Right person has how many person in the address book that arteries and veins is not you, also not be how to many person knows you, how many to have with the person of your contact with continuously however.
True person arteries and veins is not to flatter how many your person has, also not be how many the person that is handled by you has, how many does the person that reachs a hand to help you when you are difficult however have.
True person arteries and veins, be absent the friend's amount, and the quality in friendship.
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Once Xiaolin, predestined relationship of wide ties be apt to, wide make friend, very special actively goes knowing the person with mixed all trades and professions, exchange calling card ceaselessly, keep entering all sorts of activities, all sorts of bending over.
Especially other feel regular meeting does poineering work after oneself, be certain person arteries and veins is money arteries and veins, he wants to know more person, at ordinary times the mobile phone also has 34, every atmospherics word keeps noisy, telephone directory is good person of thousands of contact, on holidays wishs a short message a Happy New Year not to close, he expended time of quite a few even money goes accumulating so called " person arteries and veins " .
Be in some day, his poineering company encountered awkward situation, need a lot of circulating fund to run, he did not think, dialed those directly alleged " friend " phone, result actually neither one person is willing to help him. The Xiaolin that is attacked to break down by the fact, paralysis sits on sofa, instantaneous long narrow flag wakes up to reality like that, saw through this it seems that so called " person arteries and veins " .
In fact, he these year accumulate ceaselessly so called those " person arteries and veins " , be general at all hand in, fair-weather friend, when encountering real difficulty, be willing to reach the hand of aid without the person.
He discovers eventually, actually, "Person arteries and veins is useful " it is a nonsense at all.
When your scene, what help to you is being surrounded beside you is not person arteries and veins, the ability that the hand extends to give you warmth toward you when your be frustrated is person arteries and veins.
Should say, making friend more is good, but will make friend really when you so simple thing, become when beginning to manage person arteries and veins, it became very the thing of Babbitt, imperceptible, from " make friend " begin on this thing abstracted.
True person arteries and veins, covering a region, and in sincerity.
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Ever saw so two paragraphs of words, feeling is especially other deep:
Person arteries and veins gets together because of benefit, the friend gets together because of affection, what acquaintance can care you to fly only is tall, and what the friend cares you to fly is tired, acquaintance and friend are different. All friend that are a foundation with the interest are social, want Fu Zhi with equal bargain ability, alleged interest has how old, friendship has many deep. And the friend is having deeper connotation and extension, friend often only then at aimless association, just be true disposition.
When does friendship disappear? Quarter that from arteries and veins of person be callinged. Actually, if static next hearts will discover, age is longer, the more rare opportunity chooses a friend, contrary, more person just is building person arteries and veins helplessly.
Reject all truck that cover a region, should not cover way other people more for self, abandon useless socialization, leave oneself and intimate good friend more time. Understand oneself heart, what is knowing those who want he is true, absorption the thing that does oneself to like to do is very good.
Xu Zhi rub it is Liang Qichao's most beloved child, in Xu Zhi rub after doing obeisance to Liang Qichao to be division, liang Qichao begins to plan for his future, suggest he goes abroad study abroad.
After Xu annals Ma Xuecheng returns, liang Qichao arranges him to hold the position of the English a secretary in charge of sth of library of Beijing loose slope again, be in what Taigeer holds the position of during Taigeerlaihua to be translated.
Annals of all these Xu rub look in the eye, write down in the heart, after Liang Qichao gets a severe disease, xu Zhi rub visit a teacher for many times, die in Liang Qichao hind, the help published the teacher's posthumous manuscript.
True person arteries and veins, be absent perfect, and in provide timely help.
Road, go more more, friend, lost however all the way; The age is older and older, friend more and more not lay one's heart bare; When the sad grievance that has a lot of wants to look for an individual to say, discover it is OK to be not found however the person that pour out.
Everybody is different to the friend's definition, but " open-armed friend " however everybody wants.
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1925, wu Mi recommends Chen Yin scrupulously and respectfully hold the position of Tsinghua university country academic teacher, at that time Tsinghua country the Great Master in the institute comes forth in large numbers, talent many, president Cao Xiangyun puts doubt to this heart, he finds Liang Qichao designedly, ask " Chen Yin scrupulously and respectfully have book? Be a doctor? Be a doctor??
Liang Qichao replies " Mr Chen both neither is a doctor, also do not have composing. " Cao Xiangyun says: "How can he be then country does the institute hold the position of an adviser together with Great Masters?
Liang Qichao says: "The level of Mr Chen is far get the better of me! " later, chen Yin scrupulously and respectfully be hired to enter Tsinghua to become Tsinghua state by abnormality one of 4 big teachers of the institute.
True person arteries and veins, it is each other. You when anything crops up when I endeavor to help, when I encounter difficulty, you also won't look on indifferently. Take trouble, but also do not give a friend picky.
Do not go chasing after a horse, plant with the time that recalls a horse careless, there can be a batch of fine horses when waiting for Chun Nuanhua to leave, hold the post of you to choose. Do not go insinuating painstakingly a person, go perfecting oneself with time, perfect your ability, go treating another person with sincerity, natural meeting has one large quantities of the friend holds the post of you to choose.
True person arteries and veins, covering a region, and in sincerity.
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