"If I leave, can not have after period " . Do not know why, think of this word every time, the can ineffable bleak in the heart and distressed. The person's lifetime, want to experience too much part for ever, of those arise suddenly parting, often injure the person so that unaware. Life where does not meet, but some face about, it is lifetime really, can not have from after this period, never meet.
Be, the person is born oneself, began it seems that " human relation " build. Give birth to what already decided one day, be like parents, sibling, kin; Have what cause later, like teachers and students, friend, classmate, colleague, neighbour... hand in have depth, affection has shade, after all is person and person a between " predestined relationship " .
People in the same condition help each other, take the Buddhist's view, it is repair 500 years come, does that meet, acquaintance, intersect, photograph agree, bosom friend, date, love each other?
But, a lot of most " have a reason " person, however because get along every day, instead oversight human a due esteem and include. Then, between parental children, produced acting channel; Between sister brothers, read wall conflicting; Between husband and wife, had resentment...
Also have a lot of " have a reason " person, in the flow of time, of the space in cutting off, by thick and weak, eventually as to without; Have more a lot of " have a reason " person, because " habit " the existence of the other side and give, and regard of course as, till lose reason of this one love, have not of ability sigh with regret is cherished, however of regret late already. "Only at that time is common " , if this one word is medium,accept orchid is allowed, included the how much 100 compunction that fold 1000 times and deep feeling of grief.
In the person in my relation, what I expect, be with " well-meaning " for jumping-off place. Although, kindness is unwarrantable do not produce a mistake, do not cause harm; A thing, in what happen at that time, often it is good that we do not know it truly it is bad; This kind expresses the stand or fall of the photograph, this kind expresses the stand or fall of the photograph, often be only " because of " , is not " if really " . Its fruit, perhaps the knot is in several years, ten years, even tens of after year. But, well-intentioned and cause " because of " or " if really " , even if mistake and harm, also should be all mistakes and harm in, most excusable a kind.
And in the person I concern in, what what I expect is terminative one, it is affection no matter all of itself terminative, or be based on what cannot defy a circumstance to fall is terminative (for example dies) , be " each other do not have regret " . Paying is a kind of love; Accept, it is another kind. If each other are complete of the heart pay, the acceptance of whole idea, that even if terminative, also should be " predestined relationship " satisfactory, is not misshapen.
One believes the person of the predestined relationship, the meeting is clear, worldly affection predestined relationship, it is this get together get together, should come loose medicinal powder, when lot is used up, also won't stay momently. Occasionally the lot between person and person, not consistent individual plant is careless, chun Rongqiu of careless passable experience is withered, and shallow predestined relationship, short be like spring dream. as making a dream, after the dream wakes, you stand still before the window of cool wind, what him disclosure returns life again is original, penniless. Just such penniless, whether to return innocence?
In boundless and indistinct sea of faces, each other can meet, acquaintance, intersect, photograph agree, date, love each other, be what kind is commendable! Why to always want " hind after knowing, become aware " , when face the world fugacious, when after lose, just know to cherish?
