"The ancient person that become a major issue, nothing more than face thick heart is black just! " this is thick black the dot of one grand sight that learns make clear the purpose from the very beginning, also spoke thick black learn as immediate as what become a major issue impact, "Thick black hierarch " Li Zongwu is returned with the Cao Cao when the the Three Kingdoms, Liu Bei, Sun Quan 3 male factitious exemples give proof. Really, the man wants a major issue, must grasp a point thick black path, take roundabout way easily otherwise, even die on the vine. What share a man to become a major issue below is thick black 5 gist, accomplish this at 5 o'clock, morning and evening is mixed odd, be destined is the person on the person, it is the Long Feng in the person surely, large fortune.
One, " deep " word gist
Thick black learn so called " deep " , it is be modest about one's skill, let others look not clear, feel do not appear. Have the man of skill the more, can become the man of the important matter the more, often the more be modest about one's skill. Nevertheless, be modest about one's skill is not to hide completely, want to hide properly however, want to understand Cang Feng's art already, force, show your terrible one side appropriately even, let others dare not offend you, perhaps dare not make trouble to you easily, such be modest about one's skill just are thickly black marrow,
Alleged thick black learn " deep " word gist, still have a sense, that is, the man wants a major issue, must sink so that live to enrage, can get oneself firmly, do not encounter what thing panic-stricken, also do not want a family to beg you, agree casually, want to think more when anything crops up, encounter a person to want the frame work since proper end, let, push, such most you also can have minimum the space of an amortize, for instance, when somebody is begged, you can tell him so, this issue is a little troublesome, after allowing me to consider one time to having consideringing, this person is worth to help, and of the side into, that agrees again not late also.
Anyhow, thick black learn " deep " the highest state of word gist lets others know you are fierce namely, but do not know you are much fiercer again, cannot see through your cards in one's hand from beginning to end.
2, " push " word gist
Everybody knows the principle of shadowboxing, cultured is " with Rou Kegang " , thick black those who learn to have different in approach but equally satisfactory in result with shadowboxing is clever, think the man is about to become a major issue, when encountering difficult problem or strong opponent, until the last moment, do not choose hard knock, want however with Rou Kegang, take advantage of an opportunity is dissolved, when handling human relation especially, want to know all things to take superabundant land, "Meal crossing a head does not have, word crossing a head is not told " , such the purpose that your human relation just can be an important matter adds a brick to add tile, is not to increase resistance.
3, " retreat " word gist
Thick black learn to think, be being retreated temporarily is to enter, a lot of moment, retreat ability to obtain better entering only. Of opportune opportune moment " retreat " it is to become vision of important matter man and boldness to reflect, also be very important into important matter ruse. In becoming important matter process, a man does not understand the strategy of retreat in order to advance, it is easy in blind rash advance be rebuffed. Contrary, when you encounter the obstacle that goes hard, when the adversary that perhaps encounters strength six to one, might as well use the thick black gist that removes one condition, beg in order to retreat into, will surely achieve big result more easily than blind rash advance.
4, " install " word gist
Thick black learn to think: "Small muddleheaded, big astute " it is the way that becomes a major issue undoubtedly; If in case is opposite, "Petty thing is prudent, the important matter is muddleheaded " , that is bad, its blame is done be bungled cannot. So, according to " thick black hierarch " Li Zongwu's view, be in important matter process and person contact with, want to learn to use thick face dissimulate, when handling dangerous situation personally especially, whether dissimulate, concerning not only you are final whether into the important matter, probable still issue closes him to rectify an individual to be born!
5, " thick " word gist
Thick black those who learn " thick " have a lot of content, but a bit most essential, say a bit more directly, namely " shameless " . Man, be about to become a major issue, must discuss principles of and rather than of deal with concrete matters relating to work, must want to take out a major issue " shameless " , the courage that is not afraid of lose face comes, china of no less than allows to be not place to say for the manager, "Have the person of shameless only, the person that just can become a success " . Of course, thick black learn so called " shameless " , not be the dignity that makes you complete abandon your, say to want a major issue however, should not answer oneself thing, to the man character, want in this society important matter, not be the face that wants you, want your outer part, want your ability and wisdom however, those who want is your real accomplishment. Succeeded, become a major issue, face and face nature can have, otherwise, without what the person can care about your face, your face. What the word says probably is too straight white, but reality often is such, have what idea again!
