The common saying that ancient time stays gets countless more, but we often know to go up only sentence do not know to fall sentence, perhaps know to fall only sentence do not know to go up sentence.
A lot of people had listened to most propbably a word, namely " laugh at deficient not to laugh at prostitute " , but how many person knows below one of this word? "Laugh at deficient not to laugh at prostitute " , its issueing an ability is classical, announced the 5 words recipe of life
There is a lot of to do not have on the history by book account common saying, but it often is the summary of archaic person a kind of experience to life.
Believe in numerous common saying everybody is right " laugh at deficient not to laugh at prostitute " scarcely is unfamiliar, but below one when very few somebody knows it. Actually its issueing an ability is classical, announced the 5 words recipe of life, that is " help sb to deal with an emergency does not save end " .
Alleged common saying: "Laugh at deficient not to laugh at prostitute " , "Prostitute " not be the woman that shows behavior is bad only, it also points to those hellion, especially a few surfaces are clean scene, but backside is dry however dirty trading person.
But the origin of the money that others won't care about them commonly, feel to want oneself to have money only, others can is opposite their comity 3 minutes, do not have morality at all but character. Same, some person character are very good, however they do not have gold, so some people can look down on them.
This kind of phenomenon is very bad really, person not should so material, need seeing a person evaluates a person in the round, we should establish a good viewpoint of value.
Its common saying: "Help sb to deal with an emergency does not save end " . This word is very good understand, this is us when lending money, must hold to oneself principle.
It is not easy to earn money, whose money is not fresh gale is blown come, it is work laboriously is earned come, when so we are lending money, must a few more discreet, otherwise after the event regrets, that thed loss outweights the gain.
We say first " help sb to deal with an emergency " . Life is alive, everybody can encounter critical issue, encountered main difficulty suddenly when kin friend, at a draught when have enough to meet need does not come over to need to help, we can borrow money to give them. For instance:
1, lend Qian Bangong white happy event
From of old, do red white happy event to a family it is an important matter, encounter such thing, they meet fete kin friend, still neighbor neighbour arrives home in have a meal, this also is a tradition consuetudinary.
But this also is the expense with not little brushstroke, marry now especially, that can be very big brushstroke expense, do not cross this to a family, it is an important matter, if the friend comes for this,lend money so, can borrow.
2, borrow money to go to school
Actually from of old, our country values education very much, mug 10 years of cold windows, not be for some day can stand out.
Cannot teach thoroughly thoroughly again, cannot suffer from the child again painstakingly, learn to can let the child go up, be taught goodly, become to have the promising young person with literate knowledge in the future, make contribution more for the society, so somebody goes to school for the child lend money, this also can borrow.
3, lend Qian Zhi disease
Who meets the person's lifetime when doing not have go to the bad, again iron does not lay the person, have food crops food grains other than wheat and rice, when total meeting falls ill again, help a person one life is gotten the better of make a surname of 7 class float, this is to doing thing of be apt to, thing of much do good works, can have good cable oneself. If be,help so money, this still wants to borrow.
"Do not save end " what meaning be? Not be not to help a poor, want to accurate means method helps them however.
End is not terrible, what we should do is to help them cast off destitute, either blindly give them money, this cannot solve basic problem.
Especially " I am poor I am justifiable " , " I am poor I am glorious " this kind of person is ten million cannot be helped.
Finding pleasure to help others is goodness, but we help a person is line of know how things stand and feel confident of handling them.
This bottom line is, the goodness that cannot let us becomes a kind of disaster. The goodness that does not let us suffers staking, cannot be happy to help a person because of ours more and evil influence of abet evil wind.
Want to cast off poverty, that is about to teach them the method that earn money, teach them and so on of craft, technology for instance, look for a job to wait a moment to them. alleged " award a person to be inferior to giving a person with the fish with fishing " it is this truth, such practice just is real help they.
"Help sb to deal with an emergency does not save end " it is the bottom line that we help a person, also be the recipe that we are an upright person.
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