"I am in all the time with the relation of my Mom bad, I want to had been in all the time "

"I am thinking all the time recently, why part is bad, I want to had been in particularly " -- Jiang Wen

Erratic domestic environment brings up strange ginger article disposition

Jiang Wen is to be born in hill of Heibei the Tang Dynasty, in Tang Shan grandmother home spends childhood, just be later all the way flounder, guizhou, Hunan, Beijing.

Jiang Wen has Jiang Wu of a little brother, ginger of a little sister is joyous, joyous to ginger everybody is not ripe, but to Jiang Wu everybody has heard of for certain, fierce of ginger article ginger, grow so that resemble the full brother like twin, but actually, fierce of ginger article ginger, it is uterine child.

Who is unripe father of Jiang Wen, mother why remarry, him Jiang Wen shuts a mouth not to talk, there also is a data on the net, the father in ginger article mouth, with respect to the father that is now, a Laoying is male.

Jiang Wen also does not call Jiang Wen in one's childhood, call Jiang Xiaobing, the name is not a family member to what rise, ginger article when, driving father to not be in the home, mom forgot to give a name to him, the doctor of deliver a child removed Jiang Xiaojun with respect to blurt out.

Interesting is, little brother Jiang Wu also is equal treatment, when the little brother is born, father is not in the home again, mom forgot to have a name to the little brother again, removed Jiang Xiaobing as elder brother Jiang Xiaojun.

Actually the elder in the home gives the name early had risen, fierce of ginger article ginger, but do not have an opportunity to mend one's ways all the time come, also made be used to, go to Beijing of their transfer to 10 years old all the time, taking the advantage of life ground understanding of not ripe nobody, mend his ways immediately came, be eventually renown.

Although Jiang Wen's mom is a teacher, teach Yo person, have pupils everywhere, but to him home child, be like the heart on true not very.

When him Jiang Wen describes him family atmosphere unimaginably queer

Say the home in all the time very happy, giggle, mom all day long takes father happy search happy, all along won't vexed gets along, and include brother little sister inside family, can start work with the armed strength commonly absolutely not howling.

This kind of strange flower settles the way of the problem, this kind of interesting family, brought up Jiang Wen the following additional kind of disposition.

Mom is very strict to Jiangwen.

Likelihood the mother that this is Chinese family, loving mother is defeated more, good mom should be severity in all seriousness.

3 children in the home, ginger article mom feels to want to had been in charge of 3 children, must want to had provided the master of a sailing vessel, jiang Wen serves as cornstalk, the canal is good, other easy to handle, so Jiang Wen and younger sister of brother younger brother and sister encounter different treatment.

As the teacher, mom cannot play a student, but as the mother, ginger article mom is the true article that make a surname, placed approximately slashing daily standard, complain of suffering of article allowing a surname can'ts bear.

Eat a meal to be washed, must wash rice not remnant, have a bit sordid must go back rinse.

Wash clean with respect to article calculating ginger occasionally come back, mom lets Jiang Wen go out to be washed afresh as before

Reason is Jiang Wen often is washed before sordid, the impression that leaves to mom is this bad impression, also must want farewell this to be rinsed so...

Estimation of ginger article heart breaks down, this is to did not catch handle, if be caught by mom a mistake or shortcoming that may be exploited by others, discovery has not serious place, that ability is true " domestic discipline exercised by the head of a feudal household is served, moral fall "

Jiang Wen most those who be afraid of is not to take a beating, get a scolding however, the rebuke of right on the face, be favored with of be favored with, say to calculate most day.

The word that uses him Jiang Wen says, it is oneself enduring rebuke to hit is to have make an appointment, most night often what does mom remember suddenly, jiang Wen by indescribable pull hit, mom still asks: "You know you are wrong which "

Calculate next one all night rebuke.

Jiang Wen is true not dare not serious.

Jiang Wen and mother did not contradict, so nonexistent reconcile

Interview of ginger article be a guest invites in Xu Zhiyuan, jiang Wen says him this all one's life most of failure, it is the relation with the mother.

"I am in all the time with the relation of my Mom bad, I want to had been in all the time "

"I am thinking all the time recently, why part is bad, I want to had been in particularly "

Have a meal with the friend, the friend says, give mom money, buy a house to mom, friend mom is very glad, jiang Wen learned, also buy a house to mom, but ginger article mom is done not have very glad, go not gladly still, live in the log house of native place.

Article giving ginger is depressed and terrible.

Oneself are taken an examination of take an examination of the play in going up, this thinking that this answers mom glad, home of advice note recapture, mom glances, bang, cast an edge, say that has a dress to was not washed, do not talk about this with me, wash the dress to go...

Jiang Wen does not know how to let her see her is glad, do not know how to be handled really.

Want to say mom is slashing all the time, but also not be.

Little brother Jiang Wu takes an examination of Beijing film institute, lose out 3 times, after knowing when mom, a rebuke is done not have, said one encourages a word: "Have nothing to do, son, take an examination of again next year, you are the most marvellous. Come, help me cut bean curd " .

Mom is severe to Jiang Wen.

And the self-identity that Jiang Wen appears to cannot get a mother all the time, perhaps say to calculate get the mother is agreed with, encourage and the mother also won't praise him.

Mom too self-improvement, know Jiang Wen needs to become all the time how person, care about Jiang Wen rarely however experience.

This makes Jiang Wen very bemused also have a place not self-confident.

Mom is not fed up with Jiang Wen, jiang Wen also does not blame mom, although two people are not like others home child close, but did not contradict for certain, reconcile so do not talk to go up.

In Jiang Wen mom looks, serve Jiang Wen's serious and severe means, namely should, jiang Wen also understands, although endeavor to improve,failed, but do not be opposite on behalf of Jiang Wen mom complaint.

Ginger article mom calls Jiang Wen occasionally " draught animal " , this looking in Jiang Wen is love.

Jiang Wen is patted later " the day of sunshine Can " the Si Qin prep above inside is archetypal, it is mom, hit the child easily, evil gout, a bit exaggerative, but have mom sign for certain, at least looks in Jiang Wen.

After nevertheless mom saw this movie later ill, the likelihood was to understand a son how him look upon, but did not apologize, jiang Wen also did not let the meaning that mom apologizes, it is later in solution of ginger unity and coherence in writing, mom the practice at that time is right, it is good for oneself really.

And after mother fault is good, also begin some changes, although there is too much enthusiasm to oneself as before in the life, chat with oneself also no more than is to had eaten to had been drunk, but see others hits the child, also meet phonate checks, teach to bludgeon it is thus clear that, mom also knows dispute is right wrong.

Regretful is, die till mom, jiang Wen also did not find method to make mom a few gladder, if mom also had not said what is particularly enthusiastic.

Jiang Wen also knows probably, this is the mother of Chinese family.

A lot of person caption parties, the family that always takes ginger article failure and frustrate mother child the concern says a thing, be like Jiang Wen and maternal relation is an abyss of suffering forever, forever contradiction is heavy, not be actually.

One is not good at expressing love, meet only comply with heart, the method that uses oneself teachs the child.

A self-doubt, of one mind makes arduous efforts, want a bit cleverer got the mother affirms formidably.

One does not say, one wants to listen.

Only this just.

Which have in the world not to love the Mom of own child, have a few children that hate him mom truly again.