An Xuan [astral mark]
need not everyday does busy He Anxuan play hide-and-seek?
A few days ago on homecoming, the enemy A when I read is not seeing his figure tardy.
The phone was urged a few times, be about in us eventually drunk moment, just see him what be late.
A is saying, early should come off work, by an elder entwine, not be his thing originally, slant should pull him to help, helped also calculate, still youth of keep on saying should be done more a bit.
Do finish sth favor neither one, the feeling ate a be unable to speak out about one's grievances. Also had said to the leader, the leader says the youth does not haggle over every ounce however, want to learn to elder more, ate to have a deficit, ability and person are hit into one caboodle.
A Zhengjiao is gotten more hold back was bent.
Such circumstance is on-the-job in field not scarce, a lot of people are in in the job when the thing that encounters inequity, can choose able person should do more work mostly, be in an unfavorable situation is such ground comes blessing to solve his.
Is be in an unfavorable situation blessing really? Can person must much work? Look in me, the improper adult with such true chicken broth, do not suit the adult in duty field more.
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Be in an unfavorable situation is pure interest exchange only
Before a few days, see an article, someone says: The essence that be in an unfavorable situation is the exchange of the interest.
"Be in an unfavorable situation " it is some kind of thing that abandons oneself originally, and " good luck " it is era points to a kind of favour.
Abandon oneself a kind of thing gets another kind of good thing, this kind is in an unfavorable situation even if a kind of interest is exchanged, and be not so called good luck.
And those are willing the person that be in an unfavorable situation, because can have a few,be what thing him fill that oneself want eats is deficient, no matter how this is a kind of naked interest,exchange so, do not buy concern of money of on half wool with what good luck.
So we are in an unfavorable situation, judge this to plant first interest is quits, if quits, be in an unfavorable situation to also be indifferent to; If not quits, return so that weigh in the hand. Present duty field, it is not quits more very.
For instance the youth's labor is paid and harvest, desperately the job, create value for the company, the result still may be compared because of your sex price be replaced not high by others.
For instance present a lot of companies, be apt to even if " hard " " future " " achievement " " go all out in work " , talk about ideal to tell to the youth struggle, let them accept " 996 " duty, work desperately. But actually, you use the 996 fund that obtain a life to trade 3 months, also live not quite ICU charge of a day.
Leaders the machine-made encourage annals story in the mouth always is such:
When that who just took a company, also be age gently, small Bai Yi. But can bear hardships particularly, not plan details, whats work, eliminate own job, the other job that does not involve his issue can be finished seriously, a bit complaint is done not have, so he became a leader very quickly with respect to promotion.
This is stitch precaution needle actually, the suggestion that covert you: Be in an unfavorable situation is blessing!
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Always be in an unfavorable situation, without blessing, remnant is deficient
In duty field, everybody has eaten to have a deficit. Always be somebody stands to persuade you, be in an unfavorable situation is blessing, silent it is gold.
Small recently gain has a topic, your colleague is taking money from your pocket.
I associate suddenly to A, is he worked in the same place to take a that of money from the pocket by him just about? Able person should do more work, be in an unfavorable situation is the excuse that the excuse such as blessing became morality to kidnap.
A was resigning later, he says, always eat this kind of be unable to speak out about one's grievances in the company, eat fortunately much, remnant is deficient, the blessing that which come to?
Now bleed white your, it is a leader not just, still those are carrying the colleague of the old standard that be in an unfavorable situation is blessing. Those want to take the person of person petty gain only, for paralytic the honest person that had not to revolt fortunately, advertise wantonly be in an unfavorable situation is blessing say decline.
Present duty field, it is trap everywhere.
When friend brook is entering office, sign work contract, the manager turns over last page to give him the lot directly. Leafed through a few pages more, say he haggles over every ounce, so big company is not his person.
The brook thinks also is, carried a pen to sign then. Get hurt because of labour later, did not get reasonable safeguard however, the company is so above the contract with respect to avoid a few obligation.
Troubled dimension power program piles at the back of the course, the brook understood a reason, life has this life not to have the future world, sufferred today unjust, can blessing will sign up for tomorrow? It is stitch anaesthetic nevertheless, boil frog as clear water.
People often says: "Be in an unfavorable situation is blessing " , " honest person won't be in an unfavorable situation after all " , the leader often also tells: "We do not let honest person be in an unfavorable situation absolutely " , often also take these words the powerful weapon that works as the thought, inspire people to widen bosom, ready is in an unfavorable situation, be happy to dedicate.
People often also takes these words as axiom, dissuasive people sees Lisaiyi, severe in order to be self restrained, wide in order to need a person.
