Heaven and earth has great beauty and not character.
Village says: "The dog does not bark with be apt to for fine, the person is with character of be apt to virtuous. The person is with character of be apt to virtuous..
Conversation should arrange its nature, want proper, the river of depth of water is noiseless, pundit is condescending.
If say eloquent it is a kind of tack, know so silent it is one kind has sagacious maturity more.
01
Believe a lot of people had listened " village · amounts to unripe " in " dumbstruck " story:
Week announce king likes very much cockfighting, hear have a making record (Sh ě Ng) child cockfighting ace, ask him to train cockfighting.
After 10 days, week announce king asks: "My cockfighting how, had trained to do not have? Had trained to do not have??
Discipline child answer: "Still be no good, you see it apparently extremely proud, immanent however extremely coxcombical, such chicken is put have to call lost battle. Such chicken is put have to call lost battle..
Passed 10 days again, week announce king will ask: "How, cockfighting OK now? Cockfighting OK now??
Discipline child answer: "Still be no good, hear noise cries, see shadow jumps, too too blundering. Too too blundering..
Passed 10 days again, week announce king asks again, discipline child still shake his head:
"Still be no good, remain fight high-spirited, the eyes is sharp, personal feeling too too powerful and prosperous. Personal feeling too too powerful and prosperous..
Finally, passed 10 days again, week announce king asks again, discipline child say:
"About the same now OK. Although other chicken is hit cry provoke, it also won't have what change, like looking chicken resembling wood. Such chicken ability is fierce, other chicken did not dare of accept a challenge, see it turned around to escape. See it turned around to escape..
And cockfighting and same, the person talks all one's life, also can divide into these a few phase.
It is not to know first, dare not say;
Was to know next a few, say a lot of;
Finally, was to know a lot of, did not say.
Saying path: Paddy is ripe low spic, the person is ripe in a low voice.
What a person experiences is more, meet more silent play.
Their pose no longer make public, mood gradually hasten is gentle, the manner is apparently genial.
This is not a specification they did not have dash, however little junior flirtatious with insolent.
Have the person of the story, do not like taletelling normally.
Silent, it is the fundamental key of one individual maturity.
02
" moral classics " in say: "The static gentleman that it is impetuous, it is light root again. Break a root gently, impetuous breaks gentleman. Impetuous breaks gentleman..
A person should learn quiet, sedate.
Too flirtatious, can lose working base; Too blundering, can lose those who be an upright person is essential.
Cai Zhizhong is in " village says " in the picture spends a cartoon:
On the head that a mosquito flies to to an ox " with a buzz buzz " the ground makes a noise ceaseless.
This thinking that such act can arouse arrogant anger, but the ox is low head only browse, did not pay attention to it.
Spent period of time, mosquito cries to the ox: "Hello! I should go! I should go!!
Ox still niminy-piminy.
Passed a little while again, mosquito of in a huff cry to the ox: "Hello, I should go really! I should go really!!
The ox still was not turned a deaf ear to.
Final mosquito got angry, loud ground to bovine shout: "I said several times to should go, why do you pay no attention to me? Why do you pay no attention to me??
Bovine head also does not carry unmindful ground says: "When you come, I did not notice you; You should go, what be concerned with to have with me again? What be concerned with to have with me again??
Silent person, won't be disturbed by others oneself rhythm, they not disease not Xu, can include all things everythings on earth.
Cold hill of no less than and pick up the conversation that gets Gu Jin of that paragraph of shock:
"Worldly somebody slanders I, bully I, disgrace me, laugh at me, light I, cheap I, how be in? How be in??
"Should bear him only, let him, avoid him, by him, be able to bear or endure he, respect him, do not manage he, pass a few years again, you and see him. You and see him..
Silent, it is a kind of cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine.
Truly mature person, not be to reject clamour of car Ma Xuan, plant silently in the Xiu Li in the heart however chrysanthemum.
03
" village · knows north to swim " in have talk: "Heaven and earth has great beauty and not character. "Heaven and earth has great beauty and not character..
All immanent and contented people, it is quiet and silent mostly.
" history write down " in the story that one paragraph sees father about Confucius.
Young Confucius learns to be become somewhat, high-spirited and vigorous goes paying a formal visit father.
Just took the door, see if father is same a withered tree is general, stand in hair of the air in the courtyard silently.
Confucius is shaken deeply by this one act, because be in his eye, although right now father is silent not language, however vast is like deep.
Just before parting when, father admonishs well-meaningly Confucius says:
"Tibet of fine Gu Shen is like empty, gentleman fills heart appearance to be like I. Go child arrogance and much desire, voice quality and excessive annals, it is all profitless Yu Zizhi personally. I is accused so child, if just. If just..
A marvelous businessman, hide money money, and appearance seems to be not had for nothing it seems that all;
A cultured gentleman, morality hides inside, and it is foolish and slow that appearance is like it seems that.
Where is what meaning? The highest state that that is to say is an upright person is to be mixed calmly silent, pride of avoid by all means and greedy, bombastic.
Father says: "Dayinxi sound, elephant is aeriform. Elephant is aeriform..
The word is absent much, the key is heft.
Silent, it is a kind of state.
alleged: The person that know not character, character person do not know.
The darkest wisdom is silent mostly, the greatest moral quality also often needs to be mixed restrainedly exercise restraint.
04
Year period, hunan village king rebukes brigade dominates affairs of state 3 years, do not issue government order, do not administer affairs of state.
Chancellery Wu Ju persuades expostulate with with metaphor:
"Have a curassow, do not fly 3 years, do not bleat, silent is breathed, why? Why??
Hunan village king answers: "3 years not volant, it is to grow assistant; Do not bleat, it is to survey the people's attitude. You are at ease, this bird does not fly criterion already, fly towering; Do not cry criterion already, amaze the people with a single brilliant feat. Amaze the people with a single brilliant feat..
As expected, after half an year, hunan village king handles affairs of state personally, stop except crafty sycophant, promote sagely, hunan country rises abruptly quickly, ask vessel Central Plains, hunan village king also makes year 5 bully one of.
Su Shi says: "Rich is watched and take about, thick accumulate and thin hair. Thick accumulate and thin hair..
Silent, it is a kind of loaded adamancy, be a kind of hide one's capacities and bide one's time is low-key.
Mature person, know in silent in saving force.
Say less to be done more, just be the strongest carry out travel.
Have the process with silent resist only, ability enjoys blossomming gratification.
Lu Xun has said: "When me silent when, I feel contented; My general starts to talk, feel empty at the same time. Feel empty at the same time..
Boast father is day-to-day not language, roc fly to 10 thousand lis reticent;
The flower on mountain opens hush, silent of constant effort brings success.
Silent, not be to sink into, know however after accepting or reject, give true ego alive.
Mature person, do not love to say more.
Your silent, have power oneself.
