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A few days ago, world-renowned foreign citizen of Chinese origin built Great Master Bei Yuming to die, die at the age of is 102 years old.
" new York Times " write in obituary notice:
"He is elegant sturdy temperament, let him develop the favour of business, enterprise and art gallery at the same time.
He all work, no matter be commercial building or art gallery, achieved innovation and conservative delicate balance. Achieved innovation and conservative delicate balance..
70 old building career, bei Yuming used a construction work of another acclaim as the peak of perfection to conquer the world, house of art of country of the vitreous pyramid that includes Lu float corresponding to 1 in numbered musical notation, Washington east edifice of Bank of China of house, Hong Kong and Suzhou museum.
Over or across 4 continent, spread all over more than 10 countries to leave building legend of Bei Yuming.
And the lifetime of inscription of Yu of shellfish of turn one's head, most of person commend besides " world-class builds a Great Master " , still have " China is exclusive rich those who cross 15 generation is familial " inheritance person the identity.
1917, bei Yuming is born in Guangzhou, ancestors shellfish home is house distinguished family of Wu Zhong, there are 600 old histories in Suzhou.
Thoughout the history, descendants of shellfish family name each is a celebrity, generation gets the better of generation.
Front courtyard of Qing Chaobei admire, it is Suzhou 4 rich one of;
Bei Runsheng of grandfather's younger brother is painty king;
Grandfather Bei Litai, it is China's earliest financier;
Father Bei Zuyi, it is medium the associated author of branch of silver-colored Hong Kong;
Bei Yuming, it is a building " nobel prize " Pu Lici overcomes award winner;
Son Bei Lizhong is haing Buddha brilliant student, two people collaboration designed los angeles to compare large building of office of bank of benefit Mount Hua, have the honor to win " award of los angeles beautification " .
In addition, shellfish family name is familial still had given poetic Bei Qingqiao, bibliophile shellfish cities wall, educationist shellfish season preciouses jade, painter Bei Yuzhao, scientist shellfish Yu canal, grand of economist shellfish world... ...
The ancients says, of gentleman lustre, 5 worlds and behead, riches and honour sends the home, do not cross 3 generation.
Danbei gens, talent many, be continuous incessant, firewood fire according to legend, brilliant up to now.
So, be what makes Wu Zhongbei OK grow to fill 600 years and do not decline?
Someone says, in the antecedents of every thing, hiding its past.
And familial brilliant, inevitable little not the inheritance of domestic wind.
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"In order to produce offspring of involuntary discharge of urine, be inferior to with descendants of heart involuntary discharge of urine "
Shellfish family name sends family history familially, cannot leave two words: One is " sincere " , one is " be apt to " .
Between one's early years, ancestor of shellfish family name opens drug-store to make a living, advocate battalion is herbal.
According to legend is when shellfish of the 3rd acting ancestor and eaves are n/COL the head of a family, one of these day late night, shop is robbed by robber.
Instantly, what Bei Heyu thinks of above all is not protective oneself property, transfer the debt that entrusts business first however.
For a short while, abandon money to take justice big a confusion of voices of fame of shellfish family name, the business at this point flourishing.
And the front courtyard of ancestral shellfish admire of the way that allows shellfish home to be on everybody a group of things with common features truly, also be the person that Le Shanhao uses all the time.
Of famine year, be in when other businessman drive up grain price when, bei Muting is sale of 1/3 of lower the price however.
Sexagenarian old age when, he is the face before shellfish home posterity more, burn down replete the box of the IOU.
The debt inside adds up know exactly about sth ten thousand and two, it is the money that is lent by others, a fire absolved Bei Muting to be pressed in the loan of a huge sum on a lot of person.
It is recumbent this one " sincere " one " be apt to " , the shellfish family name of renown shake China is familial, firewood fire according to legend, last long.
Great-uncle shellfish embellish is born to always say: "In order to produce offspring of involuntary discharge of urine, be inferior to with descendants of heart involuntary discharge of urine, offer as a gift with particular yield descendants,
The lion forest alms that he will be shellfish home private property originally comes out, more contribute money built Cheng Xunyi of shellfish family name village, use provide for, relief clansman.