However, if regard person of ignore simple minded as it all the time so,the pretext of actual profit is mixed excuse, the interest that makes they should be gotten is couldn't get, often work laboriously ground works, be in an unfavorable situation willingly readily, is this can say is be in an unfavorable situation blessing?
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Encounter duty field be unable to speak out about one's grievances, how to answer?
Face be in an unfavorable situation, we must be discriminated first, what can eat fortunately, those can not eat fortunately. If be to be without the morality of the bottom line to kidnap type is in an unfavorable situation, how should we do again:
The first, be in charge of be equal to to oneself haggle over every ounce.
I just entered duty at that time, encounter a young good leader, what thing is willing to say to me.
The salary that once I discover myself and the colleague great disparity that come in together a few, think inside the heart, calculated, just took an unit, go asking for a few, to the person a kind of thing did not make the impression that more or less considering fund, besides, a few money can do what, go why dispute jin, be a fault, what to eat a dot to have fortunately?
Chat with the leader later mention this thing, he says:
Must you go to this kind of circumstance personally how to ask clear finance affairs returns a responsibility? Because be in the job, he himself also may not discover some error, if you are indulgent also this kind of small error, that also cannot discover this problem forever after him, and the loss that brings to you is, all one's life your salary can compare others low a few. These a few are not the problem of money, however an attitude issue.
The be filled wisdom after I listen, went looking for finance affairs to check, was to add less as expected.
The job does not have bagatelle, a lot of moment, we are by the place of unreasonable duty field culture of those established by usage becloud, so that go forgoing oneself profit, will model oneself with this is not the form that cannot take to have a deficit, and the person that at those wanting you are in an unfavorable situation, he wants to see this.
In duty field, some can eat fortunately, some cannot eat fortunately, and be can eat not at all.
Everything is cleared up, do not eat be unable to speak out about one's grievances.
The 2nd, hold to principle bottom line, say NO to inequity.
Once had a case, a citizen is in Xi'an Yong Huichao city shops, this citizen has the habit that retains small bill, after coming home, he discovers, the supermarket sought 4 minutes of his fund less.
Subsequently he calls supermarket customer service, the other side expresses, round is businessman regulation. This citizen thinks this is the compulsive consumption that covert, belong to clause of Xiang Yu the Conqueror. Then one paper lawsuit tells Yong Huichao city the court. Still hit finally won lawsuit.
This is the story of Xi'an citizen Xiao Mianming, look in him, no matter amount size, the legitimate rights and interests of consumer, must want defend. This kind of issue is used far from possibly alleged " be in an unfavorable situation is blessing " " do not lack this bit of cash " will explain.
"This kind of work became much went " abandon strike back because of a person namely, people pays no attention to this the place is little deficient, let a supermarket go up personally in everybody so be without scrupling pull up abb.
Duty field why is not, if the right is encroached today,do not go make a stand against, he will feel you are good tomorrow bully, go with respect to what can become aggravated wanton absurd is, go cheating next person even.
If can be chased after,get back a fair redound so, carry out the action immediately please. We do not have a lot of to eat to the family fortunately, be in an unfavorable situation all the time if going down, a day when always have family put sb out of the way.
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Make a clear distinction between right and wrong, do not suffer bewitch
Most person can have activities of such a kind of psychology more or less, every time oneself ate to have a deficit, can think to be in an unfavorable situation in the heart, beautiful money buys a lesson, won't happen the next time. alleged eat one chasm, long one wisdom, also eat fortunately so feel at ease and justified.
Duty field is like battlefield, the law of jungle, we are in be faced with when be in an unfavorable situation, must make a clear distinction between right and wrong, do not suffer the bewitch that be in an unfavorable situation is blessing idea, some having a deficit, cost is too big, we eat not to rise.
Human nature this be apt to, but be apt to also should have a method to have an attitude, cannot give other evil chance because of our be apt to.
The achievement that works overtime occasionally, became the success of others, endure all kinds of hardships raises the child that is like his to be held in the arms by others greatly general. In duty field you had worked hard quite, learn to protect oneself please, guard a bottom line, tell oneself: Be in an unfavorable situation is not blessing.
The job works hard quite originally, little be in an unfavorable situation, blessing of much save money, just be correct path.
An Xuan is small spit groove
Be in an unfavorable situation is blessing, the ego that is duty field weak only is comforted.
Duty field is jungly, the winner is king. Not on-the-job field is in an unfavorable situation, just be capable to protect oneself person.
The person that not on-the-job field is in an unfavorable situation, it is responsible to what oneself work, to oneself the job becomes the esteem of fruit, to him bottom line hold to.
If be in an unfavorable situation on on-the-job field, how can be everybody answered?
