Actually, if not was to arrive honest hard the condition of hold together, had better not choose to divorce between husband and wife.
After all, marriage is not trifling matter, since decided to want to spend lifetime in all hand in hand at the outset, cannot contradict because of little and setback, at any time and place will " divorce " hang on the mouth.
Want to know, divorce to any family, it is a very sad thing, it is right still to both sides of husband and wife no matter the child, the effect that cause is inestimable.
Some husband and wife, had lived most all one's life together, happen to middleaged, because,return instead a few explicit or the reason of inside and outside makes a divorce.
Little imagine, the consequence of impulsive act bears very hard commonly, a lot of things, do not regret to be able to be redeemed.
So, when you have the impulse of the divorce, ask careful consideration. You should understand, divorce occasionally this thought, it is temporarily actuation only, if you divorce because of this really, that is the beginning that life breaks down.
Especially the person arrives middleaged man, should be domestic stability originally, wife virtuous child the age of filial piety, divorce because of temporarily actuation choice however, that originally the survive with bright before future, can begin collapse, the person arrives middleaged man, also meet of one pace break down.
Someone says, of middleaged man break down, be from " divorce " those who begin.
"Divorce " , give middleaged man brought effect, apparently they can not expect.
Why am I met so say? From the divorce experience of a few middleaged men, can see just a little.
King gentleman, 41 years old, divorce half an yearWhen making a noise snafuly because of bagatelle of a few lives with her every time, I want to divorce with her, original I everyday the work is already enough tired, she takes these life bagatelle to come even irritated I.
Later, I am not willing to endure this kind of life again, divorced with her.
But, after the divorce, I did not go up too however the life that I imagine, be tormented to get like a drowned mouse by the life instead.
Do not understand her pain before, feel she is not willing to help do chore and make a noise greatly because of me the behavior that cry, honest too lose face.
But up-to-date, a person faces fuel, when the way of the world, still also spend the time into one ground chicken feather.
Of the life trifling, the come-and-go of the way of the world, let my hurry-scurry, it is not to know how to should be answered really, lose his head every time when the heart breaks down, what I just understand a wife is not easy.
Mr Liu, 39 years old, divorce one yearI cannot think of, arrived I this age, still can experience a divorce this kind of thing.
After all, marry 15 years with ex-wife, company of 15 years, should not cut off easily so originally, but we still parted company finally.
Because I betrayed her, betrayed our marriage. She cannot bear me to betray marital behavior, put forward to divorce with me stoutly.
When just divorcing, I do not have how old sentimental meaning, still have a chuckle to oneself even, those who feel oneself cast off marriage eventually manacle, can live the life that I want freely.
But, the time that leaves me when him is longer and longer, go to work when me come home again also when neither one person waits for me, when me the mood is depressed, however again also neither one is comforted when accompanying me, I know I am wrong unusual.
The loneliness nowadays and break down, cause. My regret having done sth, also know however, the evening of regret.
Equestrian gentleman, 45 years old, divorce two yearsI and ex-wife divorce that year, when meeting the child wants the university entrance exam high on 3 horses, because fear to affect child learning, so we two people are hiding the truth from him, after attending a college till him, just be opposite everything child reveal everything.
The child is big, he is not willing to accept this fact apparently, accordingly he is waited for all the time do not be willing to come home in the school, also not be willing to see I and his mother, contact Dou Shaozhi usually repeatedly even little.
I know, our divorce gave the child very big blow. When contradicting with child happening again again, my heart appeared eventually crack.
Man of many years old 40, have weeping impulse actually, I regretted, at the outset really not so should actuation choice divorces, make filiation so nervous finally, can be the distress of my heart, who can understand again.
The person arrives middleaged, face the life of this imbroglio, I broke down, and all origin, because,be at the outset the divorce under impulse.
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From inside the life story of these 3 men, we must admit, the divorce arrives to a person for middleaged man, it is however fraud is more than benefit.
So, what if not was to appear,contradicts principly, not was to arrive favour break sentiment absolutely degree, do not choose to divorce easily.
The person arrives middleaged you, do not want innocent thinking, the divorce can resolve all issues, when having, all breaking down beginning when the divorce.
Actually, marriage is be mingled with is worn originally countless brawl and contradiction, accompanying be tired of endlessly and exhaustion, but want you to be managed attentively only, also can manage matrimony so that grow has taste.
So, the man arrived middleaged, when the impulse that has a divorce, must consider cautiously, must not because of temporarily impulse, and make survive regretful.