In Children's Festival eve, I am when the webpage that browse, saw a extremely aching news: River source home of an one's own mother is cruel 7 years old of daughters are young happy, bring about small happy badly-wounded, small happy when sending medical service, had been in shock condition, private parts is badly-wounded, tear off degree to achieve 4 degrees (top level) , blood transfusion 600 milliliter. Small happy uncle introduction, the doctor tells them, if the child sends medical service again late a little while, the child is saved came nevertheless.
Small happy father bilks a gentleman to say when accepting a reporter to interview he is early know the wife hits the child, ever also had said a wife, but after saying, the wife can be hit more firm, if using him, be described even if " like be being hit so that follow pig head " , final this father chose silent. Then, mother of a birds and beasts adds a chill father, brought about childlike female child rob by this is difficult.
Small happy by cruel make this issue, let me never had experienced a word that Yibanxingtailang has said Japanese fictionist so clearly, "Think of parenting, need not take an exam unexpectedly, feeling true is too terrible " . I am the mom of two children, see when me small happy when the ham that is silt blueness completely, tear is in eye socket revolve, I cannot understand a mother what to kind of reason can hit the child into really such.
By last month in and month out, my home 2 treasure fall in nursery school, forehead seamed 4 needles, when the doctor gives the child suture cut, the child cries so that rip a heart to crack lung, my husband feels distressed the ground is overcome, after returning the home, lie on the bed, want collapse general, husband says: "Hear the child to call father I should come home, my leg is hit soft. My leg is hit soft..
October be pregnant, the child breathes in all with us in abdomen in all destiny so long, say the child is the flesh that falls down on maternal body, say the mother can compare father normally more be fond of the child, why can she issue this murderous scheme? We should not annoy solely, return the matter of the deep administrative levels that should ponder over incident backside.
Mention domestic swat child, a lot of people are met respecting a word -- control mood. Indeed, from time to time of angel of child from time to time is diabolical, the child should want only, can be in allow when to await any spatial get into a huff, sit the ground does not rise, blubber, this really very the endurance of test parent. Which parent spank had not hit the child? Working pressure, yo hardships, make our life possibly broken become one ground chicken feather, when hard to avoid has mood out of control, two hand are being laid on the child's buttock is meeting some, can resemble small happy mother abuses the child so for a long time, hit the child black and bluely little little, this is not absolutely " mood " the thing that can carry boiler on the back, the lack that this is parenting responsibility is planted the evil consequence below. Did not have responsibility, parents can be like feline dog to the child.
When life quack dropping ground begins, we just upgrade formally for parents, but parental responsibility is not be born from life begin, however only then at life at the beginning of. When us the decision wants be pregnant with a little life begins, we are about to make the preparation of good parenting, balance degree of maturity of oneself economic atmosphere, intelligence, whether do you wait firm with the sweetheart's feeling, these are alimentary the element with a perfect essential life, if we still do not have a condition to receive a little life, let its accident arrival however, this is irresponsible.
Give birth to big treasure that year to go to a hospital checking, the place that takes assay sheet is in outpatient service of department of gynaecology, in the time that expect, I see a lot of years small girl is discharging a team to become operation of stream of people, see sadness rarely on the face of these girls, was like them to catch a cold, come go to a doctor is same. Give me impression the deepest is the girl with an abdominal obvious apophysis, the nurse asked a few times to whether become an operation certainly, the girl grinning ground says: "Of course " , sat to play game with a boy on bench next, this little life in seeming to do not have an abdomen at all should return a responsibility. I just did a mother in those days, be overcome really, took assay sheet, the leg is being hit quivered to run hurriedly building, in the heart particularly afflictive, often remembering still is not flavor very.
When the be pregnant with in the abdomen when a little life, some people are to have one's heart filled with joyance, whether does the sexual distinction that what some people consider is the child however accord with his desire. The cloud is my elementary school classmate, be about to become the mother of 4 children, she has had 3 daughters, cherishing the 4th embryo right now, already 2 many months. A married woman's parents' home of the husband's family of my little sister and cloud is in same a village, two return have ties of kinship or friendship. Before two days, the cloud and her mom goes looking for my little sister, ask my little sister a strange question: "Which month conceives your bosom son, lunar with solar calendar be when ah? " in judge cloud abdomen with this fetal it is male it is female. I am unthinkable 80 hind, still have so serious heavy male small female idea, desirous son arrived almost crazy degree.
Parents and children are each other donative optimal gift, children is not us demesne belongings, furniture, they must accord with our standard, otherwise we do not love him. Because he is our child, so we should love him, and have nothing to do he is outstanding, beautiful, whether to bring honor and reputation to us.
2, parental responsibility is to be the child to carry have a mountainHad seen first phase program of put together art " mom Mi ah " , one comes from the Sun Yuantao of 41 years old of mothers of bottom of Hunan a surname, because son Ceng Shan of 12 years old is going to school,traffic accident of the experience on the road became plant person, one night became white first. After the child treats 4 months, the doctor tells her medicaments has done not have action to the child, dan Sunyuan peach does not abandon, accompany fine words of small beside the son talk to call everyday, after holding to 140 days, woke up a son eventually.
However, the doctor's what one says during a conversation wrapped up a head to sprinkle a suit cold water to her again, although woke,the doctor says this child, but his memory was lost entirely, he is a little baby, everything should learn to rise afresh, in Sun Yuantao insist to fall with indefatigable effort, the child stood afresh, learned to talk.
But, the destiny did not let off the mother with this pairs of many much more difficult calamity at this point child, because child head does damage, the child became mad like lay a person, see the person is hit, dozen do not wear the person bites him, do not know this mother to go much further even on the way that seeks medical service to the child, but we believe she can hold to all the time, want the child to have only at a heat, she won't abandon.
Rearing a child is not economically abundant possible, compared with economic condition, the painstaking care that nurtures child place flower more the energy that expends a person enrages a god. Never mention it catastrophe of what big calamity, the child throws a Jiao, the knock on the head a bag, we can feel distressed so that sleep to be not worn to become aware. To the child, parents is a hill, no matter what encounter, parents can gnash one's teeth carries it rise, this is the responsibility of parenting, whether had you made this preparation, experience those sealed wind storm rain with the child together, stand together regardless of situation, go through thick and thin together, do not leave be abandoned?
It is easy to give birth to a child, it is difficult to raise a child. Raising the child is not to make his physiology mature, it is OK to grow, consider those year after year " gigantic baby " , how many is there beside us?
Parental responsibility is to bring up child adult, why be an adult? Intelligence is mature, cultured, have take on, can get used to a society, the life that paddle one's own canoe. Neozoic parents is facing a challenge, instantly is a multivariate society, our child is faced with the concussion of a variety of thoughts, unlike we in one's childhood simple in that way, good education, the child but the channel of dabble information is very much, they may know a thing to want than us much, how do we teach the child?
On one hand we cannot resemble older generation father and mother in that way bludgeon education, dozen press the child, the identity that depending on parents can override on the child, many somes of equal communication, understand the psychology of a few children more, our education just is met have a definite object in view, just meet effect is distinct; On the other hand we want with when all is entered, newer Yo idea, review oneself education, let us grow the footstep that catchs up with the child grows.
Anyhow, in parental heart responsible, the ability on the shoulder can have take on, the ability below the foot can have the operation. Rearing the child is a hard cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine, if you do not have ready-made, do not want please cursory, it is easy to do good person, do good father and mother you do not go certainly.
