Write in front: Cancer already was common ill frequently-occurring disease, fish got cancer, not panicky, much study understands knowledge of relevant popular science, ability is faced actively, reason is answered. The article has popular science with case story form, aid you to had crossed the first bank of adversity.
"Cancer " , a be terrified by the sight of sth or sb letting a person, the terrible word of the smitten with fear that hears even, it resembles is falls from the day unidentified substance, drop where, where can make posse in disorder. As me of doctor of tumor specialized subject, of course became friend of close friends, classmate people, the 7 big father's sister that still have them 8 mother's eldest sister people " save chaos big emancipator " .
That is deep autumn afternoon, the sunshine with lazy languid now and then from into piece black clouds backside shows little face a little while. In lab bubble full one morning, tired gobbling up me, drowsiness comes over, wanting to take a nap small rest a little while, the phone rang, it is the Li Jun of middle school classmate that works in foreign land together (alias) hit.
"How can do, my home gives a major issue, is your at the moment available? " appearing in Li Jun's mood flurried, helpless and fretted.
I from the rouse in tired meaning, ask rapidly: "Give a major issue? What major issue to give? " " my father firm fish got cancer, cancer, it is cancer, cancer! " the Li Jun in the phone has begun to sob rise, repeating ceaselessly in the mouth " cancer " two words, it seems that in that way OK will " cancer " cuss takes cancer, every talk about common people cancer needs color changes, can you make a person flurried how?
"What the doctor says my pa is gotten is lymphatic cancer, call us to turn to large hospital as soon as possible. Do you say my pa did not get rescued? How to call us to turn at once otherwise courtyard? toot... " just do not have word of say a few words, li Jun has broken down the ground bursts into tears that in the phone.
Look I this " save chaos big emancipator " get skill.
"Do not have a thing, li Jun, need not be afraid of, that lymphatic cancer that you say is a kind of cancer really, but this kind of cancer has very big cure a hope. Etc meeting you the anamnesis of old father and examination data belt come over, I look first is how to return a responsibility. Need not worry, give I. Give I..
Listen to me so say, ability is cry decibel of Li Jun to fall slowly, but she still is sobbing.
Ring off, my drowsiness already was not had, look up look up at a sky, black clouds already got together more more, a dense mass of a big, obscured completely the sun, the day is complete shade came down. "Day of heavy cabinet has at the beginning of brook cloud, shan Yu is about to come wind full building " , storm, a rainstorm is about soon sweep anything away and come. Agree with Li Jun in the phone, the meeting such as her carry a data, when I fear Li Jun comes from domestic outpace, meeting just in time catchs up with this rainstorm, wanting to want not to hit a phone to make her flat will come again tomorrow in the heart, cancer is a serious illness, but also do not need this half day time, nevertheless with her at the moment anxious mood, can she be willing when tomorrow? Want, still be give u.
About after half hours, li Junru is made an appointment with and come, still have her mother with what she comes along, really " harships blocks impatient person hard " .
Meet, li Jun's mother is more anxious than Li Jun, one is playing my hand: "Is the disease of your father's younger brother hit do not hit closely close? If he has an esp. death, how can I live? " what appearing in mood is fluster and despair completely, I am listening tighten in the heart, had received a sentence rapidly: "Aunt, do not have a thing, true meeting does not have a thing, you need not worry too, I view the anamnesis data that Li Jun carries first. I view the anamnesis data that Li Jun carries first..
Right now Li Jun is to be in a kind of absentminded, condition that be in a state of utter stupefaction as much, listen to me to say to see medical record, just hurry from obtain medical record in the bag hand me. I had been received look, it is the inspection that makes in a small hospital. Treat anamnesis and simple inquiry through reading, we just understand: Li Jun's father feels as a result of before one paragraph the stomach is not quite comfortable, in her a near the home small hospital sees a doctor, arrangement made gastroscope inspection, took vivid check. Abecedarian pathology report considers lymphatic tumour likelihood, the proposal does immune group to change farther diagnose, but be not worth as a result of experience of this hospital make a diagnosis and give treatment, dare not make conclusions, be afraid of delay an illness, make beautiful Jun Fu close turn to large hospital to be checked further as soon as possible so.
This processing is to comparative bear the blame. Can be so " turn as soon as possible courtyard " make Li Jun family random condition, listen " as soon as possible " , frighten naturally die partly, examine minutely the doctor there, doctor explanation says lymphatic tumour is a kind of malignant tumor, namely cancer. Listen " cancer " two words, mother and daughter two more confused god, it seems that doomsday should come.
The know how things stand and feel confident of handling them in my heart, to still wiping the Li Jun of tear the mother says: "Aunt, I a moment ago saw the medical record that Li Jun takes, you ah, do not worry too. This kind of disease that the uncle gets is not quite good disease really, perhaps said directly, also be a kind of cancer. But cancer and cancer can not be same, inside hellion not all is incorrigible, some hellion are passed transforming let him completely likely give up evil and return to good, this is lymphatic cancer, be this kind can let what it gives up evil and return to good ' hellion ' , that is to say, cure likely. We are the next most important is to want to diagnose the patient's condition a few more clearly further, next gift is nice suit the remedy to the case. Next gift is nice suit the remedy to the case..
