Classes are over everyday come home,
Make nice dinner to family,
Hangzhou of this pair of Zhejiang 6 grade man student is young fat (alias) for had been a kind of habit,
Because begin from 3 grade, he had done this thing 3 years.
The home has " small warm male " , those who become Mom should feel glad originally, but small fat Mom however how happy also do not rise, when eating dinner especially, the 100 flavour in the heart are miscellaneous old. She cannot understand from beginning to end, why the son can arrive to studying hutch art crazy degree, know nothing about however on study, achievement in successive years pays a copy. Already arrived nowadays 6 grade, maths takes an exam 1 minute.
Do the child's interest and achievement who after all is light what heavy? How can ability achieve an orderly balance?
Fortunately is, small fat mom and teacher find Hangzhou Normal University early or late square doctor of chief of outpatient service of combination of mental health of adolescent of accessary hospital children, final this perplexes their old issue to get comparative satisfactory settlement.
"Small warm male " 3 grade begin to confuse on kitchen
At the same time achievement is inferior to one year one year however
Square doctor first time and small fat meet, it is to be in his on 6 grade half semester, because study result is bad, pa Mom is taking him to appeal.
"He did not have interest to reading, come back not to do work everyday, pound beat cook food, the pin money that he can take himself goes buying all sorts of feeding material, experiment according to cookbook next. What the dish that I admit to he is burned burns than me now is more delicious good-looking, but the student that he is a 6 grade after all, always cannot from morning till night is studied cook food. " enter consulting room, worried mother starts to talk first.
"I see book makes tired, I also understand the thing that the teacher says not, still be inferior to sleeping. " small fat also none give the impression of weakness, receive a word to speak his aspirations immediately.
Be in small fat before reading one year, small fat father mother decides to let the child go to school to Hangzhou. Regrettablly, small fat studying an aspect, as a child with respect to achievement flatly.
And small fat the interest of pair of hutch art also begins expression to come out from 3 grade, he says frankly, first attempt is for " please " mom, after trying a few times, see pa Mom eats very happily, oneself also are done very have hope, send irremediable then, to studying hutch art is infatuated with even more. After classessing are over everyday, want to be gotten into the kitchen only, to multicoloured feed material to undertake creating, the sort of joyance and contented without express with character.
Face interest and achievement choice difficult problem
The interest that values the child can harvest a surprise
For promotion small fat achievement, parental it may be said was to expend idea. On one hand, request the teacher's keep an eye on, stay after school small fat make up a missed lesson, feigned course of study; On the other hand, listen to a teacher to say the child attends class attention is not centered, they not hesitate the attention summer camp that sends the child to 10 thousand yuan go wanting on expenditure. Just as a result everybody does not wish to see, small the evidence that fat achievement did not improve from beginning to end. The final of 6 grade last term, small fat maths took an examination of 1 minute only, how is enraging the teacher so that do not know this good, be obliged to invite square doctor the school.
Meet again in the child's school and square doctor, small fat father is a bit shy, greet sb actively say: "Actually I had been put down, but his mom cannot be accepted. But his mom cannot be accepted..
"Our husband and wife the literacy rate of two is not high, hope he can rely on to learn the destiny that changes his only, need not rely on to work so like us the life. But how do we say at one's convenience he does not wish to read, english word is carried on the back a long time not next, but the cookbook on TV and magazine, look to remember, come back to see he is in everyday the kitchen is busy I with respect to fire big. " the word of mom is back-to-back father says excitedly.
In fact, when seeing a doctor last, square doctor already was helped small fat had done comprehensive assessment, his intelligence quotient is in medium slant below, have drawback really plus attention, because this appears easily into the situation with bad accomplishment. At that time, she suggests Mom of small fat pa, not be every child it is the makings that read, spend time on take lessons after school with its, still be inferior to make the best use of the circumstances, let the child do the thing that he is interested in, with developing potential as far as possible.
This face before young fat teacher, she still expresses, not be every child suits book of attend a day school this road, and of the child grow to also be not read only this one road. Study originates interest, if the parent and teacher are forcing blindly the child, sooner or later his epiglottis learns. Small fat strong to burning dish to have interest and gifted, as the parent should glad. So, the expectation that can lower pair of child result is worth, develop his interest, to him creation opportunity produces his advantage, arouse his potential.
In the meantime, square doctor also suggests young fat teacher, attend a meeting class of a theme, reveal the opportunity of individual talent to children. Allegedly, small fat hutch art your classmate and teacher exclaim, many people on the spot by him " circle pink " , everybody also has greatly to his view change. Now, 6 grade issue half semester fast past, pa Mom and teacher say little fat progress is very great, can serious listen to a talk, the person also becomes lively, optimistic, self-confident.