Peaceful of grandfather shellfish manage is right all the time also Bei Yuming pour exhortation into sb's ear, impart to grandchildren his life experience:
"For politics with heart, celestial bodies of for example north, occupy its place, and of numerous star arch. And of numerous star arch..
Saying path, accumulate the home of be apt to, surely superabundant celebrate.
Gens of shellfish family name is brilliant so far, the answer hides in this one " sincere " one " be apt to " in the mitzvah.
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"Knowledge, it is anybody grabs what do not go "
Bei Yuming lifetime, yo has 3 child one female, the person that has seen his children ever said:
"OK on body of brother of shellfish family name faint feel a kind of noble is temperamental, this results from not simply their illustrious familial history, more important is the sort of in one's heart final self-confident heart plays with what do not cringe absolutely means. More important is the sort of in one's heart final self-confident heart plays with what do not cringe absolutely means..
And this kind is self-confident, result from deep knowledge.
Shellfish family believes from beginning to end, in all belongings, having a bit is anybody grabs what do not go, that is knowledge.
All through the ages of gens of shellfish family name values education, no matter boy girl should go to school.
Father Bei Zuyi is graduated from Suzhou east Wu Daxue Tang Shan engineering college, bei Yuming is junior attend beautiful attend school namely, the son is graduated from haing Buddha university, the daughter is to be in university of Ye of elder brother equal to assiduously study law.
Because ancestors is right,teach just about take seriously, so " the childe elder brother that shellfish home had never given to raise basket stroll bird " , the whole family is heroes completely.
Financier, architect, bibliophile, educationist, scientist, painter...
600 come for years, wu Zhongbei clansman shines brilliantly in each industries, wrote a paragraph of another paragraph romance.
Forest criterion Xu Shui: "If descendants is like me, leave money what to make, virtuous and much can, criterion caustic its annals; Descendants is inferior to me, leave money what to make, I and disobedient, and grow its evil. And grow its evil..
Gold, fame and gain, to filial posterity, do not have profit more certainly, more moment is the cause of disaster probably.
Education, knowledge, was being acquired is all one's life thing, this is anybody loot not.
Those who value education is familial, no matter affairs of human life is transitional, naturally lofty does not fall.
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Not forget one's origin, do not forget a root, take a family seriously
18 years old attend beautiful attend school, after that a few years, great a long time of shellfish Yu inscription is awaited is to live in abroad.
But whenever be asked about he comes from at where, he replies haughtily: "I come from Chinese Suzhou. "I come from Chinese Suzhou..
"I was spent in China absorb the boyhood with the strongest capability, because this has kind of China sex, stay on my body deeply, change very hard also anyhow. I am thrown is a dye-in-the-wood Chinese. I am thrown is a dye-in-the-wood Chinese..
Not forget one's origin, do not forget a root, take a family seriously, this is Bei Yuming to children people inculcate.
Accepting when interviewing, two sons are mentioned, although they are grown in western environment, but in the family, of human relation or very traditional China pattern.
"We the thought of special esteem parents and Confucianist, this is very Oriental idea.
We always insist to dine together together, although we married, my mother also can call together everybody on the weekend rise, have a meal or be to have other activity.
After the mother dies, we often still meet with father.
This kind feels intimately, be important place of the family. Be important place of the family..
Although live in abroad, what when the family meets, they often also also eat is Chinese dish.
Cultivate tall lofty or bottomless to not forget a root, if the person is brilliant not forget one's origin.
The person's biggest money, it is adherence this heart; The brilliance with the largest home, it is harmonious.
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Writer Ma Baiyong once had written a paragraph of such words:
"A familial inheritance, resembling is a superior antique. Resembling is a superior antique..
Classics of its all previous of a lot of people caress with torment, in form sediment of measure of land of silence of the quiet in long time, slowly, this inheritance also as antique same, can wrap the bag oar of maturation of a deep and remote deep, calm Wen Run, sending out old breath.
Antique materiality, inheritance is not had qualitative.
It is invisible, do not feel, however ooze is excellent a group of things with common features in each unborn bone blood, make the mental tie between familial member, make the one part of their disposition and even destiny even. Make the one part of their disposition and even destiny even..
Send the home meekly long, life of poetic book afterwards is long.
Domestic wind is parents teach by personal example as well as verbal instrution, also be the fortune with a the most precious family.
The article originates: Every night YoYo
