The world of adult, it is easy to be done not have it seems that 2 words, always was full of hardships and but.
Reality is coercing we lower his head, force our give in, we can escape without the road it seems that, can choose to hold to only.
Break down repeatedly even we not dare aloud, cry to be able to seek an unmanned corner only repeatedly.
Know without the person we smile to have how many tear rear, bright how many hurt Bei rear, perhaps this is adult, strong move is being pretended, the heart that break down dare tear off him to look only.
A lot of people of 1. are met josh, can fight noisely, the surface is very calm, actual mood already it is certain that flooey arrives degree, also won't abreact the mood however come out
When just working, in the company new Kui of a colleague, although do not calculate beautiful but particularly lively and optimistic, appear even do not have a heart to do not have lung, everybody likes her very much.
She just came to groups what a week follows an office is big become one with, the thing that does oneself always still is ardently help someone else, work overtime actively still everyday very late. Dress dresses up also look pretty good still, often still ask everybody to eat cold drink to drink tea with milk at ordinary times, behave very liberally, everybody thinks she is rich 2 generation, feel rich to domestic children is atmosphere, so basic also nobody follows her polite.
Until one day, she offers resignation suddenly, on sectional farewell meeting she just tells us, just went to a company when, her mother just dies, she counts those who spend sadness to faint in the past, wake again, cry greatly every night in the middle of the night, sleep to be not worn, the heart breaks down, but nobody pour out, can lean only by day desperately busy, be opposite desperately we are good, make all sorts of doing amuse us to laugh quite, active office atmosphere, will change oneself line of vision with this.
But arrived in the home, see maternal portrait of the deceased, break down feeling can come over once more, relapse so, she has adjusted eventually now, want to change a city to change an environmental life, still say acknowledgment cooperates with hers since we are so long, did not disrelish her irritated, disrelish her eventful.
Work in the same placing listened look at each other in speechless despair, do not know so optimistic person heart is so bad however, worse is, we unexpectedly neither one person sees.
2. age is older, dare not expose sincerity before others more, can protect oneself with camouflage only
Adult, was used to wearing mask life, for the life, dare not lead backchat with what cursed countless times in the heart; For family, although oneself are unemployed, also want to pretend to go to work everyday, be afraid that family is afraid; For the job, although face the person that does not like, also want smiling face photograph to greet.
Do not have method, the weigh of the life is placed over, we have no alternative, we cannot capricious, we can pretend adamancy only.
What know our heart without the person is flimsy, also dare not tell others, tell family, can cause family to worry; Dare not tell a friend, everybody can have his irritated a load on one's mind, what still do not bother others is good; Dare not tell to work in the same place more, in case let a leader know he is taking mood job, lost the job because of this to the loss outweights the gain.
Then, we are being pretended, oneself open-armed bury, show a person with the mask, his a suit rust has hidden, continue to let oneself look smooth lofty or bottomless, live high-rise.
Actually everybody meets 3. tired, hiding in the heart but, we should learn him cure to hurt ego to grow, continue to live next
Actually a lot of people are such, the life that who there is can be all one's life plain sailing?
No less than " will knock when happiness " the hero of that film increases heart offer, his life is failure undoubtedly, the job is not satisfactory, wife left her, the son can follow him to sleep only toilet, but he is brave adamancy, he is brave and forward for the life, ego is cured, ego cure is hurt, because he returns cherish hope, want to let a son spend superior time, then he struggles in despair everyday, it is however in the hope powerful, hammer into shape ceaselessly oneself.
There is an actor's lines to be able to make moving heart very much in film " if your heart puts a dream, go brave defend it " . It is really such, the life of every adult is not easy, but we still should have a dream in the heart only, able still move, that holds on, do not fear, not hesitant, do not hesitate.
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