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Truly cultured person, won't mix because of others oneself are different, gesticulate.
Had you heard a story?
In desert, somebody is carrying a bag, the edge walks along an edge to collect a thing.
Collect a lot of gold, gem all the way, but bag is heavier and heavier, final he is tired fell.
Oasis is in not far place, but he has gone by again without effort.
A lot of moment, the life resembles a bag, install morer, what you bear is heavier;
The society drops a few needless things, ability is in precious life, find real need.
3 view are different, need not put up with
What calls 3 view disagreement?
Some people often " 3 view " hang in mouth edge, the commanding elevation that holds morality with this will criticize censure others, but actually, he just is fond of with the individual evil as judge standard.
Resemble a colleague of my company, take afternoon tea every time, everybody likes Durian to wrap around Sa, he however one face cold-shoulders: "So smelly thing is not detestable also heart " ;
The fellow worker is young beautiful like to read, have second wrote one Shou Xiaoshi hair to be encircled in the friend, he is in next comment: "What to install literary " ;
Company organization travels to Changsha, everybody wants to try local characteristic fastfood strong-smelling preserved bean curd, he begins to spit groove again: "You are good Low, putting advanced dining-room to must not eat roadside to spread out " .
As time passes, everybody is not willing to talk with him. When he leaves his post, still speak plausibly and at length, "The method is different do not be seek. "The method is different do not be seek..
Look in me, this calls selfishness.
Truly cultured person, won't mix because of others oneself are different, gesticulate.
" the analects of confucius " inside have a word: Gentleman is mixed and differ, lilliputian is the same as and be on bad terms.
Cultured person gets along, the point of view that calculates others and oneself is different, also meet each other respect, business has an amount;
And selfish person, the heart does not hold a kind of harmonious and affable manner, become communication quarrel, sentence business quantitative change group by group.
Go together with this kind of person, hard to avoid is exhausted, even bellyful fire.
Life is already such and hard, why again one disaster after another?
Do not have really necessary wasteful on this kind of paltry thing energy, influence mood.
Although we often say: "Sea Na Baichuan, have Rong Naida " ;
But mature person is more reasonable have abandon have, waste time with its, as early call the muster roll of officers and assign them tasks these people give the remainder of one's life please.
Had affirmed the eyes, meet right person
What is called right person?
I had pondered over this problem very long period of time.
One day, I and friend go seeing comedic movie " perfect conjugal bliss " , the affectionate photograph that those who make my impression the deepest is not leading role of male and female is embraced, however the back that doctor officer husband and wife leaves hand in hand.
The wife of official of doctor of member of the Imperial Academy has one to plant often the strange disease of fart, the ordinary person smells strange smelly clinking, but doctor official never is aware of it seems that however.
Later, official of doctor of discovery of brook of hero Shenyang dream actually early lost smell, doctor official also lost position because of this.
He is very bemused why doesn't doctor official plunge into stitch on acupuncture point, restore oneself smell.
Doctor official laughs, the hand that playing a wife closely leaves palace.
I understand suddenly, alleged " right " person, namely can each other are cherished, the person that includes each other.
The likelihood is in eye of the other side, he is not the most perfect, but also a bit is not cloggy of two hearts stand by;
The likelihood is in the process that get along, two people once also had produced contradiction, had quarrelled, had betted energy of life, but the suffering that still can make allowances for the other side finally, those who see the other side is good.
Encounter such person, it is the results with the longest life.
Cannot come again, survive looks
The reader says, "Right person is met in wrong time, how to do? How to do??
In the passing traveller of years, some Jing admired days, became the vermilion mole of mind; Some is tender years, leave inmost Bai Yueguang.
Lot is a very wonderful thing really.
With respect to the edge breaking the bridge in the west lake, white a polite form of address for a young woman once was maintaining an umbrella, in hazy misty rain encounter makes celestial being;
On the beautiful stage that resembles welling balanced in peony, du Li's woman spring unlined upper garment is feeble, affection does not know what to remove, be gone to and deep;
On the You Lun that resembles restraining number in peaceful calm Buddhist nun, ruth prepares to jump when sea commit suicide, encountered the Jackie of humor humour.
However those because of lot comer, also can be used up because of the predestined relationship and leave.
Because Lin Hui of talented woman of the Republic of China takes class hour in Europe, the Xu Zhi that encountered high-spirited and vigorous rub.
One is fragrant age girl, one is tasteful talent, after be familiar with, each other admire two people, like each other.
But be informed Xu Zhi rub marry already, after still having the child, because Lin Hui says absolutely definitely: "If you love me really, cannot let my position at an awkwardness. Cannot let my position at an awkwardness..
She chose to leave finally, abandon this paragraph of feeling that ought not to begin.
Know perfectly well the thing that does not have good outcome, let it go, do not importune a start well and end well.
No less than " be equal to Nuo Cao " in say: Calculate me to be importuned anyhow, the truth is as before over there, also did not move easily.
Since the past cannot come again, be inferior to looking at this point. Sha Liuhai falls, the bright moon still is put.
Survive, become an elegant and easy woman, my life does not need meaningless persistence.
But beg the feel no regret after going all lengths at the heart, the calm after using up 1000 sail too laughs, the not seek fame and wealth after having been through the vicissitudes of life bright annals.
See gain and loss some weaker, see the life some;
This heart is quiet, elegant contented.
A lot of people rush into your life, do not represent everlasting, it is God is arranged only, give you or be fond of or the experience of Bei.
And the joy of life, seeing how many thing clear at you, and depend on your look down on how many thing.
Had walked along bramble of half a lifetime, achievement is easy you; Would rather alone, also not against one's will; Would rather hold regret in the arms, also not put up with.
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