Happy house is secondhand Zhang Ao sends the room from Beijing today is on May 20, also be number with the netizens of millions upon millions' initiative and arisen festival -- network Valentine's Day, it is sweethearts people the optimal hour that shows love, also be " cruel dog " optimal date. Be in this day, besides many people can express love to beloved person, still one part person puts love in the heart, stealthily dark loving the other side. Be worth what carry is, small letter serves as one of our at present most commonly used gregarious software, be in this " special " day also go up line a new function. Well-known, limitation of small letter red bag is 200 yuan. Now, small letter red bag is moved to on individual limit 520 yuan, be restricted only today! On May 20 00:00-23:59, as optimal secondary attack, profession for everybody only use, have feeling in order to satisfy (money) the person's demand. So, is the undergraduate dark amour condition how? How many undergraduate has had dark love an object? Whether can you follow dark love an object to profession? Dark love the can right study that what effect to produce with the life? Should profession when be being rejected, how can you do again?
A few days ago, news agency of campus of Chinese youth net is right undergraduate of 859 colleges of countrywide undertook questionnaire is investigated. What interesting data to have among them?
How many undergraduate of ① has had dark love an object?
Investigation shows, the undergraduate of 81.14% expresses to ever had had dark love an object, 11.76% express to never pass dark love an object.
② by dark what advantage is there to attracting an undergraduate on the object body that love?
Investigation shows: Dark love an object " inner sincerity is kind-hearted " " temperament is good " " Yan Zhigao " the choice is most, each have 72.53% , 70.31% choose; with 69.15% students additional, the undergraduate of 62.98% chooses " each other have collective topic and interest interest " ;62.05% chooses to;61.35% of the desire to do better chooses to talent;54.48% chooses ability strong;50.06% to choose achievement outstanding; and family circumstances is good only the undergraduate choice of 21.65% .
Whether can ③ undergraduate follow dark love an object to profession?
Investigation shows: The undergraduate of 52.62% chooses to follow dark love an object to profession, 47.38% choose to won't profession.
What does the cause that ④ causes an undergraduate to not be willing to profession have?
Investigation shows: 54.95% with the undergraduate individual choice of 54.83% " the other side becomes him only friend " and " the other side is too outstanding, oneself do not deserve to go up the other side " ;46.8% chooses to be in " wait for to profession suitably opportunity " ;37.6% expresses " the other side already had a sweet heart " ;27.36% " be afraid that Tan Lian loves to be able to delay bilateral development " ;17.46% thinks " amative cost is big, economic condition does not allow " ; " all round the person objects him talking about love " occupy only 8.85% .
Is ⑤ dark love the study that meets pair of undergraduates and life what to effect produce?
Investigation shows: Because the study of the undergraduate of 34.49% and life are dark love become better, 35.04% think to do not have an influence, 30.27% express dark loved pair of study and life to cause a worry.
⑥ undergraduate once was dark love an object what to business had done?
Investigation shows: Investigation points to show, the undergraduate of 82.19% chooses " let oneself become outstanding hard " , 72.06% are to go " the hobby that tries to know the other side, interest, find collective topic " , 60.65% meetings " go watching opposite party secretly everyday " , 52.85% choices " oneself are dressed up meticulously in in person " , 35.39% meetings " contact actively everyday " .
⑦ is dark during loving, were those missed right dark can the undergraduate that loves an object to profession feel regret?
Investigation shows, the undergraduate of 56.93% expresses not to regret, the undergraduate of 43.07% expresses to regret.
So netizen how does this questionnaire investigate look upon?
@ the first the person oen is in love with: Actually most of feel sad is not dark love, however mutual dark love. Mutual dark love still can differentiate circumstance: 1. Before extinct patience, disclose destroys paper of that one window, sweet. 2. Do not have disclose to destroy that window paper all the time, acerbity. 3. After extinct patience disclose destroys window paper, bitter.
@ flat Xie Yizhou 7448816: Dark love can you make oneself become better? Even if not dark I also meet the person that love very hard, had dark the person that love is very tired instead.
@ 7 fold forest: Had had dark is loving actually 100% ? The purest dark love in the middle school, the university is done not have really the sort of palpitant. Went up age is done not have dark loved, it is a care who, if the other side is chill, meet immediately concentrate on more serious things.
@ imagines date finally: Who dare ah, profession failed to connect a friend even the classmate is not done, meet to feel awkward to must want dead.
In the light of dark love so general in the undergraduate situation, chemistry of Guangdong marine university and environmental college group appoint clerical king Xu Dong expresses, from psychological level, dark love so general in the undergraduate, I feel the likelihood has the reason of two respects: The first, dark love the good; with accessary itself the 2nd, dark the affection that loving is individual one-sided, can be controlled by party and control, have can charge a sex.
About the student dark love impact study and life this one viewpoint, beautiful of afterwards of Zheng of teacher of major of in addition to one's regular job of Sichuan agriculture college thinks, need is adj think, some people because the meeting is dark those who love an object is outstanding and it is better to become, but because the dissatisfaction of mentally is sufficient,some people also are met wait for a reason, produce bad effect thereby, so about dark love this thing, still need to go objectively look upon, go as far as possible avoid or slow down its are negative influence.
So is your experience too dark love? Whether does the data that above questionnaire investigates accord with your experience? You and your dark love an object finally how?