Li Jun mother again and again light head, li Jun is listening silently seriously aside, when expressional comparing just came, want apparently slow loosen a lot of. I continue to say: "This disease of the uncle, give I will handle, you are at ease, had met for certain. " I dare say so for certain, because be familiar with degree with ours,be above all of course, without giving thought to from the back the circumstance besides occurrence what anticipation, they won't blame at me. They are sufficient credit my, have sufficient credit only, the doctor just dare say to dare be done. The ill affirmation that I assure impossibly of course beautiful Jun Fu is close 100 percent can cure, the goal that says this word is the mainest is " metacentre " .
Lymphatic tumour, namely the lymphatic cancer that common people common weighs, it is malignant tumor really (cancer) a kind, but its cure probability photograph to want than other and most cancer tall, belong to one of malignant tumor that cure possibly. Beautiful Jun Fu is close, what should do next is further examination, the most important is to want to check pathology to diagnose further, divide especially model diagnose, want to clear up it to belong to the lymphatic tumour of which kind of types that is to say, a few does lymphatic tumour have to plant inferior model, different lymphatic tumour inferior model, effect of its remedial strategy, therapy, cure probability different. Actually besides lymphatic tumour, with current medical treatment level, a lot of cancer have the opportunity that cure or lives for a long time, for instance, terminal cancer has early metaphase cancer and share cure a likelihood, many cancer can come true through active comprehensive treatment longer some takes tumour to live. Cancer, do not be equal to hopeless, do not be equal to sentenced capital punishment, old idea must want to discard. Of course, also not be cancer can cure for certain here, but at least you get particular case specific treat.
The black clouds that be all over the sky does not know when to drop off sadly unexpectedly, the rainstorm that is nearly before did not come, the sunshine that Qiu Rihe warms is scattered to the earth again. Through my explanation, the mood of Li Jun and her mother is smooth at long last, but still can see from their eyes: They are not at ease. After all " cancer is incurable disease " the idea is already thorough popular feeling, be afraid by my in a few words only the misgive in eliminating their heart completely hard.
Time is not early, I let Li Jun's mother and daughter two come home first, will take her pa to come along again tomorrow, strive for can let Li Jun's father be admitted to hospital as early as possible, if do not have bed temporarily, make an appointment with respect to preexistence outpatient service arrange a few necessary examinations, the pathology of lymphatic tumour is diagnosed divide especially model diagnose very complex, very look fallibility examine, most can the strength of doctor of test pathology family, the diagnosis that issues to hospital of average basic level, pathology of new review a case in which a death sentence has been passed by a lower court special be necessary, also be to decrease by accident last line of defence of examine. Diagnose besides the pathology to basic level hospital have check or new work check, still can arrange hematology examination and CT to wait at the same time video learn to check, the purpose is the distributinging situation that understands focus of a disease, undertake be mixinged in installment the assessment of prognostic factor, also be the base line examination before formal cure at the same time.
Before be being faced, li Jun and her mother still have what apprehension to be blocked up in the heart to did not speak out it seems that, desire the appearance that character stops again, I am a well-advised person all along, I say: "Li Jun, although speak out,have what worry, not be frowzily in the heart. " Li Jun says: "Will take me tomorrow when old father comes, you do not tell him those who get is what disease first, we worry about him... hiding the truth from him so all the time. We worry about him... hiding the truth from him so all the time..
I say: "Even if you report the examination to Tibet rises, he himself also can ask, he asks you, you do not reply actually worse thing. Tell the truth, I do not advocate you conceal an illness, he is informed sooner or later, early know early cooperate to check cure, do mysteriously, make you old instead pa extremely suspicious thought incurable disease. Be being changed is you, are you willing to be being hidden the truth from so? Are you willing to be being hidden the truth from so??
"The word is so say, I also know the truth, still can be afraid that old father can be overcome, fear he wants to be illogical temporarily have an esp. death. " look so that eat a sth capable of comforting sb to her: "This I am clearer than you of course, once he knows himself,those who get is cancer, sad and sad, mood is low it is inevitable, but he should experience this painful process sooner or later, he is adult, consider the person not always too can't bear biff, the person compares imaginary adamancy actually, and he also is not analphabetic, concealing is not tweak really. You feel distressed he, I also cannot bear euqally heart. Such, this thing gives I, for me, I can hold size, reservation tells him the illness, do not want to be concealed completely, I can master opportunity and duration, you are at ease. You are at ease..
