad... should face together with the person that loves most.
All harships in the family and block up, ought to be two people are faced together.
03
Become father compared with the man, the woman becomes mother, more hard.
"Mom " the pressure that should face working career to go up not only, still have be faced with come from spirit mentally, healthy on, on affection self-confidence, social publicly... wait for heavy pressure.
Postpartum and depressed, had become what countless females become mother to need classics cross.
A lot of star ever were pregnant, after production, generate angst, depressed sentiment.
Xie Na once very angst.
After Li Jing gives birth to the child, cry greatly everyday
Qin Hailu also is such, postpartum everyday cry bitterly, lose self-confidence.
Can you invite postpartum restore a group to attend is oneself actor even such?
What is more,the rather that, we wait for Everyman.
It is argumentative that a lot of people can feel postpartum and depressed.
Not be, it is very tired really.
If say the heart is tired can oneself adjust.
Where is the torment on that body?
Bosom prolapse, long gravid lines, senile plaque... these are very common phenomena.
Easier uncared-for be, the problem such as urinary incontinence.
Female star @ella is in mother's day, dispatch discloses him, manufacturing process has bit of affliction, cause an uterus, on the side fall off
"The movement such as leap of sneeze, place, ran can cause urinary incontinence "
If marry the person that is opposite to, he knows you changes in temperature, protect you to help somebody attain his aim, can accompany you to spend this paragraph of flimsy time, that although the body is aching, happiness also is in the heart.
But, in reality, have a lot of broken bits male.
Novice mom is experiencing hardships, but he is outer however,steal raw meat or fish.
That is originally when a woman is the frailest, but he still chose to betray, it is be bitterly disappointed making a person really.
Such story is very much.
More lamentable is, a lot of mom raise the question such as authority because of what worry about the child, and dare not choose to divorce.
A lot of people think the woman is parturient is manage place ought to, reality is not such.
The woman is parturient, it is a choice, it is to pay, it is sacrifice, but not be compulsory!
04
A paragraph of good marriage, it is to show sympathy each other certainly, communicate each other.
What the husband knows a wife is pungent, what the wife also makes allowances for the husband is not easy.
Marital management should rely on both sides.
When marital occurrence problem, also not be the responsibility of one party.
Be like netizen place character, the problem in marriage ought to be the problem between marital wife and contradiction, is not the husband follows the issue between the wife.
There is before very igneous advertisement, cry " agreement of 30 days " .
This is like be being searched to resembling be being mixed ahead, by the husband and wife that life fritter away drops passion, they do not experience love and care, did not have enchanted, did not have passion.
To be tormented each other no longer and be used up, the man puts forward to divorce.
The wife agreed, but hope husband can be in next in a month, fulfil her a few requirements.
It is a few very insignificant minor matter
For example hug
Kiss
Each other feeds eat to feed
After a month, marital discovery, the love that those disappearing and palpitant came back.
His after-thought removes him once acceptance: Hold her in the arms everyday, kiss her, pull her hand.
The ending of the story is satisfactory, two people live sweetly together afresh.
Actually, is actual why such?
A lot of sweethearts, husband and wife feels feeling no longer, because had disloyalty,not be, just get tired of the life, forgot love ought some appearance; Forgot the acceptance at that time and happiness; Forgot be considerate to be consider of the other side, saw oneself only pay and yearn for, oversight the sacrifice of the other side and demand.
Love and marriage, not be one the individual's thing.
Contradictory generation, because,also be not merely a person.
You should let TA know your hope and hope, also should understand TA pay and try hard, after all, choose marriage that momently, we Ceng Chong full confidence, be?
Abandon a paragraph of bad feeling, it is very good decision.
But desertion this a paragraph of OK and very good feeling, not be well-advised choice however.
Marriage, ought to be two people pull a hand to cross a river, not be one individual antagonism world.
