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Amorous person always is troubled by merciless person place, not be the tragiccest accident. Amorous person always is harmed by merciless person place, place deceit, be used, just be the tragiccest accident.
But the word says, amorous always by merciless angry, although merciless person is wrong, but amorous person is difficult also demit its blame. No matter what produced, after all is " two the individual's things " , one wishs to hit to wish to endure.
Amorous person's fatal weak point is " amorous " , this kind of psychology can let a person lose the heart that guard against, believe others easily, come so, be used by deceit, who can you blame?
This kind of thing counteracts the common occurance in marital world in love world, no matter be the man that amorous woman falls in love with a callosity, amorous still man falls in love with a merciless woman, final final result always won't good. If be harmed once only,also stopped with deceit, the key is two such people, a lot of meetings are worry all the time.
Cite a commonner case, a man and a woman part company or divorced, the man is opposite all the time later feminine bear in mind constantly, of one mind thinks the move is compound or resume marriage, once this kind of weakness is captured by the other side, once the other side is the person that has the intention individually, then you won't have good end for certain.
A Lei of 36 years old confronted such issue nowadays, he can say is was harmed by ex-wife again and again. Had divorced, still did not cast off however be used by ex-wife, very lamentable really.
Little picture of A Lei and ex-wife from only then in the position that reachs to be in a kind of imparity eventually, be such when love: A Lei is a honest person, it is absolutely obedience to little picture. And little picture is a strong and strong person, obviously she does not need what to do, a Lei can be subject to, but she still bullies him all the time.
They are twice " amorous person " and " merciless person " , and, saying very hard to go up is between them " each other love each other " , it is one kind is like all the time if not have,have, the condition of keep sb at an arm's length.
A Lei loves her without doubt, but he loves very low-downly, always feel very frustrate, because pay,always cannot get corresponding redound.
Little picture is right A Lei very it's hard to say is gotten going up is love, however the sort of " it is you also go, not be you also go " condition. It is to battling probably A Lei is good bully, it is to battling A Lei is subject to absolutely to her probably, so she just can choose to be together with him!
Actually they had performed the play after divorcing later to pile up in amative process, they had had part company, little picture should part company actively. She looks for A Lei later again later compound, then two people continue together, until marry.
After marrying, the biggest question that appears in their marriage, it is two individual imparity as before: A Lei is acting a good man as always, but little picture did not act the part of good wife from beginning to end however. Although they are husband and wife, but more resembling is patchy move gets along.
Divorce after them, as before little picture puts forward. As to the reason of the divorce, it is her the fact that moves a few fictitiousing zero treats unjustly A Lei, it is to cold-shoulder his end, say he betrays and so on again, it is for divorce mouth anyway not choose character, by hook and crook.
She such woman, also can bully Lei resembling A such honest person. If be other man, probably won't concessional she acts wildly, early abandon she.
Ke Alei is not done cruel-hearted, do less than rejection, turn round her all the time, be subject to absolutely to her all the time, so that be in,divorce on this thing, he also cans say nothing, although in the heart loath, but darling still accepted a divorce.
Have in reality many such man, about emotive everything is being pulled by the woman nose goes. If when two people are together, just be being pulled,nose went to also stop, he is in the key after the divorce, be being pulled as before nose goes.
After the divorce, before he is wanting to be able to resemble this probably, part company that is same, cannot pass how long, little picture can look for him to resume marriage.
He himself has tried hard, but little picture pays no attention to him, then he lives with respect to a person, not again love, also did not marry again, it is a person awaits miraculous happening silently only.
Passed 3 years insensibly, apparently look, he walked out of divorce shadow already completely, had begun new life. But actually, in his heart, be opposite as before ex-wife bear in mind constantly, hold hope to resuming marriage as before.
After 3 years, little picture contacts him actively, make up to actively, he feels miraculous eventuate, oneself eventually when this day. But in fact, this is not what miracle, also not be the resume marriaging that he expects, however the have ulterior motives of ex-wife.
Ex-wife says to want to ask him to help do a few things, he hesitated to agree none, there is any guarding against in the heart, hundred trustful ex-wife.
But, finish when the thing, after ex-wife achieved her goal, pay no attention to him. And he, was bought with his name by ex-wife certain in installment after the product, remain finally only every month is buckled on time paragraph, other whats are done not have. He is ex-wife only the tool to develop outstanding achievement, other whats do not calculate, ex-wife does not have the plan that resumes marriage with him at all.
At that time he just realizes he was cheated, was harmed again by ex-wife:
" divorce 3 years, ex-wife makes up to actively, I think we can resume marriage, the result was made fun of by her however. Had divorced 3 years, be harmed by ex-wife again, want to cry very much. I am hundred accredit she just helps her, but she uses me however. She how give the heart to is so right I ah! I just love her, want to resume marriage with her only, this wrong? Do this deserve to be used? I want to be illogical really! "
This kind of issue that A Lei confronts above is not an exemple, a lot of people had had such lot after part company or divorcing.
The prime cause that A Lei is harmed again by ex-wife has 2:
It is him himself right after the divorce ex-wife bear in mind constantly, of one mind is wanting to resume marriage, when ex-wife makes up to actively, the first impressions are strongest in his heart thinks to want to resume marriage, so with respect to debus all guarding against.
The 2 ex-wife that are him know very well his weakness, know very well his feeling to oneself, so ability can prevail smoothly.
This kind of problem to A Lei it is very lamentable for such man, loving a person greatly, not only the get one's own back that did not get love, be used by the other side instead and cheat, and returned compensate to go up a large sum of money, it is to the loss outweights the gain really.
No matter a person is " spoony " it may not be a bad idea, "Amorous " , once be immersed in A Lei in in that way condition, be cheated very easily, especially by oneself most " accredit " person deceit.
Although,be loved from Utopian angle for very great, but from realistic point of view for, because involve popular feeling unfathomable, the heart that so this some is on guard cannot be lost. Otherwise, by the person that oneself love, the most trustful person is cheated and be used by oneself, you comfort yourself anyway, in the heart won't feel better. (civil / Dong Linxi wells balanced, you have a story, will look for me)