Speak of to conceal an illness to cancer patient this thing, true it is a long story letting a person, go up somehow this problem has particular Chinese distinguishing feature it seems that, the culture setting of likelihood and China, tradition is consuetudinary wait about. Be in China, face cancer this kind of a serious illness, most family member can choose not to tell a patient true patient's condition, namely try every means conceals an illness by every means, and requirement doctor nurse cooperates to conceal an illness together. Conceal an illness to go up to also conduce to protective patient really somehow. Nevertheless, conceal an illness to often also can bring undesirable consequence, for instance some patients do not cooperate cure, reject to treat or cannot hold to cure, this can miss remedial opportunity probably.
So, otherwise should inform an illness to cancer patient, I consider this issue or want particular case concrete analysis, a basic principle is the patient is benefited the biggest change. Face cancer, be conceal or inform, let person kink really sometimes.
Li Jun's father, because found the professional personage of know the business at the beginning, have my hand, be in so see a doctor respect of go to a doctor, need not hold too much heart basically. But most person, know a doctor impossibly, even if knows a doctor, differ also choose a site for the capital is known just the doctor of professional satisfy the need, those who differ is professional, also be just as sometimes lie between hill.
To tumor patient, it is very important that how the society sees a doctor, can say the first key that is decision destiny pits even sometimes. Diagnose and treat way if take wrong way at the beginning,accuse, miss opportunity of optimal make a diagnosis and give treatment possibly. A lot of people think to see a doctor return not simple, do not look to the hospital namely be hanged on the wall or the doctor brief introduction on the net, choose a doctor to register a name next. Which doctor title tall, record of formal schooling tall or honor is much, choose which doctor. Some people are cudgel one's brains for, talk in a roundabout way must hold a relation in the palm to look for acquaintance, think it is OK to looked for acquaintance have nothing worry about. Do not have actually so simple, know how to see a doctor, also be a knowledge.
Do not see the fame of the hospital, scale only when see a doctor. When choosing a doctor, do not want an attention and the reputation that value a doctor, honor, degree, so called even public praise. Want integration analysis. Of course, want to do the homework do completely sufficient it is very difficult, want to learn at ordinary times so, want to accumulate basic medical common sense and tumor knowledge more, the make effort at the last moment is gotten with respect to can demanding difficulty much.
Suggest to a bit homework is done before seeing a doctor, fasten anxious, fasten implicit. Of course, most and ordinary common people is water of a mist to how doing a homework, want to learn at ordinary times so.
See a doctor to be not begged blindly fast, occasionally " urgent " must not, do not come up to ask with respect to rapid move infusion of cure, requirement makes an a bit, treat light examination again, it is clear to also diagnose the disease diagnose the disease without giving thought to, think otherwise doctor ignored, delayed an illness.
Diagnose the basic premise that is proper treatment correctly actually, also be the main base that assures curative effect. But as a result of the patient " urgent " psychological do mischief, often do not wish to wait, hope whats want fast, the process that sees a doctor to be finished quickly sometimes, look for acquaintance everywhere, the hope simplifies to absolve an examination even, occasionally instead the risk is bigger.
Got disease whose metropolis is urgent, the mood is understandable of course, but cancer can not be 29 months have to, it had grown at least several years in your body even, stem from now clear up an illness to need to check, not urgent these 10 days of half moon. You did not clear up a circumstance, the diagnosis of early days and preparative work are done inadequately, be diagnosed for instance and in installment not quite clear, cure cannot some puts die young, alleged " grind a knife not to chop Chai Gong by accident " . Check and diagnose the job before taking cure seriously, clear up the problem first resumptive cure, from go way right as far as possible at the beginning, diagnosing on beautiful time is worthiness forever.
To treating a disease, him patient also should develop subjective activity, participate in come in. Treating a disease cannot be the doctor's thing only, also should be the thing of patient and family member, as patient and family member, should accomplish at least prepare somewhat, do not hit battle off hand.
Treat a disease need uses fund, so, cure is protected so that have (always do not think oneself won't get a serious illness) , commercial insurance also should consider at ordinary times appropriate buy. Besides economy the respect should have reserve at ordinary times, in order to have untimely needs wants, still should want intentional manage to prepare. A lot of people always think cancer won't look for him, once one of these day fish got cancer, do not have thought preparation completely, be at a loss, some is flat abandon cure, some busies seek clever drug of mountebank or highly skilled doctor of folk prescription secret recipe, the result is deceived, was cheated gold still delayed an illness.
Want to accumulate a few basic medicine common sense at ordinary times, to cancer itself should have certain knowledge, can more objective the patient's condition with rational him current look upon, such won't " try anything when in a desperate situation " , also won't random heart, this is the first pace of proper seek medical advice, also be conquer the first pace of cancerous enemy. Psychology is panicky have quite big concern with the depth of understanding.
In addition, the support of society and domestic respect is very important also. The support that comes from society and family is crucial, no less than fights should have very good logistics safeguard, otherwise or calls lost battle at the beginning, or victory fructification is protected hard.
Do sufficient homework, do not hit battle off hand, this homework, you must be gotten had done.
